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writes: I am 18 years old. I work in a supermarket, I also live in a villiage with not many people in it. I have a few friends but I've never been one of the most popular people in the world. I am single. Apparently a girlfriend comes along when shes ready. I'm rarely in places where girls hang. I'm wondering, where do the good/nice girls usually hang out or go? The good girls I have fancied have all been taken so I've had to move on. This was at school and college but I have left both. I did once fancy this single girl but she didn't fancy me so I had to move on.
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reader, ButterflyAway +, writes (15 July 2009):
It sounds kind of corny, but churches and community centres can be good places. But I agree with the former poster - you'll find a nice girl you can identify with if you simply do the things you're into. It gives you both a basis to build your relationship on. Just go for it, she's out there somewhere :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): may be you can change your work. start college, or think what is good according to you is (eg; if church is good according to you goto the church, surely lots of people attend to socialise too)and try to be near that good, and might meet same natured as you one day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): Hi there.
Well, there is not one particular place where "nice" girls hang out. I am 23 years old and have had no luck finding a guy I would consider going out with on a steady basis. That is, I haven't yet found anyone I feel can relate with me to the extent of having a serious relationship.
The only way to greaten your chances is by doing things that interest you. Whether it is books, movies, music or outdoor activities...just go out and do it and try to extend yourself to others who like the same subjects and activities. In time you will find someone who you are attracted to and who is attracted to you.
So, just live your life and a relationship will come to you in time. (The right relationship.)
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