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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it hard to go through college without a parent's support?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) age - I feel so bad, that I can't help my son with his college education . I don't have the money, and it brakes my heart to see, many of his friends, just spoiled to death. Not just that they don't have to take loan, but they don't even work , when school is over in may. They j... (120 words)

Any tips on picking up other guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am a out gay guy, looking to meet other guys, I have had a few boyfriends in the past but that is because I have worked with them. I want to get out onto the gay scene but I am afraid to go in any of the clubs/pubs by myself. Any tips??... (66 words)

I want a tattoo in remembrance of my grandfather

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. I have been thinking about this one for a very long time. My grandpa died a year and about 4 months ago and i would rlly like to get a tat in rememberance of him. he kind of lost himself because he had alzheimer's so most of my life he wasnt himself but i would visit ... (136 words)

Return call so quickly..good news? bad news?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, i wanted to post here because i am feeling very anxious !.i received a phone call today regarding an assessment i had last week for a job as a support worker ( it was on thursday ).Unfortunately,i missed the call and they left a message on my phone saying they were calling ... (155 words)

He really broke my heart and is acting like a jerk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy, luke, left me right after sex. Then he stopped talking to me for a week straight. And when i tried to figure out what was going on with him, he got really pissed off and called me psycho. I was just worried about him, i was also confused as to why he left soon after we ... (515 words)

Bent penis and orgasming too early?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age - i have just met a new man. he got an bent penis, and mayby orgasm to early because of it. Has that got anything to do with each other? Or could it be that he orgasm to quick, because he didn't had a girlfriend for 3 years. I don't know how long he didn't had sex. we slept ... (67 words)

Can tight vaginal muscles damage a penis?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is always extremely worried that I'm too tight and will cause damage to his penis. I have really good control over my vaginal muscles, but usually during orgasm they squeeze down on him and it freaks him out. He says it's too tight and at times painful for him. ... (80 words)

Falling out of love is a possibility even if things seems fine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyyah Everyone I was just wondering Can you fall out of love with your bf/gf if they have done nothing wrong because i was madly in love with my boyfriend dale and now i dont no i feel like i only want to be friends but we have split up before and he cried as he loves ... (127 words)

I'm not emotionally involved in sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and bf have started having sex and whilst I love being with him, I don't think I'm getting any satisfaction from it. On the contrary I still bleed everytime we do it :S I know sex isnt the only thing but I'm starting to feel like its all about him, however he is always a... (196 words)

I'm forcing myself to throw up because I want to be a model

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is freaking out cause he caught me making myself throw up (been doing this for a week). I mean I'm 18 so I'm legally adult and its not like I'm killing myself. But he nags at me because "hurting" myself and he doesn't want to be like his sister (she had bulimia for ... (107 words)

He cheated on me as I was pregnant and made the other woman pregnant too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 2 years and we just had a baby. A few weeks ago I found out that he has another woman 7 months pregnant. So I start investigating about their relationship and turns out they were off and on during the whole time we have been dating. He says tha... (201 words)

We should break up, but for some reason, I'm still with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two weeks straight, all day everyday. We are not use to this because he just moved back to my home town. Now as the second week is coming to its end, we constantly fight. There is no communcation. Basically, I can't have a life without him ... (107 words)

This marriage is not right for me and I cheated

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married 4 16 years and I have cheated several times and just can't stop.I'm not sexually attracted to my h and so I find it outside of the marriage.My h is always wanting it and I turn him away n which it causes problems of course.He has suspected me cheating but I ... (399 words)

How do I define when is it too young or too old to have sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is 15 young to have sex ? i was just wondering what are peaple views on 15 years olds having sex is it too young or an alright age? i would just really like to know what peaple think about it ! thakns ! x... (52 words)

Is it possible to force or lure someone to love another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid: My friend (really, it's a friend this time)is having trouble with a guy friend of hers. I'm asking on this site because I'm not a good person to ask for relationship advice... Anyway, this guy friend is trying to get my friend to fall in love with him, but sh... (192 words)

I feel she needs to be let go, but I am unsure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for over two years and lately it's been pretty tough. Lately, she has been, to be honest, a big pain the ass. She will start fights and get mad at me over dumb little things like forgetting to say “I love you” and what not. She will ... (301 words)

I don't want to use birth control and don't want her to get pregnant

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - when is it ok for me to cum inside my girl???wit no pill and no condoms.. and please dont tell me to use a condom cuz its not the same and i dont want to hear .make her take pills.. ... (43 words)

She wants to be friends but I want more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I moved to another state and my ex broke up with me a month later. I still love her but she is seeing another guy now who is much older then I am. She said she loves me and misses me but when i asked her about it she said she was just vulnerable at the time and that she tells ... (140 words)

There is massive miscommunication between what we really want from each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - (Mod note: please break up your massive wall of text next time with proper paragraph formatting. Many people fall away from such things.) My head is everywhere and I really need help and advice. I'm sorry that this is so long but I felt like all the details needed to be inclu... (1128 words)

I wrote a letter to clear everything up before he died but no avail

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age - my husband has passed away leaving me in terrible mess he never told me he loved towards the end even though i let him no i loved him he never said anything i wrote him a letter asking him to clear every thing up between him an i before he died but to no avail he passed away of ... (63 words)

Why do men have a problem with me not being "lady like"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im an full time auto mechanic and I love it but this really bugs my husband for no reason. Sometimes I do little remodels on our car just for fun or cause I'm bored and I usually take off my wedding band to do so (don't want to loss it). Then my hubby gets at really annoyed ... (158 words)

He takes creepy picture of other girls and is addicted to porn! Should I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half. Anyone can plainly see that were madly in love with each other. In the beginning there were problems with him being faithful and he "talked dirty" with another girl and sent nudes to each other. The ... (388 words)

He says he loves me. Is he waiting for me to ask the question?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have told this guy i fancy him and he said he fancy's me too.. but nothing is happening! We have been talking to each other for months and he says he loves me. I think he may be waiting for me to ask the question?! I don't know what to do :S ... (53 words)

I'm scared of getting hurt if I tell him I love him so how should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Problem! I am with this guy, i'm crazy about him, think about him all the time, want to be with him all the time. Basically i love him. And i want to tell him that i love him. But 1 - I have only loved once before, but that relationship ended badly, and i find myself... (189 words)

I love my boyfriend but I think about girls in sexual ways!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so here goes.. I'm with this guy, love him to bits, seriously love him, never felt like this before. It drives me crazy! BUT... I have a slight thing. I don't know what to do or make of it. You see i do love my boyfriend very much, but i find myself thinkin a... (171 words)

I'm so confused! Should I play hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 29, and my ex is 30. We broke up about 6-7 weeks ago over some serious misunderstandings and misscommunication. Over the course after that breakup, we were talking, but then it faded to nothing. Last monday, she emailed me, and we have been in contact since, and I have ... (315 words)

17 and having errection problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - am a 17 year old boy and have been having erection problems for the last 6 months. About 6 month ago I tried to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time i got inside her but after awhile i got soft and coulnt goback in(it was on the beach and it was cold) Ever since then ... (224 words)

I'm afraid to find happiness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I would love some advice as a single Mum ! My husband walked out on me and my family and is seeing another woman. I was heartbroken. An admirer from my past has telephoned , sent texts and says" he will there for me ". I feel I can never trust another guy , but he seems so ... (66 words)

We need to talk but I don't want to make her uncomfortable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My GF broke up with me a couple months back. To make a long story short, we both began to be unhappy but it was because we thought the other was unhappy with us. I guess you could say it was simply a case of two people being very very close yet unable to communicate when they ... (250 words)

Do men orgasm during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Do men always have an orgasm while having sex? Plus - if they do - should it not be that a woman should orgasm too at the same time? (Just for life to be fair and equal?"... (37 words)

Does wanting to leave him because of no sex make me a bad person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) age - I really wonder , if it s is gearally happening or' Im just alone with this experience. Do over 40 man losing their sex drive usually,or its just me and my husbnand, How common is this? He is totally non sexual. Is this alarming,or the norm? And if I want to leave ,because o... (67 words)

Any chance I can get back with him? Or am I overreacting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Once again, I need advise from our more experienced friends here. Three months ago, I found out my ex was keeping a LDR with another girl since December 2008. So i was so angry that I broke up with him. A week later i took him back only as a friend and he agreed. Yet I re... (715 words)

Should I wait for him to heal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ?? How much is too much?? - my question is.. well i have this crush.. and he's absolutly wonderful. i like him alot and he likes me.. but!! he recently got out of a relationship (as did i) and he's well..(he says)kinda broken from it. but he loves hangin out with me and love... (217 words)

Does he want to get back together or is it just somewhere to rest his head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - sooo my ex boyfriend is one of those quiet guys and doesnt really open up to anyone after all he did loose his mom three years ago and never knew his family so he kinda has fear of women getting close to them and then loosing them wich i understand most days. we have been off ... (187 words)

This lump in my vagina is bleeding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this is a bit weird, i recently started to experience a little pain 'down there' so i decided to check it out. turns out theres a pea size lump just under my clit. im almost 100% sure it wasnt there before. its quite sensitive to touch and is quite painful. the othe... (105 words)

She keeps everything bottled up! Why is she doing this to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been with my partner for 9 years and we have two kids and lived togither untill 3 weeks ago when she said i make her sad and asked me to leave she said she loves me but cant live with me is she just saying she loves me and why is she doing this you dont hurt someone you ... (95 words)

Why I am getting depression now when I enjoy me life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Up to the age of 19 i had no confidence. I was embarrassed about everything and i hated the way i looked and my lack of self worth. i was not enjoying my life. I decided this had to stop and recently i have turned my life around. I really enjoy myself now. I've lost some w... (118 words)

I lost my voice. How do I get it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my voice its been gone for a few days .. I haven't ate or drank anything weird or have strained my vocal cords .. My voice is just gone how do I get it back.. I need a few tips an tricks to help it come back... (49 words)

Thank you! Your advice worked..but how do I keep him this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really thankful to u because your idea worked. I told u about my boyfriend that he neglects me. When I call him he says that he doesn't wanna talk. But after consulting with u I stopped calling him just for one day and then he realized that what was he missing in his ... (224 words)

How do I split from him? He says he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right now I have a boyfriend and we've been together for just 3 months. We're in only in high school so it's not that big of a deal but a relationship is a relationship. I want to break up with him but I have already tried before and he practically cried. He says he really ... (124 words)

I love my ex bf very much, but is it love or should we just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been here a while now! I just have so much emotion! I am so very grateful for this site and all the agony aunts. I love my ex boyfriend very much, even though we havent seen each other in a year, but still keep in contact. However last contact ended in a fight and I ha... (303 words)

10 years and hes seeing this other girl but texting me like we never broke up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so me and my ex were dating for 10 years. We had a pretty good relationship. Then all of a sudden we stop hanging out and seeing eachother. We would still send texts back and forth to eachother like we were still together. come to find out he started to see another girl ... (181 words)

I have to end it with this guy but not sure how...Opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to end it with this really nice guy as i'm just not that into him. but its going to be really unexpected for him and he is going to be heartbroken. i've never had to do this before and i really don't want to do it in person, as its going to be so awkward. Shal... (76 words)

I told him I like him but hes seeing another girl! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18. Ive had a crush on this guy for two years now. I told him two days ago that I liked him but hes seeing someone else. We are still friends and talk to each other a lot. When I asked him if we could have ever been together, he said that hed never seen me in that way; just ... (515 words)

My boyfriend of 7 years split with me. Should I give him space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I give my ex-boyfriend of 7 years his space? I was with my boyfriend for nearly 7 years now. We moved in together a year ago and everything was great, we planned our future and spent all our time together. We have never had any problems in the past and have never c... (312 words)

Shall I send a text for her birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - It will soon be the birthday of my ex from 18 month ago. We work in the same building. The breakup came quick, I found out she had been seeing someone else I walked hurt, asked no questions. from that day we have both have been hot and cold with each other, I guess not quite ... (288 words)

Is my teacher sending signs or is it just my imagination??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - 1) He was sitting down with his legs wide open and I couldn't pass. He looked up and smiled. Then, after a few seconds, he moved his legs and let me pass. 2) Very often, he keeps eye contact; once he was gazing at me so much that he lost concentration and mumbled during t... (641 words)

Should physical intimacy play a minor role in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have had major relationship problems with my boyfriend which have mostly revolved around intimacy/sex. My partner has revealed that he thinks non-sexual things should make up 90 per cent of a relationship and that sexual things should be 10 per cent. No matter what I sa... (149 words)

How do I tell him I've changed my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid. About a year ago i wrote on here when i was thinking about getting back with my ex boyfriend. I did end up getting back with him. I have known him for 4 years now and we have been back together for 10 months. We are also engaged. Which is my problem. He lives in ... (234 words)

My life is a wreck! I'm in love with my husband's brother...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Not sure what to do or how to move on from this? I've been married to a wonderful man for almost 3 years, together for 6. We have 3 beautiful kids. Problem is, I've been in love with his brother for a long time now. He is also married and we have been having an affair off and ... (165 words)

Does anyone have any ideas on what it will cost to see a dentist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this is nothing to do with relationships! but i was wondering if anyone could help me out, im seventeen years old and yeah im coming upto those years where im going to start going into town, clubs, big parties! and i have NO confidence at all! ive only ever had one ... (310 words)

My sister owe's me money! How do I go about getting it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My sister owe's me money since 2006, i keep asking her every month but she promises to give it to me but never does yet she can fix her husbands car every month i am no longer working but that doesn't seen to matter to her and i also have bills to pay and a child to see to i've... (123 words)

What is the method of 'cleanliness' after having sex with my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a married Muslim woman. I want to make sure what is the method of gaining cleanliness after having sex with my husband.... (24 words)

How can I get rid of the mole on my breast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About a year ago a mole has come up on one of my nipples. it bothers me and wont let my boyfriend see them and i've been with him for nearly a year. is there anything i can do to get rid of it or atleast help it go down??... (50 words)

Not having orgasm from sex. What's this about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I've been having sex for over a year now. when I have sex I always feel pleasure from it but never have an orgasm. when I masturbate I always orgasm, quite quickly. Whats this all about?... (39 words)

I hate having these negative feelings about women and it's consuming me....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi where do i start. Im a 27 year old man and im really struggling with handling how much casual sex i see around me, though friends and people i meet out on a night out. Iv just come out of a long relationship almost 6 years. it was over due and was mutual. But i think bein... (571 words)

Please help...I don't have the strength to leave my married man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a relationship with a married man and have been seeing over 11 years now. i have made up my mind to leave him but he is the source of my family and i up keep. what should i do cause i dont have the strenght to leave, i am feeling leaving him right now is wrong and ... (70 words)

Do you think I should meet up with him or is he just using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Earlier this year i got in a relationship with this boy i really like, just like most relationships things went wrong which resulted in us going out separate ways. Left me devastated, i ending up making myself ill. Silly thing to do... But recently we have started talking again ... (134 words)

Do I have a right to be mad at her for breaking my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend broke up with me 4 months ago. She was my first love and I've never gone through so much pain. She has already found another guy. She started hanging out with him only two weeks after we broke up and it hurts so much and makes me so mad. But she thinks I have no ... (95 words)

I feel like a dirty, cheating tramp! Please help....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i really need some help as i just feel awful. i feel as thought i can never forgive myself for something i did, 6 years ago i was friends with a guy at work. i liked him a lot to talk to and he made me laugh. i ws engaged to another guy at the time who i felt didnt... (451 words)

I need Male opinions on this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I liked a guy a few years ago, though he rejected me when he was drunk about 4 times. He didn't care. He does the same sport as me, I left it for 2 years and I fell behind, now he's away ahead of me and he the same age as me. Now I'll never catch I'll be 33 years of age by the ... (297 words)

I feel I have to make myself sick after eating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - lately i've been making myself sick after anything i eat. i don't binge but feel i hav to make myself sick. i feel like i'm doing nothing wrong as i'm doing it to lose weight bu started doing it more lately due to stress. do i have a problem?... (49 words)

I want to have sex with b/f but I'm afraid he'll leave me if we do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Since four years i am having a boyfriend. We have kissed and hugged each other many times, but no sex. For the last 4 years he is insisting me to have sex, but i never agreed. I have fear in my mind that he will use me and will leave me after that. When i ask him about his ... (121 words)

She says we shouldn't need physical contact all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all. So as the title suggests, all me and my partner seem to do is argue over things. We have been together 9 months and we both love each other very much, but its all starting to get a bit too much. Last night we had a row over how often we make love. My partner h... (347 words)

Fiance is being very secretive and its got me very worried!

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i need some help im so confused. im 3months pregnant with my fiance's bby, we have been together a year now but i think hes cheating on me! hes lied to me in the past about where he was going n stuff, he told me 6months later, he said he dint tell me cus id jump to ... (217 words)

I feel at my age I'll never meet someone nice again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age - I am 49 years old and very lonely. The last man I dated turned out to be very controlling and was very weird. I haven't dated anyone else, and I'm afraid of internet dating (afraid I will meet another psycho who misrepresents himself). I have just been waiting--hoping ... (161 words)

Is it his pressure? Or do I want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there... I started dating my ex boyfriend about 7 months ago, we broke up about 4 months ago but I have been in communication with him every day since. At the beginning of the relationship he was absolutely desperate for me and would do anything to take me out and spoi... (611 words)

Lack of trust/insecurities caused breakup, how do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid.... My fiance has recently broken up with me because of my insecurities and lack of trust. Thing were going fine, marrage was only 6 months away but she relocated and we were having a long distance relationship for 6 months. Things were going ok, i wo... (171 words)

Ex boyfriend is threatening me and I'm worried he'll try to take the baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i know i will probably be pre judged but im 17 and im due my baby in the begining of october. i dont quite think its a question im going to ask, but i feel so down and low at the minute, and i just feel like i need to let everything out! and also, not an answer to a questi... (921 words)

Do I chuck 16 months with ex and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles. I have recently written on here before maybe 2-3 weeks ago, about how i had started to like another boy that i had only known for 2 weeks, when i had a boyfriend that id been with for 16 months. Well il update everyone before i ask my question. My boy... (583 words)

Is she being influenced to say this?

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question abou my ex. We recently broke up from our long distance relationship for good. (broken up several times) Mainly do to my deploying. I finally lost it in an arguement when i was called selfish,(which I honestly have never been to her...always making room for ... (315 words)

Why am I feeling jealous about other girls if I don't want to date him?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, its my first time on this advice site, so im here for advice recently my best friend has told me that he has feelings for me. background information: we dated about a year ago for only around a month, we didn't know each other very well and things were a bit ... (256 words)

Time to move on?

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Could use some advice. My girlfriend broke up with me. Over a huge misubderstanding, she has not given me a chance to explain. We agreed to meet and talk last Friday. I contacted her in the morning and she took the entire day to get back to me to say sorry she is busy, by text. ... (133 words)

Had oral sex with friend's married mom..now what?

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - We had a party at my friend's place a couple weeks back. I got trashed and passed out. When I woke up, his mom was there. So she was telling me their marriage isn't doing too good. They are in counseling but she wants to separate. We were talking about relationships, and ... (182 words)

Husband constantly brings up past issues, what should I do?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 12 years, we have 4 children, and I am a stay at home mom. He controls everything, in the 12 years we have had our ups and downs, and mostly because I tend to not tell the truth about situations because his reactions tend to scare me. Four ... (284 words)

She's dated all my friends but wont date me!

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok there's this girl I really like and she's dated ALL my close friends but she won't date me. I know she likes me but she won't date me. She's even admitted to liking me to my face. but she's been so cold to me since this "incident". One track day We had a dissagreement about ... (88 words)

Why was the first time so wonderful and the second time so horrible?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is an akward thing to talk about with friends etc.. so i hope you guys can help me out a little :) ive been with my boyfriend now for 18 months almost, i absolutly love him to pieces! hes amazing, hes the sort of guy who might not spend alot of money on me, but he puts a ... (387 words)

Did I have a seizure?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this isnt the right site to ask this, but i cant seem to find any suitable sites so i was wondering if any 1 could help me? last night i was on my way home from work in a taxi, with me was my manager. i remember siutting there, just glad to be going home as i was tired. so th... (184 words)

I'll be a complete outcast with his family

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - (I'm 16, just to stop any confusion) I have this little problem that I'm over thinking. My boyfriend has gotten a once in a life time opportunity ahead of him and me and his daughter who I love are going with him. Yesterday my boyfriend texted me excited saying that hi... (358 words)

Mixing business with pleasure?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - does that saying stand true never mix business with pleasure. when to people who work and play sport with in a competitive environment... (24 words)

I want to be more confident!

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Im a queiter person, single,do shift work, (which makes it hard to have a regualr hobbie or join a group) and live alone and not close to family,w who dont even live in my city. I like my job and I have a few close friends, who i see occasioanally, and who I enjoy seeing ... (295 words)

I know I need to get over him, but he's beign so callous!

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Wow, ok, I have a huge problem getting over my ex boyfriend, because he was my first love, at 23. The relationship lasted for a year and a half. He has 2 MSN accounts, one with his real name, and one with a fake name. I met him online, on his fake account, so i know what that ... (234 words)

Why do guys like you when you are already taken?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i was talking to this guy trevor (i like him alot) and my current boy freind (jerid) b 4 we satrted dating and then jarid asked me out but i was trying to get trevor to ask me out so finnaly i just said yes to jarid and then trevor asked me out i don't want to end it with ... (108 words)

I don't feel like my life is complete and goals seem so out of reach!

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 23 female. ive got a good home lots of pets a bit in debt but working on it. but i just dont feel like my lifes complete and my goals feel so far out of reach with the way things have went finacially in this world before say 8 yrs ago nothing was impossible in fact it was ... (292 words)

I hurt him, cheated and now want him back

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a long distant relationship for 2 years with my bestfriend of 4 years and I cheated on him with my ex-boyfriend. When my fiance finally came home he broke up with me. He says he does not see me the way he once did. We continued to hang out and I ended up pregnant. We ... (138 words)

Sex has no spice!

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am in a gay committed relationship with my boyfriend and he says he loves me but the sex has gotten no taste and just wanted to know how i could spice it up and prevent him from leaving me cuz i am really in love with him for three years and wqant to keep it strong.... (57 words)

3 years and now he wants a break!

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - if your a 3 year relationship and he asks for break should i give him space and how will i know were going to get back together and is it good to be friends?... (34 words)

Should I take the baby and go?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Been with my boyfriend almost two years. Its not been happy because i moved 2000 miles for him. And we now have a baby together. Im not happy and hes secretly cyber cheating on me. He doesnt think i know. Whats the best advice? Should i keep trying or take the baby and go? ... (54 words)

I'm not good at figuring out the signs if a guy is interested

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for about a month after knowing him for a couple of months before that. Before meeting him, it's been a long time since I've done any dating so I'm out of practice at reading any signs and I'm not sure how much he's interested in me. Also, as a side ... (298 words)

Whenever we made plans they didn't work out and now I think she doesn't like me

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so im really shy around everybody that i dont know well and i really like this girl. we used to talk everyday and we made plans to hang out this one day(im not in town that much) and it didnt work out so we made plans the next day and again it didnt work out and the next day ... (192 words)

I called her a random celebrity name while having sex!

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was making love with my fiance and by mistake I call her an random celebrity name. She got really upset, then angry she threw her engagement ring at me then she went her friend's. I called her friend (my fiance wouldn`t pick up) and ask her to tell my fiance to come home but ... (74 words)

Now that we are back together, he's not showing me love and respect. Any advice?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I just got back together after taking a break for a few weeks. I initiated the break because I just wasn't feeling respected or appreciated. He would forget to call me, not show up for a date and then have some lame excuse, saying he is sorry, but not ... (406 words)

Does she not take me seriously because of my age?

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok everyone i need some advice.... I'm 22 and recently i've met a girl who is 29(the most beautiful girl i've ever met). I started talkin to her and we hit it off pretty good. A few weeks went by where we just talked and finally we got together and everything went great... ... (88 words)

Should this size of a toy cause me pain?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently bought my first d*ldo, and its diameter is 2". Based on all of the ones I looked at, the diameter was on the low-average end, with the smallest one's being 1.75" and others going 3" or larger. I figured that the 2" would be just fine Frankly, the toy seems to... (163 words)

It's so awkward talking to this guy that asked me out!

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok this guy i really liked FINALLY asked me out! But.. my parents dont know. If i told them they would say i have to say no. The guy asked me out on msn wen i was at my friends sleepover. This happened during the summer. I'm 13 btw. And we talk on msn for awhile. Its not that ... (130 words)

Too tight to have sex?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my vagina is WAY too tight to have sex. it hurts if i try to use a dildo when i masturbate, and my muscles are so tight that there is simply no way to fit a normal sized penis in there. and if there was some way to forcibly insert, sex would be painful and uncomfortable. ... (190 words)

What should I change my name to?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've decided to legally change my name. I've been unhappy with my name since I was a child, and I've decided that life is too short to live with a name that makes you miserable. The reason I hate my full name is because I con't identify with it. I have a very common full... (358 words)

He's obsessed with sleeping around! Can he still be in love though?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - how is it possible that a man can ever be truly committed to someone when they're all so obsessed with sleeping around? how can a man fall in love with anyone, when all they're concerned with is tits and ass? i know it happens--that men fall in love. but i don't ever want ... (230 words)

I love my guy, but his family's intrusiveness is causing so much stress on our relationship!

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He is 25 years old and recently he purchased his own home. His family is having a difficult time dealing with him moving on with his own life, and guilts him into spending time with them and not me. We had plans with friends ... (150 words)

Love sick for my step-cousin: how do I show her I love her?

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, i've got this step cousin that i'm starting to love over the years. We've slept together couple times, tease each other and we're closer than our own cousins. Now it's to the point where i'm love sick over her. If you could i need help on some steps to show her that i ... (56 words)

I want my ex back, I still love her and now she's seeing someone new!

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I need help, i was dating a girl for 5 months and it was going amazing. We were both really in love and i thought it would never end. Then she broke up with me out of the blue, said that she needed to concentrate on her exams and she couldnt do that cos she spent al... (338 words)

How can I find a friend who likes me because of my personality, not my looks?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I find it very difficult to make and keep friends. I am an attractive, 21 year old girl, however I find my good looks a burden. I feel that it is quite a taboo subject to talk about as it is not acceptable in our society to be confident in our outward appearance, however I find ... (209 words)

Is there anything I can do to avoid hurting 1 (or both) of them?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I moved about 1000 km from my home town a few months ago. Before I moved, I was seeing this guy but we didn't get serious for a few reasons - 1) he got badly hurt by his ex and needed to work through some things before he could think about getting into anything serious. 2) we ... (427 words)

Should I call him tomorrow even though he didn't reply to my text?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I called this guy i really care about. I was in town,and wanted 2 see if we could hang out. He says what happen 2 letting me know your coming ahead of time? He says u gotta let me know. I normally let him know. I text him,and tried talking him into hanging out again. He didn't ... (162 words)

She smelled my perfume in her car, does she know that her husband cheated with me?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 and hes 40 and hes married with 2 young kids, and we had sex in his car last night, and this morning his wife got in his car and she said she could smell perfume, he said it was his mums perfume, do you think his wife knows?... (50 words)

We have no chemistry, but I stay with him because I have no one else...

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6 July 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I am dating my ex that I divorced 10 yrs ago that I was only married to for 2wks .He is nice but for me there is no chemistry, I don't want to be intimate with him. I sometimes feel I am dating him him cause I am not dating anyone else. I guess I like him as a friend and that ... (122 words)

How can I keep continuing our flirty friendship without seeming too interested?

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, here goes: I was dating a girl that I was a really good friend with. We knew each other for a year and a half before that time. Her kids love me to death and mine love her and her kids. Well, about March of this year we started to actively do things together. Wen... (716 words)

Tan blondes or Fair blondes? Which do you honestly find more attractive?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was told by a one of my guy friends that I would be much more attractive if I had darker skin. I have naturally light blonde hair and blue eyes and my skin is very fair. I am not white and pale like a ghost but I am not tan either. He told me I need to go tanning at a salon, ... (147 words)

Should I get male enhancement pills, does size matter that much to women?

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 18 years old and my dick is about 6 inches and whenever i show it to a girl i get embarrassed and i've actually thought about taking male enhancement to make it bigger ..does size matter to any of you women?... (48 words)

Boyfriend cheated, do I give him a second chance?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Long story short, my LDR boyfriend recently confessed to have cheated on me multiple times with a FWB the past days and I'm really devastated, I've cried too much since he told me this. Now, he confessed on his own and without pressure coming from me. I decided to break up with ... (245 words)

How to keep the outside influences out of our marriage?

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for just under two years now to my second wife. I have two children from my previous marriage. My wife now is great with the kids and i love her more for it then she knows. We have been having a lot of other problems in our marriage and i feel like there are ... (144 words)

Where is our friendship going?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is our friendship moving in a different direction? I'm not real sure how to take this. He's my neighbor - a 42 year old single male. I'm a 29 year old single female. We are really good friends and sort of have a brother/sister type relationship. Lately, things have been ... (407 words)

Rash under my foreskin?

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6 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Last night I noticed the head of my uncircumcised penis was a bit read at the top under the foreskin. It sort of looks like a rash. Any idea what this could be and should I be worried? It isn't itchy or even uncomfortable.... (44 words)

He doesn't ever get jealous -- does he really care?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey , well i've been seen this guy for a year now and i've noticed that he's not jealous at all , he sees me talking to guys all the time and am a very good looking girl and he doesnt seem to care at all if guys look at me or flirt with me and it makes me feel like he doesnt ... (85 words)

My best friend has been odd with me lately ...

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately my best mate has become really odd with me. At the start we were such great friends. I dont know what to do because we have been best friends for five years and since we left high school she no longer wants to talk to me anymore, she wont go out on weekends with me and ... (294 words)

I'm feeling unloved and thinking of ending the relationship -- advice?

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I'm 16 years old and I have a bit of a problem. I've been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months. He broke up with me last year, but we got back together and everything has been going reasonably well since we got back together a few months ago. School has just ... (267 words)

3 years later and I'm still not over him

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6 July 2009 (F)

age - I had an afair with a man that was married for four years. well 3yrs ago it ended. He had got a divorce just amonth before we split. Then he discovers he has Leukimia and is hospitalized for weeks. we had everything in common loved to fish ride harleys grill out and loved to ... (147 words)

I used to be able to orgasm but I can't anymore

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6 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be able to orgasm but i cant anymore now just before i orgasm i get really sensitive, too sensitive,its horrible, and this prevents me from reaching orgasm. Ive never had this problem before and it only started 3 weeks ago, and its not my boyfriends fault because he... (97 words)