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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What should I do about my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a big problem. For some reason, my husband won't tell anyone he is married. We have only been married a month. He really hurt my feelings as there is a wedding photo of us on the wall and I noticed this morning it was hidden behind some basket thing. Then I notice... (142 words)

I want a boyfriend... I seriously do!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey cupid, i'm 14 years old and i have had one boyfriend and he was my 3 year crush. we went out for 3 months and we broke up. blah blah blah but now its been about 5 months since we broke up.. i see everyone with a boyfriend and kissing/hugging/holding hands..etc and I feel ... (162 words)

Summer makeover tips to be less ugly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey,I'm 14 years old I'm getting my braces off in less than ten days. I'm scared that it's gonna look gross cuz i actually liked wearing braces. Plus I'm gonna use crest white strips for whiter teeth and stuff but im still nervous.. I'm not ugly but not hot either, i have h... (153 words)

I am going CRAZY. I don't want to just let go and regret it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this is probably a common question but I haven't been able to pinpoint a situation that I feel I can completely relate to. I have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now (I'm 19 and she's 24). The first half of our relationship was amazing. We hung a lot but ... (502 words)

Guys: do you normally 'check out' good looking girls? Ladies: are you bothered by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my question is out there mainly for the guys but ladies theres one for you to: is it true that most men so called "check out" any girl who is showing a bit of flesh or has a perfect figure i.e big breasts and big bottom lol? is it almost "natural" to you guys for doing s... (137 words)

Period problems and "spotting"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! i recently i had been spotting for about four days, then it stopped for about three days, and now i am bleeding heavily! I dont know what is wrong with me. :( can anybody help me?... (39 words)

He says I'm hotter than his wife and we have sex, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We see each other whenever we can, he calls me beautiful and says im hotter than his wife and hasn't seen anyone hotter than me. He speaks to me nearly everyday and everytime we see each other we have sex in his car, i really like him and want him to leave his wife for me, hes ... (79 words)

I don't know what to make of all this, can you shed some light on it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't understand what's going on. My boyfriend has a few issues with confidence and things of this nature. Recently they have become a massive problem and he said that he may need a break, but he doesn't even know if it would help him. So at the moment i've told him he can ... (197 words)

I've never made out before and I'm really nervous for my first time... any way to practise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive never made out before and im really nervous for my first time...does anyone know a good way for me to practice?... (22 words)

How do you tell how a man feels about you when he won't talk?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age - How do you tell how a man feels about you when he want talk? My relationship with my b/f has spanned 23 years. Not all toghether. We have a child. We had great sex. He was great with my older kids. I have pulled away because I dont know how he feels, he wont talk or ... (203 words)

Are his feelings still true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - a few months ago my boyfriend ended our relationship. Hes in the army and he was away for 8 months. He came back and within a few days he text me after me returning home from his with a text "i dont feel like its working out, it feels awkward"... I was devasated to say the ... (238 words)

I really hope I'm not pregnant...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really worried, and hope i am not pregnant! I have been with my boyfriend for a year, and we are regularly sexually active. I am not on he pill, but he uses condoms every time. Last month when i was due on, i came on, the day expected, but strangely the blood was brown,... (230 words)

Given up friendship for love.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

3 July 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I am 21 years old and im dating my best friend's ex girlfriend. I knew for a long time that my best friend was cheating on her but never knew enough. Fortunately i fell in love with her but was in a dilemma of keeping my friend's trust or saving the girl's life, I chose the ... (182 words)

There are other things to life besides partying!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age - I am becoming fed up with my husband and 16-year-old son's incessant partying - every single night of the week they hit the town and it's making me furious. However, I can't really criticise them for other things though - they always make the house look sparkling clean ... (134 words)

I have a special bond with him. I don't want to be gay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I might need help. I have a special bond with someone with the same gender. At first he was just my idol,but now I think about him all the time. I don't want to be gay but im asking you guys,do you think I have an attraction to him?... (51 words)

All chip in! How do you know when your in love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, everyone has to chip in here, since it's a very varied thing; how do you know when you're in love? :)... (22 words)

I want to make up with him but I feel so alone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently broken up with my boyfriend. I am not sure why but he has stopped ringing,texting and stopped talking to me.I feel as if everyone is against me, I've heard people talking about me and making fun out of me. I don't know what to do. I feel alone and am really ... (91 words)

Is this me or is it moving to fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a good friend and his wife left him four months ago and they were together for 12 years. For three months he begged her to take him back. As far as I know, he didn't do anything bad and this break-up was out of the blue. He met a girl 4 weeks ago, and they are now in ... (111 words)

Friends' gossip ruined our chances to be together...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I am a 17 year old girl and in March of 2009 I Met this wonderful guy. Everything was great. He told me that he wanted me to be the mother of his children and he liked me more than any other girl. Then he started listening to his friends who were saying that I had sex with ... (191 words)

Was he playing me all along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I met this guy while on a school trip together, and we kept in contact since then. I developed a little crush on him, and when I told him he said he did like me back too, but wasn't looking for a gf since he was so close to moving away to uni (im a year younger than him... (187 words)

How can I let him down gently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help I got myself into a really stupid situation by trying to rush into something even though I wasn't sure if it would work. Basically this guy i went out with likes me again and was asking my friends to find out if I liked him and i thought I might but i didn't ... (197 words)

Are his feelings for me genuine?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy from past 5 years... I got to know that he is in relationship with someone else and after that i dont how but even i commited myself in a relationship but my feelings for this person remain unchanged. Whenever I used to talk with some one about this guy somehow ... (157 words)

How should I maintain my small figure for the duration of pregnancy?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, i'm about 10 weeks pregnant and my husband has a thing for thinner models like kate moss and the like. He once told me he married me largely because he knew I'd always be one to stay naturally slender, because of how naturally skinny I already am and how skinny my entire... (661 words)

Do guys think it's sexy or good looking for girls to have six packs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have a question and am looking for teenage guys to answer. im 15 years old 5'5" and 110 pounds. im quite thin compared to people around me. Do guys think it's sexy or good looking for girls to have six packs? just in general give your opinion i know everyone has their own ... (64 words)

Step brother lover...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is actually quite hard for me to do, i am and have been deeply in love with my step brother for over 20 years. our parents were together when we were three till 13. he never lived with us and only stopped over once a month. our parents had kids and now we share the same ... (772 words)

Does liking transsexuals make me gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've recently developed a pretty strong fetish for Shemales (yes, I know the term is offensive to some, and I'm sorry, but that's the best way I know how to describe them - that is, transsexual men - women who have penises). Does it make me gay to get horny and get off to ... (98 words)

Bus girl blues...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Here's one where I'd appreciate female advice. Been chatting to a woman on the bus-50 minute journey -seemed to go well so I asked her out for a drink or two after work sometime. she said definitely yes but not til the next week. because I work away a bit, didn't't see her... (141 words)

What does his eagerness to keep contact mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for a year and we made the huge mistake of living together to early and about a month ago we started fighting and i moved out. After i moved out things got a bit rough but we still managed to talk a and see each other regularly but it just wasnt the ... (343 words)

Please help me get over this, we're so alike and they're just not suited its killing me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey some help here would be appreciated please. Could you just please explain to me why this lad that i was good friends with is behaving this way. We were good friends and stuff and i've always liked him think he liked me too because of how he acted and things people said ... (284 words)

Since we've gotten back together I haven't orgasmed and my boyfriend thinks it's him that must be the problem. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so I'm with my boyfriend of just over three years. We have been in love for these three years since we met, though we broke up after two years as we were both worried we were getting tied down too early, and both saw other people. However after eight months we realised it ... (325 words)

Feuding friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5643 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, this isn't a dating question but I really needed to ask anyway. I grew up with my two best friends from kindergarden to high school then through uni we were inseperable. We had a very intense and amazing friendship. Then disaster struck. Four years ago there was a huge f... (335 words)

Why all these emotions when I rub my nipples?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I've discovered that when I rub my nipples for a while, I start to get really emotional, and even cry. Why do I get filled with these strange emotions when I rub my nipples? Like, at some points it almost feels like 'love' in the sense of a deep filial or romantic conn... (98 words)

I love my boyfriend, but I have strong feelings for another girl...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MY name is Alice and I am 18. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and its going okay, I do love him despite his struggle to stop taking ketamine on a regular basis. The drugs do get in the way because he has become quite selfish, we don't do normal 'couple' things l... (149 words)

I can't bare to think about them together or even see them together because it hurts to much...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, hope some of you could help me here. This is kinda 2 questions in one so sorry its long I know im probably being very stupid and yes i havent gotta get over it but i need some help and someone else opinion on what has happened. Obviously i won't act on it and just need ... (1367 words)

Is it okay to have sex on your period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - so i`m on my period and me and my boyfriend want to have sex but i`m not sure if i should. is it okay to have sex when on your period? what should we do, like lay down a towel?... (40 words)

17 and asked to move! How do I get out and onto my own 2 feet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate living with my family and they dislike living with me, because I don't contribute to anything in the house and just sit in my bedroom or go out, I've been wanting to move out for over a year now but only ever played with the idea, my Dad has now turned round to me and ... (171 words)

My boyfriend is mad about my past...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, my boyfriend and I recently broke up. I know I still love him and I know he still cares about me, but he is extremly mad at me for my past. I gave him my msn password because I honestly didn't care if he went on. But before I met him there were old emails that were nudes ... (217 words)

I keep dreaming of my boyfriend cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5649 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had three dreams in a row where my boyfriend is cheating on my with my best friend. The first one - my best friend was trying to hook up with him, and I told her to stay out of our relationship and I kept screaming at her. The second one - I caught them in his bed t... (144 words)

My first boyfriend has reappeared in my life, and married and I don't know how to stop living in the past.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I didn't start dating until I was 20, but I never had a serious relationship until I was 23. But the first boy I dated when i was 20, only for 3 months, but he was the sweetest, cutest, most lovely boy, and til now I still think about how wonderful he was. And I was really ... (207 words)

He has left me financially insolvent and hasn't shown any affection for years.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Yahoo!My Yahoo!MailMore Can anyone give me some advice? I'm a little nervous writing this because i really dont want any nasty comments just some advice please. 6 years ago I worked at the same place as my then fiancee and a good friend. I had a house with my fiancee - ... (371 words)

I need opinions here, I don't know what's going on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

- I've been dating this guy now for over 3 months, not exclusively. sunday he told me I was "growing on him" I asked him what he meant and he said that in the begining it didnt really mean anything to him, cos he wasnt looking for anything (he'd just got out of a 3 and a half ... (211 words)

How do I show her that I trust her and that I would do anything for her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there my girlfriend has recently finished me after a two year relationship, she says because she is emotionally drained due to me being quiet mean over the past month ( the reason i have been like this is because she started a new job and a guy was being very flirty and ... (367 words)

If I am having all these feeling and doubts should I still go though with the wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for seven years and we are to get married in 2 months. I started dating her 1 year after my ex-girlfriend. Me and the ex had a terrible break up of course cheating was involved. The relationship ended and for the most part I just never spoke about ... (221 words)

I don't want to lie to my parents but an older man asked me out..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone.. i`m spanish, so if i make mistakes,please excuse me i`m 17 years old and i fell in love with a guy who`s 34. i think he might like me too. i`m so confused , i don`t know what to do. i`ve never been in a serious relationship before, but this guy..i think he... (138 words)

They talk about other girls but never ask me out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - It seems like everyone my age is going out. My best friend went out with one of my guy friends. And my other best friend is going out with my best guy friend. I have more guy friends then i have girl friends. I think about sports and I act like one of the guys. But no one has ... (145 words)

I want to have sex with my first cousin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i was wondering what other people thought about this. For many years me and my older cousin(female and 17 years) have been REALLY close.we talk each other often about sex,life and that sort of thing.Is stuff like this normal for first cousins? By the way i do love her not only ... (192 words)

Do I choose my currnt bf or my best friend who likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i thought i was in love with this lad, everything was going great i thought, then this laad that was my bestfriend as loong as i knew him came along and told me i was gorgeous and a right bird, he keeps calling me gorgeous and beautiful and telling me he likes me, so i started ... (129 words)

He makes legal threats to people on Wiki !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out on the computer that my husband has been making legal threats to others on Wikipedia under multiple usernames. I confronted him, and he denied it at first, but then admitted it. He said he got a buzz out of winding them up. All he's ever interested in now... (117 words)

This girl is like my sister but I said mean things to her....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so there's this girl, she's like my sister we're that close, anyway we drifted apart abit, because i didnt like her boyfriend and one night whilst i was drunk/ hungover, i said a few mean things to her, now we dont speak at all, how can i say sorry for what i did, how can ... (99 words)

I think my cousin remembers but is afraid to admit it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well... Where to start? My cousin and I had sexual encounters when we were young. We gave each other back rubs or as we called it fratching. I stole 2 pairs of her panties in high school. Then was caught with them. 3 times I felt and fingered her pussy. Recently I told her... (123 words)

I''ve fallen for a girl who is with someone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About a year a go i realised i was bisexual. I currently have a boyfriend who i have been with for almost 3 years. I am only 19 but i realised something wasn't right. I started to have feelings for girls...especially some of my more closer mates and i'd find myself staring at ... (443 words)

I'm not rdy to lose him in our long distance relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5649 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have 6mos relationship online with a guy from the US. I am from the Philippines. I loved the guy so much and I really care for him. We chatted everyday for more or less 1 hour. He was sweet to me when we were new. But lately, I noticed that his sweetness di... (346 words)

My pubic bone hit her nose....I can't seem to contact her since!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so this is kind of embarrassing for me and the girl. Iv been messing around with this girl, who i like alot, but two weeks ago while i was receiving some oral sex she decided to stick her finger in my anus. Well i jumped and my pubic bone hit her nose and she began to bleed ... (143 words)

I want to be his everything but he looks up things I dislike...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just on my partner's internet history and I saw that he had been looking up "pegging". For those who don't know this is when a woman penetrates a man's ass with a strapon. I've known for a while he likes femdom [even though I hate it] and looks it up, but there was S... (196 words)

My husband wants penis enlargement!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I discovered from a Firefox tab left open by my husband that he'd been viewing pornographic sites with "MEN WITH BIG PACKAGES!! HOT GUYS!" I asked him why he was looking at it, and if he was gay, and he ranted at me about it, saying it's none of my business if he's looking ... (164 words)

Will wearing tight jeans affect my unborn child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 8 weeks pregnent and like wearing tight jeans,is this gonna affect my baby?... (14 words)

I'd like to hear from lads who've actually received this kind of sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a gay lad and my new boyfriend has offered to give me anal intercouse. I've never experienced it but would like see what it feels like. I've read all about it and know it can be extremely pleasurable. My boyfriend says he can give me a really good orgasm by pleasuring ... (84 words)

He's moving away, and I'm worried he might fall for someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my perfect match for about 4 and a half years now. Im totally head over heels in love with the guy and i could imagine a future with him no problem. The only thing stopping me is Fate ;His parents have decided to move and live in France and because of his a... (271 words)

Am I justified in feeling suspicious and what can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I just want to know if what I am feeling is normal and justified or if I'm over-reacting. Here's the story. I have been in a relationship with my current girlfriend for 10 years and we are engaged but have never got married. We met at Uni and as far as I know have both been fai... (504 words)

I know I should be happy that he is with his next victim...so why am I so sad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help. I have written before about this. My xbf keeps getting in contact with me - for sex. Silly me thinking he would leave his new gf for me for the amazing things I did for him. She is the complete opposite me and I realized this morning he is never coming back ... (352 words)

Why do I make this sound during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My vagina has been making this queefing(fart) sound and im just wondering if this is caused because my vagina is loose? The sound is very embarassing and i hate it. My boyfriend said that my vagina is the tightest vagina that he has ever had and i believe him cause he ... (78 words)

He treats me badly, makes me feel sad, and strips me of my confidence...so why do I still want him and hope he'll change for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Its hard to express how i feel bout my ex do i love him still? Am i jealous of him? I dont know. Me and him have been so back and foward to the point it makes me dizzy. 3 yrs ive spent trying to make him realise and hoping that one day he will change! I never met anyone l... (416 words)

She says she's tired and doesn't feel sexy. What does she mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a little concerned about my girlfriend, because a few times when we've been laying on the bed we both know we can feel the sexual tension building up and all of a sudden she will say im tired, or something and then 10 minutes later we might have a cuddle and a kiss and ... (287 words)

She's going out with a guy she says is The One...but I think I could be her One!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm Falling for this girl i know, the problem is she is going out with a guy she says is the one. Should i tell her how im feeling about her? or try to move on? I think i could be her one.... (53 words)

Do girls enjoy anal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this is a really weird question but, do girls enjoy anal sex and anal play?... (17 words)

He says he loves me, but he'd like to have sex with other women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age - I've been with my b/friend for 5 yrs. I'm very open minded as in making allowances for other peoples idiosyncracies...But there's never any kissing -which I need to light my spark, and he only ever likes to enter me from behind. It makes me feel like I'm being used. I 've never ... (132 words)

What can I do to make him comfortable with me using a vibrator during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I find it extremely difficult to become aroused from manual stimulation, whether it's by myself or by my boyfriend. So I purchased a rampant rabbit which is wonderful - but the only downside is I don't like the penis part (it's too hard), so I came up with what I thought was a ... (327 words)

My wife has suddenly become jealous and suspicious...why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

3 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has recently become excessively jealous of the women I work with. I'm not jealous of her socialising with other guys - far from it - so I don't get why she's like this. She seems to think I'll sleep with any other woman in sight - even though I'm loyal and kind. ... (186 words)

Sexual fantasies and jealousy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just told me that he has had sexual fantasies about a few girls, two of whom I was already extremely jealous of, but he said they were one time things and for only about thirty seconds. He also told me that he never masturbated and thought about them. Is he lying? ... (94 words)

Ready to dump jealous boyfriend and go back to ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and i recently i started going out one of my close friends and it was ok but now he has changed and everytime that i talk to any of my boy friends he gets really jealous and always comes up and puts his arm around me even when i dont want him to. Even when i talk about ... (86 words)

How can you miss someone depending on the circumstances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

3 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend who i don't get to see very often and who i miss a lot tells me today that he misses me when i'm nice but doesn't miss me when he thinks i'm nasty to him.I miss him all the time how can you miss someone only sometimes depending on the circumstances\.... (53 words)

I love him, I told him, but I don't know if he gets it

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I love this guy and have since the first day we met. But every time we go out (date) i always end up breaking up with him,. We both tell each other we still have feelings for one another. But recently he asked me if it was okay if he asked one of my closest friends ... (120 words)

Girlfriend has been difficult but tonight she hit me

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3 July 2009 (M)

age - Tonight my girlfriend 32, came over to tell me I was not going with het and her 3 kids to san diego. A 4 hour notice. She is ptsd. Also pregnant with our child. I am 59. When I asked her why she changed her mind she said I was trying to smother her. Part of her depriving me of ... (158 words)

My teacher moved to Chicago and I miss him...I think I love him

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3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help,I think I might love my teacher, but he is the same gender as I am. I thaought at first I didn't because I liked this girl,but now were just good friends. Since summer is over,I miss him a lot since he move to chicago and he is my insparation. I think about himm ... (86 words)

Did I do the right thing to say goodbye?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my ex were going out for about 4 months and i have been feeling a little captivated in our relationship. Like he expected more out of me than i can give, he also did little things like tell me what i couldnt wear (cloths, make up, ect.), and how to wear my hair. ... (659 words)

He lied about going to a strip club & getting a dance

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband went on a stag weekend and promised he would not be unfaithful or go to a lap dancer. He came home looked me in the eye and swore to me he did not do either, a few weeks later he slipped up and i got the truthe he had been to a club but swore he did not get a dance. ... (138 words)

Were they talking about me, or am I being paranoid?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well... I've admired this guy for about a year and a half now he's always sat infront of me in japanese class. But there was one thing kind of hindering my feelings for him, his now ex-girlfriend (who looks like a sex goddess compared to me.) and it seems about a month ago he's ... (130 words)

Should I be worried about the guys she hangs around with?

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3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - One week after the girl i really liked broke up with me i met this other girl, ( at this point i didnt care about anything i had lost a very special person and just didnt care) she was a gangster girl a bit crazy and when i met her i was kinda one too so i just didnt care so i ... (281 words)

Should I get back in touch with my ex or not?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy 5 years ago- it was great, he was a complete gentleman and he told me he really liked me, I told him I felt the same- things happened (id rather not say what) and I couldnt see him anymore, I never gave him an explanation or anything- :( Anyway about a year ago I ... (213 words)

There are two girls I like: my 'dream girl' and my girlfriend

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3 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have an interesting question. Well, there was this sexy blonde girl who seems to have taken a like to me and I haven't known her name until yesterday. Here's the weird part about it: I dreamt about her having sex with me, even though I'm happily in love with my current ... (129 words)

Does this look like I have an STD?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a tingling feeling in my genital area and legs all week. I have these tiny open sores all on the left side of my vaginal area. I think I may have herpes. I am planning on seeing a doctor but can't until monday due to the holiday. in the meantime, does this look like ... (99 words)

How can I divide the time between my friends and family?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am having trouble talking to my family. My family and I use to be so close but now.. I hang with my friends and I do anything to not hang out with them. My dad always tells me that I am drifting away from him. that I'm not his "little girl" anymore. I still want to be close ... (90 words)

What are these pains?!

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have another question. i have been getting these popping sensations in my female area and i was just wondering what it could be from. to help you understand heres an example; if any of you have ever seen the lights flash on the back of a car thats right infront of you then ... (155 words)

Do you think my boobs are tiny compared to my body?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 years old and Im going to admit it im down right fat. I weigh just a little over 200 lbs, and I feel like I have the smallest boobs on earth for a fat chick, I wear a C40 what do you think?... (45 words)

His insecurity is killing our connection with each other

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well im 17 and i've been in a relationship w/ my boyfriend for 2 years now and he's still insecure..i don't know what to do.I love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him..but i feel like i can't have any friends casue he's insecure..i think it came from his ... (65 words)

Our marriage had been neglected, she started seeing another man, How do I deal with this?

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3 July 2009 (M)

age - i have been in a relatinonship for nearly 20years with my partner we have had 3 children 2 boys 18-16 and a girl 5.i have had mental health problems since before we met and gradualy got worse over the years and i have neglected her by never showing any emotion or love been ... (238 words)

I stayed in the marriage for financial reasons, but looking for more reasons to continue this farce

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3 July 2009 (F)

age - My husband came home with two liter bottles for the weekend (1 vodka, the other cognac)and told me he had Friday off. My immedate though was, oh no. I will be at the computer or walking around with a smile on my face while he ridiqules me and diminishes my purpose in life. ... (305 words)

He is scared of starting a relationship with me it seems

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I am confused. What does it mean when a guy calls you often, let's say 3 to 4 time in a week, tells you a lot about his life plans and secrets but never asks you out. I have known him for almost 2 months now and he makes me feel like we are close by talking to me all the ... (234 words)

I kind of pushed him away, but I really want him to be mine

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked this guy for 4 years now. The reason I first started to like him was bc I thought he liked me and I fell so hard and havent stopped liking him since. Im pretty sure he actually did but then I stupidly told him I liked somebody else over him. Now we are "best ... (132 words)

My guy is more conservative and this is driving me nuts

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been on and off constantly for 2 years now. we keep breaking up because he's not 'touchy'...he wont even hold my hand or kiss me or put his arm around me or anything. we text each other like nonstop and he always tells me how badly he wants to make a ... (129 words)

My guy pleasures me but stops himself from climaxing

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for you guys: my man says he would rather go down on me than have sex! He says he loves that and would rather do that than worry about him. Everything else about our relationship is great, but we don't have sex too often and half the time, he stops before he cums. ... (59 words)

I have massive trust issues and can't tell what love really is

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am just wondering how can you tell if a guy really loves his girlfriend. i have trust issues so i'm just wondering if there are any signs to tell if guys really love there girlfriends or if there just trying to get laid. i have been in 4 different (i'm in my 4th relationship) ... (115 words)

My parents won't let me date anyone

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 and my mom and dad wont let me date any guys i have told them that there afrad to let me go well im not there baby gal any moer i need some help big time ... (38 words)

He had issues with an exclusive relationship and wanted to play around

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We were together for a few months and did everything like a real couple but he wouldnt call himself my boyfriend. He said he thought of us as dating but not in a relationship. I asked him if I was his girlfriend and he started freaking out. He said he's had girlfriends before ... (192 words)

My guy is under a lot of stress and I want to comfort him

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is having a big birthday coming up on July 12th. He has had a lot of pressure lately and he has been really down. I know I help to bring his spirits up usually but I just really want to do something incredibly special for him. I've already bought him a few presents ... (174 words)

My self-esteem issues is making me hang onto this boy

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was crazy about this guy a few months ago- like the very smell of him caused me pain' kind of crazy. We would flirt and heavily make out drunkenly/passionalty at parties, and hang out on a weekly basis, but always with a third wheeler friend to keep things less awkward. I ... (622 words)

I'm a sporty girl who wants to be a bit more feminine but also be one of the guys

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am so confused. I am really sporty and tomboy. I have more guy friends than I have girl friends. I can hang with the guys more easier than I can with most of my girl friends. I am 13 and I wear no makeup. I'm not fat but yet this one guy lets call him Fred. Well Fred keeps ... (286 words)

I want to orgasm too, but she finishes before me

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3 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Ok well i have been with my girlfriend for about a year now, and we have been having sex for about 6 months...my question is that now since we have been having sex a lot more lately, she finishes before i do, and for about like the last 10 times we have had sex ... (127 words)

There was some miscommunication between us and he's stressing over it

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday night after I got off from work I went to a movie, and after it was over I texted my boyfriend saying I'll stop by his house since he was just getting off work. Well I was planning on having sex with him before I left but when he got back from work he was really tired ... (311 words)

Paranoid about my man's co-worker who has a crush on him

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Am I being paranoid?...B/f works with a woman who's had a crush on him since day one. They used to spend time out in the field; she'd make up any excuse to accompany him, even when it wasn't part of his job. But he came home to me every night. Once or twice she'd call him on ... (490 words)

What else can I do to finally move on?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What else can I do to finally move on? Two years ago, I fell in love with a guy at work and things started moving towards a relationship. Long story short, he ended up being a player who used me, only talks to me for sex, ignoring me otherwise and was sleeping with ot... (178 words)

Can you teach someone to treat you the way you want to be treated?

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3 July 2009 (F)

- Can you teach someone to treat you the way you want to be treated?....Or is that the typical trap we women fall into, thinking a man is going to change for us?....My boyfriend has many great qualities, but doesn't really respect women in general. We've been together 3 years ... (167 words)

If a guy loses erection during sex, is it the woman's fault?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys and ladies please I need your pespective! My ex bragged that it was my fault he lost his erections while we had sex. Lets keep in mind that all this time he teased me by saying that I am a saint to others and a horny bit*ch in bed. Guys, can a horny b*itch make you lose an ... (96 words)

Did he truly love me? Should I contact him to ask?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I or shouldn't I? Sometimes, i think of my ex and I wonder if he thinks of me too. rarely are the times I think of him positively being that he made me go through so mamy emotional hardships. Times I thought he loved me and other times I totally felt he hated me. From a ... (238 words)

How do I not fall for verbally abusive ex's guilt trips?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So basically I am just wondering if anyone out there has some tips or ways to not fall for guilt trips? My ex-bf who was verbally abusive "jokingly" he called it, made a promise to change but he has lied about things in the past and I don't think I can trust him. I love him... (568 words)

I think I deserve to be treated much better. Your opinions, please!

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - just need opinions! Heres what its about. Well i have a boyfriend and ive been going out with him for ten months now, but the big problem is that he treats me like his little B**ch. See he sais its all because his ex girlfriend cheated on him that he was so in love wi... (271 words)

How do I break my hymen?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just finished school and I've not really had any boyfriends yet (I'm a virgin because I never liked the few boys that asked me out, and the ones i did like never asked me out/messed me around and were never that seriously into me) I'm hoping college will be differen... (300 words)

Is it a bad idea to tell him I've started seeing someone else? I really like this guy, but he had a bad breakup.

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I care a lot about a guy I've been seeing. I try not to think about loving him but I know I do. However, he's not over his ex girlfriend - not in an "I still love her" kind of way, but in a "she hurt me so badly and killed my confidence in relationships by throwing away what we ... (268 words)

He's moved to be with me, and he says he loves me but that things just aren't "right"

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend in a weird way. Our "at the times" cheated with each other. Him and I ended up bonding over broken hearts. He is my best friend and has always been there for me. He makes me smile and my every day. The only issue is, I lived in Michigan, and he lived in ... (199 words)

I've had 4 sexual partners, is that a lot for a woman my age?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and have had 4 sexual partners. Is that a lot for a woman my age? My last ex told me during our break up that guys will think I'm really slutty now that I've been with 4 different men, but he might've been trying to make me feel bad. ... (58 words)

I hit my wife and choked her, she thinks it's her fault...help

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3 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My wifew and I have been under alot of stress since my accident 2 years ago , we just recently went through depositions for our case, which is hard for us. Yesterday we got into a big fight and she wanted me to express to her what was wrong with me and I ju... (235 words)

Is it normal to get turned on thinking about attractive guys I don't know?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I have kind of a weird question for you… So lately I have noticed that when I am turned on and I start to pleasure myself it takes a long time for me to hit my high because out of habit I start to thing about my ex boyfriends or guys I know who care about me…which u... (143 words)

Broken...

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3 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've been in a relationship for 6 years with this woman who is now 31. She was a single mom of 3 kids with three different fathers, a high school drop out. I became daddy #4 four years ago. In our house there is a total of 6 different personalities,kids ages are ... (387 words)

I'm a silly big girl who's in trouble with boys

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. I'm a 17 years old girl.. and i'm not as all the girls my age because i've never been in a relationship and i've never kissed a boy. Sometimes i talk with boys but because of my insecure i don't know what to say. And i think that if i have a boyfriend he will get bored ... (72 words)

Why do I freak out my ex?

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3 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, i was in town the other week and bumped into my ex who dumped me after a 2 month break she initiated. When i saw her she crossed the street to talk to me. We chatted for a while and i suggested we go for a coffee. We were walking to the cafe and all of a sudden s... (141 words)

I'm not gay but watching gay porn turns me on...

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3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm straight i know that, i mean, girls turn me on so much you wouldnt believe it, i've had my fair share of girls and i've slept with one. Anyway, My problem is that gay porn arouses me, and not just gay porn, the smell of a penis turns me on, as just the thought of bumming a ... (146 words)

Advice please... Should I try to make things work with my husband or get out now?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married a little over a year and things have been pretty rocky for the last 6 months. We lived a little town which totally sucked and we moved back to my home town and I thought it was the town that was dragging me down. I do not feel I even love my husband like I ... (159 words)

I love him, but I miss myself and I want to be happy again, how can I find myself?

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3 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating C for 4 months, everything moved way too fast. He has a lot on his plate right now trying to get his 2 daughters back from CPS and he can't seem to let his baby's mama go, after 9 years. I saw all the warnings and walked into this mess anyways. before we ... (275 words)

What can I cook her that's fairly simple for our romantic night in together?

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3 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So basically i am planning to have a romantic evening in with my girlfriend, in a couple weeks time. The plan is: Dinner, maybe a film and then whatever entails. However the problem is i'm not a very good cook. I'd rather not cook her a microwave meal, because thats no... (111 words)