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Even when invited I feel left out

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Question - (15 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I feel totally alone.

My friends all go out and socailize, but never invite me.

When they talk to me, they blame me, and say I should asume to be invited to everything, and I understand that. But I nver feel welcome or wanted, and when I do go out, they ignore me, leaving me alone with no-one to talk to.

Although my Summer Holidays begun a few weeks ago, Ive only gone out once or twice and my friends don't really care.

Next year I'm starting Sixth form but I'm already in my own group at school nd I find it hard to make new freinds outside of this.

I don't know what to do, and feel totally isolated and alone, even when I do go out.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

you could try arranging a few things yourself and inviting them :) see how it goes!!!,, good luck i hope your friendships get better soon =]

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A female reader, iloveyhoo United Kingdom +, writes (15 July 2009):

iloveyhoo agony auntaww.i get what your saying. tell them or one of them how you feel, that you feel alone.

try and involve yourself more, go along get chatting with them more, make arrangements with a few of them.

as time does keep passing by and you feel like nothing is changing and you still feel alone, maybe try and hang out with more people and others.

try meet new people, to do that you have to be at the right place at the right time.

good luck and just take each step at a time to see hwo things go.

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A male reader, Skellington United States +, writes (15 July 2009):

Skellington agony auntI'd suggest finding new friends. Ones that appreciate you.

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A female reader, penelopepitstop United Kingdom +, writes (15 July 2009):

penelopepitstop agony auntJust think you'll be left school soon and maybe going to college? just think of all the friends you'll make then, stick it out with your friends just now, its a real shame that they aren't nicer, but i understand how hard it is to find new mates,

out of school though you could look into joining a few clubs to make new friends..

good luck to you

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