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I want to let go but I work with him and see him every day

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Question - (15 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2009)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i need some advice how do you get over sum1 that you totally ar in love with and you see him everyday in work and you cant help looking at him and hes looking at you but he has a girlfriend and you have been with him before and the sex was great but he seems to want you as much as u want him but this cud be all in your head i need to let him go but how when you see him everyday and he tells you about his hobbies wer he was the weekend wat hes doin with his girlfriend things i dont need to know and thinks he has the right to slag me but yet talk to me nice too hes so confusing i dont know wat to do i really love him but i know sum1 else does too i came to the point wer i want to let go but how

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009):

i did move for awhile and he stopped talking to me that was a couple of months ago but recently hes back talking to me gradually i dont know what to do because i still love him i dont know how hes feeling now

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A female reader, glofour United States +, writes (15 July 2009):

does he want to get back with you if not then move on get another job or just ignore him and go about your business and see if he will leave his girl friend for you dont give him to much attention he knows that your their so he may be taking advantage of you.

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A female reader, iloveyhoo United Kingdom +, writes (15 July 2009):

iloveyhoo agony aunti get what your saying and feeling. try to avoid him as much as you can.

if he starts to talk to you after a while when you really can't take it, just say something im sorry don't meane to be rude, but right now im so busy or i have to go and do something.

eventually you will slowly get over him but it wil take time

maybe explain to him how you feel and that it would maybe be better if you didn't talk to him as much.

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A male reader, Jason32477 United States +, writes (15 July 2009):

Jason32477 agony auntBeing that you work with him makes the situation difficult.About all you can do is cut out the friendly chatter.Keep it civil,and keep it strictly professional.Don`t hang around him during brakes,and maybe explain to your boss your personal problem if you work to closely with him to separate your self a little more if there is somewhere else you might be able to work.Until your over him don`t try to be friends with him.

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