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How can we be more aggressive with each other in bed?

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Question - (15 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello all,

I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months, we're very serious and i love him dearly. We have great sex...when we have it. Its not that we dont have enough, its that i know we could have more, even better sex but, neither of us are sexually aggressive. We are both very shy and have even talked about it. He said that hes used to dating girls who are more sexually aggressive than him which wouldnt be a problem with me....except im terribly shy in bed and cant seem to crack that fear. Is there any way to encourage him to be more aggressive with me and/or for me to be more so with him?

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A female reader, Georgia13 United States +, writes (16 July 2009):

Georgia13 agony auntyou should both write down the kind of sex u have in ur fantasies (everyone fantazises lol) then trade papers and see wut he likes and he can see what you like

also just let go and do wut sounds fun in bed

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

Well the trick is to just let your imagination run. Bring up the subject about sex & then ask what he likes && doesnt like. Also what he would like done.

Dont be shy. Be confident.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

Well the trick is to just let your imagination run. Bring up the subject about sex & then ask what he likes && doesnt like. Also what he would like done.

Dont be shy. Be confident.

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