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writes:I have a real connection with this particular man that I saw a couple of times over the past year and a half. He also said he felt this connection too. He moved away a while back, but he still does the same thing as he did when he lived locally. He gets into contact, tells me a little, tiny tid-bit of his feelings, and then I hear nothing. I am in a relationship at the moment, and I would like to either get on with it, or face up to this "connection". Is this guy serious or is he stroking his ego? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): first of all pursuing a relationship whilst your in one is kinda wrong and unfair on the other person. however as for this connection, this would depend if sex was involved,, as this is long distance and with not much contact i dunno how serious he can be.i dont think that he is stroking his ego as such, he may just think it would be to difficult to pursue right now and is hoping things change later. (thats if he knows about your current bf)if i were you id ask him straight out (maybe dont tell him you have a bf as this will cause trust issues later) if it is so important to you. But just ask if he's serious or not and you will get your answer.but seriously i say if sex was involved was this guy here and there then you should really consider how you truely feel about your current bf and if he is worth leaving, over something that looks more to be nothing than anything at all."Is this guy serious or stroking his ego?"does he know you have a boyfriend?if he does then he may be serious
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