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writes:My exboyfriend and I broke up like 3 years ago. But I havent have any other serious relation ever since. I just feel that I dont trust guys. Every guy that I meet they just want to be friends with benefits. How can I find a good decent guy who is not afraid to be in a relationship? and not only sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): Not in nightclubs thats for sure.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (15 July 2009):
To be honest, ALL guys want to have sex. I think most do want a relationship, but it just depends on what you do. It's ok to be friends with someone...just leave out the benefits. Just try to get to know some guys, but don't let them have the "goodies" until you feel it's right. And when I say "right" I mean not a few days or a few weeks later, like at least a month. Get to know someone and let them get to know you, then you and them will know if you're compatible to have a relationship.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 July 2009):
 All you can do is to just keep looking. Just remember not to put out until you have established a relationship. There are guys out there so hang in there.
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