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writes:Hi I'm pregnant for 23 weeks and married for about 6 months now. Before marrying we knew each other for 6 years I knew he was already married but yet i decided to marry him because of his love and since childhood i was away with this affection. my hubby doesn't spend time with me nor care about my feelings he is been using when he wants. His feeling have died for me and my child. I'm very much frustrated and want to divert my mind. He is taken me granted cause i love him and have been possesive about him. i have spoken to him on many occassions to explain how much i need him at this time but he continues to hurt me. I'm in financial and emotional trouble created by him. He spends most of the time with his first wife or being with his friends. What should i do to regain peace and love in my life. What should i do to help myself..Please give me your valuable advise. Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Can a guy be married to more than one woman in your country? After reading this, it's evident why our country sees having more than one as not a good idea.
I want you to live for your child. Is this your first one? I have children, and believe me, there is no love greater than the love between a parent and a child. I agree also to find a nice unmarried man to be with. I really believe there is someone for everyone. Not in the way we're use to just settling, but waiting it out to be with the one you'll desire and they'll desire you for the long term.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 this husband of yours wont change so its upto you to change your life for the better.
you have a baby coming , try and live for the baby now, and gain your energy from that.
good luck!
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reader, cherry cherry boom boom +, writes (15 July 2009):
Wow automaticly your gonna have some conflict becouse has another wife that is the worst. I think you should leave him cause hes a snake and he will most likely do it over again so find your self a nice unmarried fella. This ya girl, peace.
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