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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We had unprotected sex in June, got a depo shot July 9, any chance I could be pregant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i had unprotected in june and july i got a depo shot on the 9th of july could it be a chance that im pregnant ?... (29 words)

Unusal signs and symptoms after unprotected sex, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i hope you lot can help me. i very recently had unprotected sex (within the last week) and since then i've experienced some strange symptoms; one of the main ones is that i keep getting this strange sensation in my stomach it's sort of a twinging feeling and cram... (161 words)

I don't want to go to the wedding because my ex will be there

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11 July 2009 (F)

- Hoping people can help me out here and thank all who do. I had a hurtful breakup with my ex last Christmas and I am going to be seeing him at a wedding tomorrow. I really thought I was over it but I am feeling a lot of anxiety and almost dont want to go. Why,when I thought I ... (75 words)

Not going to see him for 2 weeks, will be with his female cousin, why am I jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so its the summer holidays and my boyfriend and I are used to spending alot of time together, (I do let him have time to do other things and see his friends whenever he wants) His cousin is coming over from where he comes from and staying at his house. Shes a little bi... (173 words)

His ex is stalking us!

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyf have been together about 4 month now and soo in love. When we first got together he warned me about his ex. She was a compulsive liar, dumped him at xmas, cried rape oh and did i mention he worked with her in a small shop? We got together about 3 month after th... (434 words)

He's always too tired and I feel so alone

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm so sorry this will be a long post but I'm desperate for advice... My partner have been together 3 1/2yrs and have 2 children together. When we 1st got together,I didn't realise but he didn't work-he managed to fob me off for months,moved back in with his parents as h... (437 words)

Am I too young to be bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i'm fairly young and for the past few month i have found myself being attracted to other men including some of my closest friends it becomes embarresing when we have to get changed after sports, i find my self starring and people often call me a faggot but i am VERY attracte... (70 words)

I can't sleep or breath without her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont really know how to go about this, but I'm going to try and explain. This will sound cheesy and overused, but I'm madly and hopelessly in love with my teacher. It's been almost a year now and I can't see anything improving. I hate the use of the phrase "in love". It's ... (777 words)

Very troubled relationhip, on and off again, is this worth the effort??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok. Known this guy for 1year 1/2 who had a problem commiting so we was friends w benefits. He is also an Alcoholic. Broke up Dec 08 He try to contact me but I would not respond. In March he showed up at my house. Guess he has been sober since Feb now. When we saw each ... (429 words)

I'm a longer but I don't really want to be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a male, 18, and have no idea what to do about me. I am quite an anxious person, and want advice on what to do. I find it quite hard to interact with other people, often people my own age. I never eat with other people at college and rarely make contributions to discussion ... (162 words)

Should I let my b/f go clubbing with his mates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now. I've recently turned 18 and he's nearly 20. We live together now and throughout our entire relationship he always told me he prefers not to go clubbing because it's not for him. Then out of the blue he comes home from ... (227 words)

Infatuated with my teacher, suggestions please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My teacher, Mr * lets call him, I believe I might be attracted to him. It's really bad, I can't think straight if I know he's around...I admit I dream about him...lovely dreams about us dancing together on a beautiful yacht at midnight, holding each other very close but never ... (607 words)

Why do I love watching gay movies?

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, i've loved watching gay movies for about 3yrs now. I kind of watched one by accident at first and became obsessed with the buzz it gave me and just continued to collect them. I guess i'm just wondering what people think of this, and if anyone has any ideas why i love ... (145 words)

Sex on the first date what should I expect now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and i met at a club. We talked and called each other the next day and decided we should hang out that night. He drove quite a distance to see me. Things got really hot and ended up having sex on the "first date". Now i'm not sure whether or not this will go any ... (95 words)

I fantasize about girls licking and touching me

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11 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi i do not mean to offend anyone by this question. Sometimes i fanticizzze about other women touching me and licking me. Does this mean i'm bi? One time in my life i had a sexual experience with a girl but that was years back mainly for experiment. But sometimes i still get ... (67 words)

Break up? Don't want to hurt him!

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok well... There's this guy in the year above who really likes me but I keep turning him down coz I like this other boy in my year I've liked since I was 10... well I really really love him... So I eventually said yes to the boy who asked me out who is consequently my frien... (248 words)

Why is there white stuff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi plz i jst wanted to know if there is something wrong with me i see whitish staff dat comes out of my vagina is this normal? ... (27 words)

I feel like I'm drifting further and further from her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 months now and we talk every single day for a few hours a day. we are really close and say that we love each other every day. she went to a camp last week and wont be back for a few more days. i havent talked to her in 6 days and i ... (118 words)

Protective and jealous but doesn't want to be with me

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so lately my ex boyfriend has been acting really protective and jealous but he says he doesn't want to be with me.....i don't understand...how can he be over me but get so mad every time i do so much as talk to another guy???... (45 words)

He's got a girlfriend so why is acting so nervous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I started a job around 3 months ago. I noticed a guy at work, we both seemed to stare at eachother. We got on well and when he spoke to me he seemed to really warm to me, however on that same day I felt this, he told me he was off to meet his girlfriend and went home. I was ... (239 words)

Maybe I deserved all of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im really fed up with my life. im 34 years old. ive recently split with my boyfriend. i feel such a fool. i met him when i worked at my old job when i was with my fiance back then who also used to work there. my fiance then never used to show me mych care or atte... (416 words)

Need more emotional maturity in the relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't even know how to organize this question, but here goes. My boyfriend and I broke up in mid-May then three weeks later we decided we wanted to be together again, however, we can't until I go back to college in August (He lives in the city where my school is). We ... (424 words)

My cousin and I had sexual relationship but now I think he was using me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please dont juge me ok so i was around 7 when my 13 year old cusin came to live with us and before that we didnt really know each other about 3 years after living with my family we would flirt with each other and then we moved on to oral sex then when i was around 12 we ... (288 words)

No longer lovers, trying to be friends but its just really not working

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11 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am trembling badly people ..i dont know whats wrong with me ....i have again come close to my ex gf ...we are friends but its kinda 'highly dependence on each other for happiness' friendship...i got many chances to end it up and leave her alone ...even she got used to living ... (483 words)

Says he made a mistake, wants me back but I'm not sure of his reasons

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and My live in boyfriend of 3yrs split up in October of last year. He was the one to end the relationship. We've kept in touch by txt eachother. He tells me that he made a big mistake and wants me back. That he still very much in love with me. He tells me that he signed up ... (140 words)

Should I be doing something differently?

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11 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiancee and I have been together for 6 years. We met online in 2003 and I moved in with her in 2005. We have an 18month old baby. Recently, in the past 6 months, she has been having stress related health issues. Whenever she becomes overly stressed, her body just shuts ... (416 words)

What are people's views on dating a third cousin?

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i recently got back in touch with my third cousin. we're both 19 and related through blood. every year when i was born i would spend a week up north with my cousin and we grew up together really close.we used to kiss under his duvet when we were little and we never argu... (189 words)

He said "I guess I could call you every day but I really don't want to!"

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't believe my boyfriend just told me that he is 'JUST NOT THAT KIND OF PERSON WHO WOULD CALL HIS GIRLFRIEND EVERY DAY!' He would felt like he is reporting to me if he has to, it's not necessary and why would he? After a while, a big discussion. He sighted and said: "If you ... (92 words)

We are attracted to each other, but both of us have families

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - please help, i am deeply confused. i have been with my partner for 14 years and have 3 children. i do love my partner but i am not in love with him any more, we argue a lot and he can be very hurtful with the things he says to me, which i wont go into. i'm not 100% happy. ... (202 words)

Am I too nervous? Or just not ready for a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i am like 20 y/o and i wanna know is it normal to be able to talk to a female, on msn/yahoo/aim/games/phone easier than talking upfront to em? i get all nervous while even being near a female, sometimes i have tears coming down my face but i do not feel sad, i feel all weird ... (92 words)

She never calls or texts first

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well here's my scenario... ive been with the girlfriend for six months, i went away on holiday for 2 weeks a month back. I called, i told her how much i missed her and that I couldn't wait to see her. We met up as soon as I got back and she was distant, I'd had a tough time on ... (284 words)

As a younger guy how can I get older women to enjoy sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) age 30-35 - These question relate to older women. How do you as a younger guy make an older women feel good about herself? How to bring up sexual interest with an older women? How to make her feel good about her body? How to encourage her to take sex for its face value? ... (80 words)

I don't want to lose my family but I'm not happy in the relationship

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11 July 2009 (?) age 36-40 - hi, i need your help/advice im in a relationship have been for seven years we have two children, this is my problem, i love my partner to bits but theres another man that i really like i think i maybe falling in love with him!! i dont want to hurt my partner but i carnt s... (120 words)

I want my boyfriend to be with me 24/7..is that ok?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for about 6 months now, he lives with his older brother while I live at home with my parents. He is really good when it comes to calling me everyday to tell me what he's doing. He tells me that he loves me but that he also needs to spend time with his ... (99 words)

Partner has become extremely jealous

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my partner for nearly 3 years. things are pretty great at first but after some time, he's jealousy starts kicking in. he became paranoid, and cannot stand if i was even talking to a guy in uni. he can't stand if i have male partners in my group or anything to do ... (138 words)

I don't want to move but he does what should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi this might sound a bit confusing for some people!! well me and my partner met 4 years ago in scotland!! i was 16 from scotland he 22 from england! we were together for 4 months and decided to move to ireland (my mum lives there) to get a better life as we didnt have much ... (207 words)

He talked non stop the entire date but never mentioned a second date. Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently went out with a guy whom I'd met online. We met up after about 1 week of emailing. The date was drinks only. There were no awkward silences and we spent about 2.5 hours together. The only thing is that he talked most of the time. I listened to him attentively, made ... (315 words)

Why does my friend allow this guy to treat her so badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age - I have a friend that for the past several yers has been involved with a man that has done all kinds of horrible things to her(MIA for months at a time,having other women in his house playing it off that thehy are just friends etc...). Each and every time he pulls another st... (266 words)

I am still seeing this man but unable to "move forward" with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 39 year old female and have 2 children. I am currently going through a divorce. I had an affair 2 years ago with my first love. I was the one who broke it off with this man years ago and seemed like a much happier person after doing so....but found after time went by I ... (179 words)

He's just having fun, I don't want to wait for him but don't want to lose him either

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with someone freshman year it was noting serious just a hookup, now 2 years later we started talking again we went out were together for 6 months he broke up with me for "no reason" at all; after we broke up hes been with over 10 girls just having his fun i guess; so now ... (175 words)

Should I tell her my feelings for her or just wait until we can spend more time together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ok my second cousin and i are not dating and whatnot, but we're very good friends. even though we're cousins, we treat each other like best friends, and she considers me most likley her top guy friend and i consider her my top friend that's a girl. there is one problem howe... (241 words)

Am I wrong for saying no one time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone please tell me what I've done wrong. My boyfriend doesn't come around me or talk to me as much as he use to. I asked him why and he says its my attitude. I don't have a clue what he's talking about because the only attitude is his. Sunday we came back from a nice ... (352 words)

Should I put a naked picture of myself on the Internet (covering my face)??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok. There has been a previous question about porn and double standards. I have wondered this very thing myself. But thought that physically meeting someone is perhaps not comparable to just watching porn. So... My husband watching porn, makes me feel like the ugliest wo... (434 words)

I've accepted that I'm gay but I'm still confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok i recently accepted that i'm gay, but im a little confused. I still see a lot of beauty in girls, even with girls that most guys wouldn't be attracted to. but the thought of sex with a girl turns me off. Yet the more attractive the girl is, the more i'll fantasise about men. ... (478 words)

We were moving, now she doesn't want me to move in..what is going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Due to the credit crunch me, my wife and two children 3 and 5yrs. Was moving into rented accomadation while we sell our home. She has now moved into new place while i finish home and sell. But now she doesnt want me to move in, she says she loves me but cant be with me. I have ... (104 words)

LDR and when I go to see him he spends all his time with his family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, I am in a long distance relationship (I am at university, and do my best to see my partner when I can). When I go back home to see him, he insists on spending most of his time with his family every weekend (I don't get invited). I find myself often just sitting in an empty ... (145 words)

I keep worrying thinking something will happen to us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi I am dating the girl of my dreams and she is my 1st girlfriend and i want her to be the only one because i believe in true love. But i constantly worry alot thinking this cannot happen something will happen to keep us apart and end up thinking i have to breakup with her but ... (114 words)

Its always about her and what she wants

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey all, I have a bit of a problem with my girlfriend of about 9 months. My problem is that I get the feeling that it's always about her and what she wants. To give an example, on Sundays, I go to church with her like she wants; and then I go out to dinner with her parents ... (302 words)

We made a promise to tell each other if anything happened, but I don't want to say anything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ...so i dated this guy for year and we have this plan that we're going to be together again [we broke up because i moved]. we said that while we're not together we're gonna have fun and all we're both in college and so we're going to have fun..[with other people] ... (270 words)

It will be easy to bump into him, so how I am going to get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was sort of seeing a guy for 6 months, i never meet anyone and i was happy that i've actually meet someone for once. He turned out to be a liar and a user though. I slept with him and he never spoke to me again. That was about 2 months ago, and im feeling better, but its only ... (207 words)

He tried to rape me and I'll know he'll try again!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 14 year old male (15 in october :D) and my name is Dean. My best friend's parents and mine are childhood friends and my parents are out of town a lot, so I stay with my best friend's family whenever my parents are away. My best friend has an older brother and we have ... (518 words)

He's insecure and tries too hard all the time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. I love him and we get on well, apart from the fact that his insecurity and need to overcompensate is killing the relationship. I need someone to help me understand it all. My boyfriend is someone who tries too hard all the time. If I... (255 words)

How to get my boyfriend to be more dominant in bed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know how to get my boyfriend to be more dominant in bed. i get turned on knowing i am satisfying the guy, doing the positions he likes etc but my bf will not ever say. i ask do u wanna try a different position? and he just says if you do, whatever you want etc. ... (157 words)

Just cant seem to find an answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - In a total mess with my life . In love with(and have been for 2 and a half years) someone who I hope and think she feels the same , problem is we are bothh married to other people and have young children (each have 2) . Its time to change and be honest with everyone but how ... (90 words)

My wife went to a divorce attorney today, this was unexpected, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 3 yrs. 2 of those yrs. we were both in the army 15mths. deployed together. we recently got out and moved. everything was going fine but 3-weeks ago her friend asked her to be in her wedding. so i told her she could go and she did. assuming she would be ... (175 words)

Why do boys like touching girls' breasts? Should I let him do it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, everyone. I've been dating this guy for about 7 months and we make out quite often.. Sometimes when we're kissing he would put his hand underneath my shirt and start touching my boobs.. I get really upset and i'll show it to him.. Should i let him touch? I also need to know ... (59 words)

My hubby has been self-harming and over eating to cope with his cheating, we need help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband said to me when I came in from work yesterday "Sit down. We need to talk, this is important!" I was surprised at how open he was being, previous partners I'd had were never this open. He admitted to me he'd slept with another woman for the past 5 weeks. He s... (173 words)

I'm afraid to be near guys because they have always mistreated me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - i am wondering why is every guy i like and nice to .hurts and insults me and call me names when i am only trying nice to them. almost aggressive like behavior. now i am afraid of guys, now i won,t go near them, because i am afraid they call me names and treated me like ... (127 words)

Feels like a dark cloud's over me... will this feeling end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Morninging All, just a quick question. Does anyone ever have that horrible feeling where you think something bads going to happen that makes you feel on edge? Over the past few months i kep feeling like this on and off and the only way to describe it is that theres a huge cl... (127 words)

Does he like me or see me as a friend?

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy and I really really like him...sum1 told me I was in love with him but I don't think its that bad Well we talked once before and then we got really close and started calling eachother bff's. Then we stopped and like I thought I had him for sure like I just... (344 words)

How to get this 13-year-old to want to kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ok, so im going out with this AMAZING girl. im 13 and i just dont know how to get her to want to kiss me. ... (26 words)

I gave them a test at the church and was escourted out and will not be allowed to come back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Before last sunday I had never been to church. My friend finally convinced me into going, but I am not big into religion and I don't like it when my friend pushes it on me. So anyway, we get to the church (it is methodist) and I overhear a group of teenagers talking about ... (403 words)

Can people really change? Or is it just an act?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To start, as of now I'm 25 and he's almost 27. So I started seeing this guy back in Jan. 08. After about a month into the relationship I became pregnant. I really didn't know what I thought about him at the time and I certainly wasn't ready to have a child, so I chose to ... (593 words)

We both like each other but he used to play games before! Should I ask him out or leave it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5643 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with a guy I am interested in because he always delays on answering my text messages. When he texts me he ask me if I have a free time, I answer and then after one or two weeks he says he was very very busy. I knew him for four months and he never phoned me. We were ... (334 words)

If he's interested, he'll ask me out again, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with a guy this past Sunday. Tonight he asked me if I wanted to go to this place tomorrow with him in the day time, but I can't because I have to work. So I texted him something like "stuck at work till 8..would definately go with you another time though." Do you ... (72 words)

He likes looking at other women and will not have sex with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age - I am 48 and my boyfriend of 5 years is a very young 56. He enjoys very much looking at other women and watching movies with naked women but he will not have sex with me. He has pushed me away so many times that I do not even try anymore. We go 6 to 8 weeks without sex and ... (91 words)

Advise on finding first job.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

11 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, i need help... in finding a job. i've been miserable as of late stuck in my room doing nothing dwelling on things. it's really driving me mad and to the brink of insanity! i'm a 20 year old whose never ever had a job and i don't know where to start. how do i obtain... (94 words)

What to do to contact the woman you had sex with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) age 30-35 - The next day after having sex with a woman that you totally like and are attracted to what is expected? Should the guy drop her a email or text, call her, or send her a card? What kind of things should be said? Thank you? I liked it? I want it again? After, how can the g... (93 words)

Don't want to wait to have sex, but don't want to get pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - kay..i already made a post or whatever, but im gonna make another one. i really really love the guy im with and we haven't had sex yet. he says he'll wait for me as long as i need him to. the question is is if i can wait. i'm really ready. and i'm kinda worried about the condom ... (109 words)

Virgin, think about sex all the time.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - iam 24 years old and I am virgin and I want to know if its good to think about sex all the time?... (24 words)

Do girls think a long neck is sexy?

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11 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Does any girl here, or does any girl you know think a long neck is sexy? My neck is 5 1/4 inches long, I am the only one in my family to have such a large neck. ... (37 words)

I'm a 22 year old virgin and I just want someone to love

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11 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a 22yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I hang out with a large group of friends and i always feel like the 5th wheel that cant roll with the group due to the fact that sex happens to be a topic ... (381 words)

How could he hurt me so much when I gave my heart and soul to him?

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11 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need help, I'm gay and I'm really depressed my boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago and I'm doing my best to move forward but I just can't deal with is, this heartache is killing me, I miss him so bad, even if he finished the relationship in a very hurtful way, ... (215 words)

I'm too shy to ask but I want oral sex

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11 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - iam married from past two years and have a lil boy..right from my marriage my husband has never done oral on me although i have done almost everytime.im too shy to ask for it but really want it too...dont know how to deal !!... (44 words)

I didn't want him to hurt himself so I'm going back out with him...but I'm so confused

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay So im like 15 i know a bit young but i really need advice. see ive been going out with this boy since the beginning of may, but ive liked his friend all the way through the time weve been dating, and well at first i really liked my boyfriend, i mean he pays attention to ... (236 words)

He broke up with me through facebook, then got his parents involved in moving his things out and now wants me back!

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 24 year old female and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year. I have my own apartment, work full time and I am a full time student. I allowed him to move in. I was not concerned about the financial piece of things because I am in a situation where I ... (843 words)

Is this too much?

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17, and have been taking it fairly slowly (this is my first serious relationship, and he respects that). However, we've recently been getting more intimate. Mind you, nothing below the belt yet, but the shirts have ... (303 words)

Tough choice

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11 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I like two girls, but I only want one (obviously). They both like(d) me very recently, and I cant really choose, but I have to. I’m genuinely unsure of what to try. One girl is totally outgoing, very nice and my next door neighbour. The other one is really smart, mature and a ... (74 words)

I'm attracted to him but not sure.

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is what happened....so im 19 year old mom idk if this has anything 2 do....n at school there is this guy i like and hes really really quiet. And maybe a while ago i requested him on myspace lol n i sent him a message saying we should hang out sometime so he just read it n ... (404 words)

Should I be mad cause she had sex before me?

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11 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I got a problem that is threating to end my relationship. For some reason i keep getting mad at the fact that my girlfriend has sex in the past with other people. I have never felt this way twords someone and when i tell my friends my problem they just say its because I ... (130 words)

Do I get anything if he passes?

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello just need some advise, my husband have been married for 3 years now both have children from previous relationships, all the kids are living with our x's, we run a business which takes most of our time I work really hard 6 days a week just found out that my husband had ... (84 words)

He keeps going into chatrooms, why?

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I've been with my bf for 2 years, we have a child together. Lately i noticed him going into chatrooms.. what does this mean? ... (30 words)

What should I do? I'm scared my marriage failed big time!

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have typed the problems me and my husband are having and I have tried to help our relationship so much and so far it hasn't worked. I have suggested to go to a councilor or a pastor and he said it probably wouldn't work. And it wouldn't I think. We are open with each other ... (1334 words)

My sister wont stop teasing me, how do I deal with it?

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My older sister is a complete b****. I'm not a very sociable person. I find it difficult to mingle with new people. I'm not an introvert, but making new friends is not something that is easy for me to do. My sister always teases me about this. She constantly tells me that I ... (185 words)

My eyes are too dark....

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always been a tough girl. I don't mind being girly. I love love love bows and color, but I am not sure about something. My boyfriend says he likes blue eyes, he says it a lot. I have brown eyes... I am asian so they are sorta dark. How can I lighten them and make them ... (72 words)

Why does he chat with other girls?

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been in a realtionship for 2 years now, we have a baby together . LAtely i've notice that my partner has been going on tis specific chat cite. I was unforttable with it, i spoke to him he got upset ans we didnt speak to each other for 2 weeks. My problem is i am not ... (93 words)

I have guilt that he cheated on her with me

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 15. okay so i love this guy and he says he loves me too. we started talking alot and became reallyclose about 9 months ago. we were like best friends. i had stronger feelings for him but i decided not to tell him because he had a girlfriend. but then he said he had ... (368 words)

How can I help my girlfriend to become the feminine to my masculine?

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11 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Girls, please help and give me some advice or insight if you can!! I love my girlfriend very much, but I've been having some attraction issues. What I mean is that she doesn't seem to be interested in being all that feminine. She doesn't wear a skirt (or if she does, she we... (600 words)

Do I let them drink and bond?

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11 July 2009 (?) age 51-59 - My single best friend has a few medical issues that prevent her from working full time, so she can only work on a casual basis, she also has been very hurt by men in the past. She drinks to cope with this,not getting drunk but regular drinking to relax her. Shes very sar... (327 words)

Have you cheated or been cheated on?

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am just curious how frequently people cheat or get cheated on? By partners, fiances, spouses? And if you have cheated, why did you do it? Is cheating unavoidable in long term relationships? Do all partners get bored at some point?... (41 words)

Is this line true?

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this line true? "Don't trust guys with two first names."... (11 words)

I cant tell him why we cant have anal.

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend wants me to have anal sex with him but i just keep saying no i don't to and not telling him the real reason. The real reason is because since I was little I have had IBS (Irritable bowel syndrome) (http://... (178 words)

Can someone interperate cyber language?

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11 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i received a message from an online female friend who i care for so dearly and it read as follows: HATE YOU* what's with the asterisk? does it mean anything? i'm just not sure if it simply means that she hates me or more. i really wanna know what's with the asterisk. any of you ... (61 words)

Summer time FUN!

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11 July 2009 (M)

age - This is just an observation, as I am not currently in a relationship of any sorts and haven't been for a long long while, can all the young women from ages 18 to 65, please stop dressing so provocatively. It's bad enough my hormones are in constant overdrive. I was... (89 words)

I just cant let go, why?

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11 July 2009 (F)

age - married but to be honest i dont love my husband but afraid to let go why i dont know. I know he no longer loves me either but i think we are just together for the sake of it . its like a comfort thing for both of us. but i just cant keep on like this. its getting me down and ... (71 words)

How di I tell if she is looking for some fun?

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11 July 2009 (M)

age - What signals do I need to look for from a woman to say she has more than being a "friend" interest in me?... (23 words)

Am I too old to express an interest in her sexually?

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11 July 2009 (M)

age - I just want to get some peoples thoughts on this one. At what "age" does it become "unacceptable" for a man (Aged 46) to have lewd thoughts about a young woman (i.e 18). Thanks ... (40 words)

My fiance called off our wedding and engagement

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice.....My fiance called off our wedding and engagement 7 weeks before we were supposed to get married. (August 1, 2009). He had gone away to Maine for memorail day weekend with some friends. He came back acting a little distant and not himself. He applied to ... (439 words)

Should I play by the DOG HOUSE RULES ?

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11 July 2009 (F)

- I just met my bf's friends and I really don't like them at all. They are the most disrespectful people I have ever met and I find them to be quite sexist. They make the most awful "jokes" I have ever heard. They think its funny talking about women being bashed up by the... (479 words)

Boy number1 or boy number 2 ?

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11 July 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Oh, boy! I'm in a huge relationship crisis! I really liked the guy I'm dating, but now he seems like a big jerk. But my problem is this. He won't let go, and I'm starting to like this other guy. But this other guy, well, my parents don't like him, and I'd be banned from ... (75 words)

How do I increase my sexual endurance and not orgasm so soon?

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11 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My question is about the male sex time. what the average male sex time till ejaculation and how to increase it. i feel mine is really short. My gf (she had bf b4 me) said me that male timing in first shot is smaller so come second time to satisfy her. is that right? ... (100 words)

Is he Mr Right? or MR Right Now?

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11 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 7 months now. Before we started dating I was a virgin and he tells me that he has loved me since the first time he laid eyes on me four years ago. Ever since then we were just friends and he always would ask me when i was goin... (747 words)

I think I've fallen for another girl...any advice?

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11 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Basically Ive been chatting to a girl who I think i may have feelings for, now i do have a girlfriend of ten months but im not sure how i feel about her. The girl (not my gf) recently added me on facebook and i think has seen a picture of me and my g/f and my re... (224 words)

Is something wrong with me down there?

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11 July 2009 (?) age 26-29 - When my boyfriend fingers me it doesnt feel that good at all. It kinda hurts but thats because i'm tight. He only uses one finger so obviously its not because there is too many in there. I always get really wet so thats not a problem. I don't understand why it doesnt feel good? ... (158 words)