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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): i like ur idea better lol
good luck :)
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reader, Brittbritt09  +, writes (15 July 2009):
Brittbritt09 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionk thanks for yalls help ill just wait and if there's no change in the relationship then I'll move on :)
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (15 July 2009):
 My dear this guy is no good.You already know this.End the relationship today.Its going to hurt regardless.Sever this relationship quickly before it takes a greater toll on you than it already has.Its not going to get better.I know he is sincere when he tells you hes sorry.Its hard not to believe him when he says it will never happen again.This is because you love him.Not because there is any truth in it.There is no doubt in my mind that this relationship will end.So you can either end it now and be done with it,or let it drag out and deal with all the extra misery thats going to come along with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): yea..well my advice is if it keeps happening maybe you should break up with him and take things from there but getting bak together with him only makes it worsebut as i said its easier said than done
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reader, Brittbritt09 +, writes (15 July 2009):
Brittbritt09 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wish it was all that easy I can't go to my parents or his it will just start drama idk somtimes I think he won't do it again cus he cryed last time choked me n tld me he wouldn't iv broke up with him a thousand times he's never threatend me about it he just crys an says he didn't do anything for me to leave him which makes it so much harder its just like impossible to get rid of him but deep down inside I know I should
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 sweety you are only 13-15!
he shouldn't be doing these things to you grabbing your face choking you?
you're too young to be in something so domestically violent.
how can you love someone who hurts you so bad?
he can't love you if he cheats on you is absuive to you!
you really need to get out there tell your parents or tell his parents!
they need to know what there son is doing to a young girl!
if you want to talk further sweety message me :) here to help if you want to talk.
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (15 July 2009):
This guy needs his butt kicked.Seriously.And trust me on this.You can do better.Love is the purest of all emotions.And most of us as humans have it within our selves to love whomever we chose.The trick isn`t to find someone we love.The trick is to find someone that makes us happy and that treats us right.After that love should come naturally.Your situation may be a little more delicate though.If he is as you have said jealous and abusive he may try hurting you again for leaving him.It may not be easy but I think you should explain things to your mother or some other adult figure you trust.And don`t go anywhere you might be alone with this guy.Once a cheater always a cheated and you have let this guy get away with it ore than once already.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): Its understandable that you love him but if you take a step back and think to yourself "is this really what i want?" You may love him, but if love means being worried about getting abused and having a man who is jealous all the time, maybe its time to move on. But that's only my opinion im sure its easier said than done but i hope with every choice you make its a great on =]wish you the best
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