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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My life is like hell

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I just want 2 ask that if u were a woman and u were married and your husband mistreated and did not talk 2 u while u were married and goed out every day and cumz home late and cheats on u and says that u have 6 months in this house and then u r guns go back to ur parents ... (93 words)

His behavior is driving me loopy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - my guy friend rugby tackles me picks me up forcefully bear hugs me and apparently i owe him like a billion hugs. i don't get it hes the only friend that does this. past times we have pride ourselves on teasing eachother and our dry with but lately he is being very nice ... (164 words)

I'm too old for this, I thought?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately whenever i watch a sexy scene on tv or a cute guy i get a funny feeling inside my stomach. Now when i dream and fantasise in bed i'm starting to leak pee. I woke up after a sexy dream and my panties were damp,i'm going to a sleep over and im scared that i will wet ... (84 words)

He's asked me to go on a holiday but I don't have the money

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all. My boyfriend has asked me to go on holiday with him to new zealand for 2 weeks, the problem is that i cant afford to go with him, should i expect him to pay for me as he earns alot more money than me,he has not asked me how i was going to pay for the holiday as h... (78 words)

He hurt me so I wouldn't go after him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i really need help and asap becuase its for this wednesday. theres this guy. and he liked me alot. and i lvoed him. and he left he hurt me so i wouldnt go after him. and he did it so i didnt know that, i havent been the same since he left me, now i know the truth, and iget... (206 words)

I have a crush on my nextdoor neighbor? Could this get awkward?

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on my next door neighbour (same age). How can we date without having an awkward life if we break up (i.e seeing her and her parents often etc) To top things off, she's good friends with my sister (who told me she's ok with me going out with her). She commented to ... (89 words)

Long and complicated affair with my bro-in-laws wife has left me so confused..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age - I am a sad old man, please help me to solve my problems. I have sex with the wife of my brother in law,we have sex at her age of 36 and me 40yrs old,in year 2000.we have sex in the time when my wife and kids back home to my mother in law at 300km away. The wife of her brot... (774 words)

Drinks gets drunk and turns into Mr Hyde!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so,iv been with my boyfriend now for over 2 yrs.i love him so much and i know he loves me ha tells me every day but the thing is,that when he gets a few drinks into him i never know what he's goin to do next.the way he treats me is so mean and hurtful,telling me to shut my ... (187 words)

Is my boyfriend emoitionally unstable or just nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just, for the second time, ended my relationship with my emotionally abusive ex who is 50 and I am in my early 30's. When I first started going out with him he was exciting, funny, devoted, adored me (although he was still seeing his girlfriend at the time until she ... (1187 words)

Do you think my sexual past is a bad thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and ive slept with 9 guys and 1 girl, would you say its bad? Youngest guy has been 13 when i was 13, and oldest has been 40 when i was 17. Alot of people say its bad, but im not sure, personally i dont think its bad, the only thing that bothers me is that sometimes i... (70 words)

How can I forget about someone I am completely in love with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been completely in love with someone for over a year. We only ever met once and we're not in touch but since we met I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. There is no possibility of this going anywhere yet I can't seem to move on. How do I stop thinking about ... (56 words)

Married an older guy, but after 3 years I now regret it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im married to my hubby for now 3 years.i was 20 when i married him, arranged marriage but with my consent.he is 15 years older than me and actualy looks that old too, at times people avtually thought he was my father.at that time i was so stupid to understand such matters and ... (184 words)

I want to know how other people have dealt with the issue of sex and their parents...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would just like to know if any of you guys told your parents that you had either lost your virginity or were thinking of losing it? And how did they react to it? If you didn't tell them, do you feel guilty at all? Thanks xx... (47 words)

Friend suffering from really bad depression..what should I do?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really worried about my friend. Has anyone had a friend who suffers from really bad depression. He is 17 and I have only known him pesonally for about a year, but he has litterally been depressed every single minuite of everyday. His very quiet, almost mute, but only around ... (188 words)

My wife cheated while I was away. Everyone knew but me! How do we get past this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife cheated on me with a friend that I engaged to do some work for me while I was away from home. He had to keep contact with her to ensure work is completed and he even visited my home in my absence. He spilled the beans to someone close to me and I believe he wante... (356 words)

Am I getting the "brush off" here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl recently - really got on well, just in a social sense. I don't rate myself too highly (I'm not good looking and am partially disabled, though this doesn't always show to people who don't know) and she is exceptionally good looking. Anyway, she said she wan... (169 words)

What is "smart casual"?? What do I wear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. Well basically me and this guy that I like (we went out before and broke up) are seeing each other a few times while his parents are away (dont worry- we will be sensible) and we have been dicussing it tonight. He has asked for the first night that I wear smart casual ... (99 words)

I like him..... but I don't know

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this lad at school and we have already been together. He has been getting really close to me recently. We were talking over facebook and he brung up the question of do you like anyone at the moment? this carried on until he said that he was going to speak to someone ... (117 words)

I want to send an apology text to my newly-married ex-boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - this is bad but i need help. ive just finished with my ex and it has been awful-he has left me in deep financial trouble and has shown little emotion to me during the past 4 years. before this i was with my fiance who at the time i didnt believe loved me so because this... (234 words)

Having erection problems... and I'm only 17!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok So i am a 17 years old healthy guy(breakdancer) I had a bad sex experience like 7 months ago it was my first time too.. And i was inside her but it slipped off and i never got hard again to go back in..it was on the beach and it was winter anyway Since then erect... (343 words)

Don't know what to do about these feelings for my ex boyfriends friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The father of my child passed away two years ago when I was six months pregnant. He was 19 and in a drunk-driving accident (the guy who hit him was drunk) and I was 17 and a senior in high school. We, admittedly, had only known each other for three months prior to the pregnancy ... (243 words)

She really WAS turned on and I misread her! Help me fix this please..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i was out with a girl who im in love with; she really liked me to but i tend to f**k things up after a few days so shes was messin on and i was messin on with her. I didnt no i was turning her on then she told me but i thought it was a joke and she continued messing on with me ... (88 words)

My boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst I'm asleep

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

13 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i really need help! my boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst im asleep. i should explain that i have a medical heart condition that makes me faint quite a lot it also makes me very tired so i have extra naps during the day to prevent becoming ill. i woke ... (215 words)

Having trouble choosing between the two girls that like me...Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am just an everage guy but recently I have had these two girls come on to me and i like them both. One has messed me around a little bit but i like her more, but the other girl genuinely cares about me! I have no idea who to choose. Please help..... (53 words)

Why stay married if I don't feel loved? Then again, is divorce always the wrong choice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) age - What is the main reasons of staying a marriage if it does not work? When is the limit of bad things? What if it's not bad enough to leave, but not good enough to stay? I have security, and stabilty. But I don't have affection, joy and fun. Am I too selfish to thinking of l... (79 words)

How can I get my children's father to step up to the plate?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my children's father off and on for 18 years we are both in our early 40's but he won't commit to us. We have two gorgeous daughters together. We have had our share of trouble along the way. I have lived with him before but he had a girlfriend so it was crazy ... (172 words)

First time sex. Underage but how do I come across it with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im ready to have sex with my boyfriend. I know am 'underage' but I have spoken to my bf about it and we are both ready for this kind of commitment. I didnt come on here to be told am to young and i shouldnt be doing it because I KNOW this okay. Anyway, we been together ne... (171 words)

My mum wants to meet my boyfriend but he won't even say hi to her. I can't please everyone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like im supposed to please everyone, and its impossible and its really getting me down. I am in a very happy relationship with my boyfriend, but he wont come to my house or meet my parents or even say hello to them. this would be fine (because it doesnt really bo... (206 words)

I do care but I just don't trust him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should you continue a relationship when you have trust issues and know that it is not going to be the white picket fence situation that you want? I mean I guesse you never know but.. I mean I think I should walk away on it but dont because I do care..but not necessaritly... (63 words)

Shouls I ask for her forgiveness and hope she will take me back or leave it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm so confused about my feelings and think I've made a terrible mistake! I have recently ended a relationship with the most wonderful woman after 2 years! We had a really deep connection and in the beginning the excitement was fantastic as I chased her which resulted in her ... (421 words)

How can I chase her without putting on pressure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex-fiance and I split up about 2 months ago. About two weeks ago she approached me via email and we have been talking daily since then, and seen each other almost every day since, but only for a few minutes, just to see each other and talk to each other. We split up ov... (382 words)

I start bleeding during sex and its starting to scare me. Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 19 and im goin out wit this guy he 17 and for some reason i started bleeding during sex is something wrong wit me or is it normal please help its startin to scarre me please... (38 words)

How can I mention to him that he has forgotten my birthday!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Well today is my birthday and I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months or so, but he seems to have forgotten. What should I do? I do not want to immediately freak out or anything and start yelling or screaming but I can not help feeling a bit hurt. I only told him o... (184 words)

When I get close to him I get frightened! How do I have sex with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well i am goin out wit this guy and yes i wanna have sex so dose he but Idk how to go about it im in my childhood i was bein touch unwillingly and now it seems if i get so close to him i start to breath heavy and get frightened please help me a few years ago i was put in ... (74 words)

Fallen out of love with my controling boyfriend and can't stop thinking about this other man!

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - please help, i am deeply confused. i have been with my partner for 14 years and have 3 children, we are not married. i am not in love with him any more, we argue a lot and i feel i am just sticking it out for the sake of the kids, there is a 13 year age gap between i was 18... (416 words)

I've never had sex so why is my period late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - right. i'm 1 week late for my period if my cycle was to be every 28 days. but im usually every 30 days and always on time basically since i started 3/4 years ago. i just wanted to know why i might be late. its really bugging me. and we can deffo rule out pregnancy! i've nev... (75 words)

What is this problem I'm having with my penis? it bends down!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello...im 21 and i think that i have a problem with my penis...is about 5.5 inches is perfectly straight...but the head bends and its kinda ugly...i dunno how to explain how the bend acctualy is ... is like when u tring to bend only ure finger tip.and the little whole on the ... (85 words)

I come across very confident sexualy but in reality I'm bricking it! Help me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm nervous. I've been seeing this guy and i'm really worried that i'm not going to be enough, sexually. It's embarrassing to admit... You see, he has 8 inches down there, and I'm worried that I won't be able to give him decent oral sex. He told me he's never had a decent blow ... (143 words)

23 year old son sleeping with male prostitutes for the "kick". Should I tell his fiancee?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age - My 23-year-old son is in university, and lives with us at home (purely for financial reasons - he is otherwise independent). He said to me the other night "Mum, I've got something to confess..." I was expecting it to be something academic-related, but he admitte... (201 words)

I like this boy but mum doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i need some advice, i like some boyy like loads, but my mum is not very keen on him, but i dont know what to do, i want him to be mine, but i also dont wanna loose talking to my mum .. so what will i do :S ? x... (53 words)

I wasn't nice to him when I bumped into him at a party. Should I text him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

- I thank anyone who helps( in advance). I broke up with my boyfriend of twelve years in January. He asked for no contact and I did this. I found out that he has a mutual friend who has been keeping him in touch with what I am doing and his mutual friend has started flirting with ... (153 words)

I don't want a physical relationship, I want something meaningful.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I meet this guy well over 1yr ago, we exchanges numbers 3 to 4 months ago. We went on two dates within the last two weeks and basically went all the way last night our third meeting. I’m 26 and at this point in I’m tired of dating for sport. I’m looking for something more ... (234 words)

Condom split and her mom would kill me if she's pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, Me and my GF are both 18 and we had sex the other day and the condom split and I 'cummed' in her. She is worried now and so am I about her being pregnant. She tells me that she is bleeding downstairrs and she always feels sick in the moirnings. We had sex aroun... (230 words)

Am I really in love with him or his cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and it's been pretty serious. But recently he had a family reunion and I met his younger cousin and we just hit it off. Ever since I met him I can't stop thinking about him, we exchanged cell phone numbers and we've been talking ... (157 words)

I split my foreskin - will this cause future problems for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I had sex firt time n while having the sex my pennies stared bleeding and my forskin slept upward and its very painful it took me long time to get back to its orignal place does this will cause me any promblem and will it happened again if i have sex.... (53 words)

He left his girlfriend but seems more distant to me now..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

- In May, I asked the following question on this site http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-sweet-and-lovely-and-caring-and-cheating.html. After people's advice the man I asked the question about dumped his girlfriend...was a real suprise to me aswell. Things were goo... (370 words)

Why did he change his mind so quickly about me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a big big question that i cant ever think the solution is...well im a single mom and last summer i met a guy (devorce)..so we a had a very serious realtion for almost a year but suddenly he change his mind so quickly...he loves me and so do i, but my question is why man ... (143 words)

How do I approach her about her unwanted sexual advances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've got a problem and I don't really know how to handle it. Last week, a female co-worker came on to me. We've been good friends since I started working there three years ago and I had no idea that she was attracted to me. She came round to my house a couple of weekends ago ... (179 words)

Does the girl I had an affair with want me back?

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Last August i started cheating on my girlfriend (C****) with another girl i met online (J***). Me and J*** really hit it off and I ended up breaking up with C**** in order to get into a relationship with j***. J*** wanted to take things slow and gave me time to ... (354 words)

Should I leave my cousin because he won't marry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I've been going with my third cousin for almost twelve years. I have tried to date other men but I can't leave him. Right now I'm still in love with him and all I want for him to do is marry me but I think he is afraid to do it because of what his family might think. I ... (81 words)

I'm not happy but don't wish to end relationship just because I am depressed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age - hi I am in a relationship, with someone i met around 9 months ago. he moved to my area when he was made redundant and got a good job in the catering industry. (i let him stay at my house, until he was back on his feet but because of my last relationship i am very w... (471 words)

Is he serious or just joking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a year and a half has, in the past, said multiple times that my friends are wh*res, n*ggers, and handfuls of other derogatory names because of some threat that they pose to him. I am not friends with bad people, I am not friends with disrespectful pe... (486 words)

Will my husband-to-be know I'm not a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex with my boyfriend... but i am going to marry with someone else as my family is forcing me......my bf is really ok with my decision to marry someoneelse...... will my to be husband come to know that i am not virgin......... please help........ (48 words)

I feel physically sick, he's not the man I married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been married for the last 15 years to a much older guy.at first we were the ideal couple and to be honest we never argued much.but lately i can't seem to shake off this unsettledness feeling.He spends more and more time at work,complains he is always tired or rudely ... (191 words)

Haven't had a blow job in 6 years from wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 39 year old male and have been married for 14 years. My question is How does my anger towards my wife really affect our relationship? The anger stems from the lack of oral sex i recieve. Before i was married life was good, after that day it slowed down with our busy life ... (118 words)

He cheated, will these feelings go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid.... I have been with my partner for 5 years. About two years ago I found out that he had had phone sex with another girl, I found out by snooping (not by him telling me). When he was confronted he was extremely upset, all tears and said it was stupid and would nev... (240 words)

Did he disrespect me or was it just because he was drunk?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid i have a friend and we are both married,he is aso my workmate.he is good ,friendly but a little bit fond of girls.one night my husband was not around and i attended a party,wi and my friend got drunk but just moderate.he gave me a ride home and he kissed me and wants ... (93 words)

Should I give her some space or just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - alright here it goes. i was talking to this girl iv begun to develop feelings for over the last few months. one night she and i were hangin out and she and i ended up in the bedroom were we did a little fooling around. now she keeps blowing me off. i havnt been overbaring i ... (244 words)

I love him but it's not mutual, how can I reconnect with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really love this guy, but the feelings are not mutual. I haven't seen in a long time, but my feelings for him are growing stronger, and I believe he is worth it. How do I initiate conversation? How do I know that he wants to be my friend?... (52 words)

My girlfriend is under the impression I have a really big penis, but I think I'm average. Will she be disappointed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive met a girl that I really really like. and she has also fallen for me to. She has left her boyfriend of six years for me. Anyway, this might sound very stupid but please take it seriousely as it is getting to me. She is under the impression that I have a really big pen... (329 words)

Are married women more flirtatious than single women? This study has me confused!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - confused and need help.. lately i saw a video on the youtube showing a confusing study that says marreid women or those who are in a stable long term relationship are more flirtarious than sinlge women !! the study was made in a club and it Focusing on the body moves (( th... (87 words)

I'm worried I'm not attractive enough for my boyfriend. Should I be so bothered by this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and I love him very very much. The problem is I'm so insecure about my looks and I can't bear the thought of him looking at other women! It started when I read a message that my boyfriend had sent to his friend about... (384 words)

I get performance anxiety when sleeping with someone for the first time. Would Viagra help? Should I try it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i get really bad performance anxiety when im with someone new for the first time. it stops me getting an ersction. ive met a girl and feel like im really falling for her. would it be a good idea to use viagra for the first time I sleep with her? I should be fine without it ... (91 words)

How can I be around him without feeling anxious and worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am gay and have just left college and have never had the courage to talk to a boy who I have seen for the 2 years I've been there! We have made brief eye contact a couple of times but I don't think it has meant anything, and now every time it happens it's only brief. I think ... (162 words)

Did I do the wrong thing by leaving so fast? I don't know if he likes me, or if it's just me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I have a big problem that i can't seem to sort out. Well there's is this guy who i've like on and off for a few years although only this year have we actually started to get to know each other a bit. But i find it really difficult to know if this guy likes me... (228 words)

I keep thinking I'll never see him again, but I can't stop liking him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I kinda like this guy in my class. The thing is, I'm in China right now. I'm going back to America, but I dont know when. I keep telling myself that I'll nver see him agian in my life, but I can't help liking him. I keep thinking about him before I sleep. I don't want to, but i ... (66 words)

Jealous of another student!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was the smartest girl in class just after miss intelligent came over im alittle jealousd and all the teachers like her now even though i'm better than her in everything other than studies, what do i do? ... (38 words)

Is he trying to put space between us to stop any feelings developing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Very confused. In a very close friendship with a married man whose marriage has collapsed, or so he tells me. About two weeks ago we met up and discussed feelings for one another. however we decided (mainly his decision) to just try and remain friends. He is quite a bi... (241 words)

I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to dale ( my boyfriend ) and ... (231 words)

I think I love my best friend!

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok to cut to the point... i think im in love with my best friend and dont know what to do about it... ok short(ish) version: it didnt start like that but her mom and dad absolutly adore me and want me to date their daughter and my parents want the samething I didn't think that ... (194 words)

Is this just a phase or have I gone too far?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem and it's quite weird so I don't quite know who else to talk to. Background: I've been going out with this lovely man for 2 years now. He is 28 and I'm 22. I've always received a lot of male attention but I never met the person I wanted until him. He was ... (587 words)

How can I tell if I like this guy in my class?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy is my class. Everyone says he likes me, but i don't know if it's true. Everytime he sticks his tounge at me, I kinda smile. I don't know if I really like him. I'm not sure. How can I tell if I like him? If I do have a crush on him, what should I do?... (59 words)

My boyfriend wants a threesome, should I do it to keep him happy?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age - oh oh now my boyfriend wants a 3 some with another woman just the one off mind to see if it will help him get hard but i dont know how to go about it please help im willing for him to try this just to keep him happy thanx... (50 words)

At first my boyfriend was sweet and respectful, but now he seems to just want sex!

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well i jus started goin out wit my boyfriend at first he seemed really sweet and respectedful but when i finaly said i would go out wit him he changed he started say he was ganna f*** me so hard in my ass and jus made me start to really feel uncomfortable do i break up with ... (75 words)

Thinking about having sex for the first time and need advice!

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok will im 15 and im thinking really hard about havin sex for the first time but im really scarred that its ganna hurt and im not ganna know what to do please help me... (35 words)

Do I stay with her and be shunned by my family or stay with her and be unhappy?

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey every one, i've been in a relationship w/ my girlfreind for over a year now, i don't feel loved anymore and feel like she's only with me for physical reasons. But i do love her and don't want to lose her. i'm unhappy and am becoming very depressed, and to complica... (113 words)

Why is she ruining our friendship?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had this best friend since freshman year and we are now seniors...we are both lesbians and well, we have a weird friendship. i started out obsessed with her. then i got over it and we were best friends. i liked her on and off for years, then just last year we randomly... (159 words)

How does anybody forgive someone that has cheated on them?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out that my boyfriend of 8 months cheated on me. The girl he cheated on me with is suppose to be one of my good friends, and her boyfriend told me. I didn't talk for like twenty minutes, because I just sat there in shock. Apparently thus happened two weekends ago. ... (405 words)

Is my boyfriend just feeding his 2 year old's disobedience?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf 2yo is very disobedient. whenever she is naughty she mostly gets away with it. Some times bf will sit her down and say no stop being naughty, and she will cry to get her way out of it this is when bf will cuddle her and say its alright. Is this productive? Or feeding her ... (58 words)

My best friend has a drinking friend, and is leaving me out!

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13 July 2009 (?) age 51-59 - is it true that old saying that "misery loves company" are drinking buddies really "bonded" in real f.ship? my best friend drinks a fair bit to cope with her medical and personal issues, she knows she does this. She has in the past 9 wks, become good friends with (friend... (258 words)

My overly provocative friend....

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Views wanted on this please. I have a very good friend who has had a partner for the last 6 months and I have been with my partner for 4 years. However, we invited them round for supper last week and all night, my friend kept bending over and basically showing off her tits. ... (358 words)

Should I just keep him as a friend or can I change his mind about being in a relationship?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - The man i used to date last year appeared suddenly last week. He called me after two months. It was late in the night and i was out in a club with one friend of me (woman). He asked me and i told him where i was and he came to me. He talked to me and to my friend, he was polite ... (239 words)

What protection should I use to avoid getting pregant?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - to avoid pregnancy...should condoms and pills both be used.....or only condom can avoid pregnancy... (14 words)

I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me....

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me, and I feel like going to his house right now and just wailing on him. I feel so hurt as I have been played for a fool for these last couple of weeks and everybody knew and didn't tell me!!! I feel so hurt and I dont know how to... (133 words)

Can you catch STD's from oral sex even when neither person has one?

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, this is a very simple question but I don't know it. Well my girlfriend gave me a blowjob and she was worried she mite get something we are both 15 yo. n have been dating for 3 yrs. I wanted to know can she get a disease even if I don't have one? and I have gave her oral ... (75 words)

Pregnant and betrayed by my porn loving boyfriend

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 15 months. I am 8 and a half months pregnant with his baby. We are both young (i am 16 and hes 22) and He has told me, not just told me but promised me and looked me in the eye and said "babe i dont need porn because i love you, i ... (264 words)

My best friend and boyfriend hate each other!

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple months ago my boyfriend and my best friend got into a fight over facebook. I had a picture and my best friend, (he is a guy btw) commented on it, saying "You are so beautiful, I love you!) My boyfriend responded to this very negatively, he admitely got very jealous... (292 words)

I want my ex to leave me alone to let me get on with my life!

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - hi I am a 45 year old bloke. My problem is 2 years ago I met someone whilst i was with my partner of 7 years and as we weren't married and i paid all the mortgage of our joint house, I wanted her out and my new g/f in. So I told her she never paid her way, cleaned properl... (425 words)

My boyfriend is too selfish to tend to my needs!

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hm, where do I begin? I've currently been in a LDR with my boyfriend for the past six months, we are not in a LDR any longer as he moved back to my hometown. I feel like he is the most selfish boy on the planet yet I instantly can forgive him with a simple touch or, "I'm s... (412 words)

How can I be sure my internet boyfriend loves me?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i am dating this guy online.... i'm 14 almost 15 and he's 19. We've been dating for 9 months now. He says he loves me.. I've seen tons of pics and him even on webcam so i know he's not lying... he seems like he's rlly in love... but how can i be sure of that? we r going to ... (78 words)

My b/f keeps asking me for anal sex, I don't know what to do or how it's done?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, my boyfriend keeps asking me to have anal sex with him. I have never taken it up the butt and am not sure if it will hurt or what i am supposed to do. Can you help me?... (39 words)

Two guys are chasing me for sex, what should I do?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well i'm a 14 year old girl, and um Lately i've been gettin alot of attention from the guy's i'm a Virgin and Just got out of a long bad Relationship, I know 2 Guy's That like me right now but They mostly want to have sex, tHat's not the bad Part, The bad part is that ii ... (104 words)

Should I keep our friendship or throw it away?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well i'm a Fourteen Year old girl and i just got out of a 9 month RelationShip, i guess u can say i was in puppy Love, Apparently he's turning 17 and i We're Still friend's And talk but he Still has hard feeling's for me since I'm the one who broke up with him, But it was a ... (93 words)

I think I am in love, am I, and can I make this work despite of the age gap?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey i need help asap i met this guy and he is perfect i work in theater so i hav alot of gay friends (im bi so is this guy) but all of them think we r perfect and i totally agree i hav had many crushes and not to many boyfriends but not once hav i felt like this i really think ... (111 words)

I'm concerned about the porn I found on his computer!

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So recently I was on my boyfriend's computer and saw that he had google searched and dowloaded a porn video. The name sounded weird to me so I looked it up later and it turns out it was from a porn site where men have sex with women while they're supposedly asleep. In this ... (150 words)

If I keep going out with him without feeling a connection, am I leading him on?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this man and he is a nice person and I open really slowly so I usually need to spend lots of time with someone before I'm really into that person. He's a nice man, polite and seems to be very into me( calls me often, texts me, keeps asking me out) and i realize and ... (191 words)

Is it normal for me to bleed the second time I have sex?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesterday, and i bled a bit, and it hurt. it stopped bleeding and hurting soon after. thats normal, i know that...but then today we went to do it again and i bled again, even though it didnt hurt. it wasnt as much, but it was ... (79 words)

When should I ask my ex to give me another chance?

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my ex and i broke up about a month ago, we ended on good terms. we text each other once in a while to see how we're both doing. i want to talk to her face to face but whenever i text her, when she is available she kind of avoids giving me an answer. so i was thinking about ... (236 words)

My crush asked me about my trouble but then he didn't say a word, is he just polite and nothing else?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a deep problem right now, so I have a long distance friend who is or was at least some kinda of crush, since we keep in touch very often and we are or at least were very fond to each other. Well, he knew I was having this trouble and I didn't wanted to email since I´m ... (190 words)

How can I take compliments better?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not insecure, but I'm really bad at taking compliments from guys so sometimes I think it comes across as insecurity. Here's an example: Watching tv with a guy I'm seeing when a female celebrity comes on and he says "wow, I love her! She's so sexy" and I say somethin... (102 words)

When does puberty start?

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hey ppl. okay so what i really wanna know is when/what age the body starts developing/puberty, and when does penis size start to increase????... (24 words)

He's not as rich or young as my family would like!

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with a significate age difference (legal) and a very noticable class difference. If anyone has been in or is in either of these types of relationships, I'd would love any advice on making this easier. Being on the upperclass side of this, is there any way ... (125 words)

Can I make my period come sooner or later?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going on vacation with my best friend on the 24th and I'm susposed to get my period then which will be horrible ... so is there anyway I can make it come sooner or later ?... (37 words)

Love on the rocks, we broke up, should I email her to start anew?

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - This may sound really stupid to alot of you but here it goes. I met this girl one day for like 1 minute she was a mutal friend of a friend. I felt something the secound I saw her, she admited she did too. Here is where it starts we knew each other for like a week emailing and ... (714 words)

My anger is harming our relationship

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so i have been with my girlfriend for two years now and in the beggining i was the complete shy, nerdy guy that would never dream about getting angry at her. no matter how mad she made me i wouldnt show it and i would just bottle it up so i wouldnt upset her by doing ... (349 words)

How to cope with missing home and him?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have gone away to college, five hours away from my home. I miss my boyfriend so much. At least, I think that's what it is. I become so sad and await anxiously for a phone call or a text from him all the time. Today, we were talking but his phone died. He couldn't charge it ... (190 words)

She studdies religion and shuts everyone out.

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello again agony aunts! i've got a doozy here and need some outside perspective. starting at the beginning, my current girfriend whom i love with all i am, has had some major issues in the last year and a half. basically about two years agot she was having some sort of... (498 words)

I know what is right, but I'm still confused on what to do

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am newly engaged to an MP in the army and he is stationed at Guantanamo Bay, I live near an air force base so naturally i have alot of air force friends well one of my friends which is a guy has been hitting on me knowing i am engaged and sends me texts messages of what he ... (121 words)

My daughter is showing her body to some guy via her phone!

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hey i'm in big problem. My daughter is 16. I saw his mobile phone with some wrong messages. she was sharing with her school mate..those message r kind of sexual pleasure. Its seems they r showing their body to each other . i know the boy well. he is from good background . then ... (105 words)

Is he only in It for the Sex?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm newly single, was married for 6 years. However I'm only 23, young by most standards! I would like to have a relationship, but am not looking for someone to bring home to my kids. I met a guy back in April we had a class together, and 2 weeks ago he asked me out. We ... (332 words)

How can I stop my period?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey , i'm travelling in a few days and my period is due to start in these couple of days , is there anyway to stop it so i can enjoy my vacation ? and if not, can i go swimming wearing a tampoon ? blood wont flow ?? i never used one ... (54 words)

Can second cousins have a future together, we're falling for each other?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i think im fallin in love with my 2nd cousin and he is falling for me too but we dont know how this will work out if we are blood or what he really wants to be with me he tells me everyday that i make him happy he has a smile on his face every time he looks at me say my name i ... (80 words)

Girlfriend was raped when she was a child, and does not like me to hold or touch her, what can I do to change this?

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend was raped when she was a kid, and now it affects her. She hates been touched in any form. I really like to hold her but she nevers allow me to hold her. What should i do?... (39 words)

Is it any big deal if I masturbate 2 or 3 times a day, are there any side effects?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im a 17 yr old female n i am just wondeting is it weird that I mas turbate 2 or3 times a day ? And does it have any side effects or something ?... (38 words)

How do you know when you have had an orgasm during sex?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so Ive had sex with a few older than me men. But...as embarrassing as it is, I don't ever know when I cum... He stops when he does and I can't ever tell if I do. I always say it was great because I don't want to disappoint them. How can you tell during sex?... (56 words)

My partner calls out his ex's name when we have sex, does he still love him, should I move on?

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently been seeing my partner for over a month now and everything has been ok except for his insecurities about me cheating although i never would and have never cheated on any of my other partners... Whilst having sex my partner said his ex`s name with alot of passion ... (96 words)

I want to see him, but afraid of getting in trouble with my parents, what do I do?

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey well im kind of involved with this guy.. were friends with benefits i guess and welove eachother. the thing is i dont get to see him alot. i want to sneak out to his house tonight( its in walking distance) just to see him. seriously im so sad and lonely and all i want is to ... (86 words)

I feel he has ruined my life, my parents kicked me out, he dropped ne but keeps calling me, how can I get rid of him forever??

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13 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im sorry for the poinless detail here, but i just cant understand whats going on anymore, im a total mess and im so confused! back in september 08, i met a guy, i was out in town one night (not out drinking or anything, just generally out) and he was waitin at a bus ... (759 words)

We talk every night, how do I take this to another level?

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13 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl at school and we talk every night on msn but i want to get closer to her and begin a relationship with her, what should i do?... (31 words)

My girlfriend says she loves me, I think she's cheating and I'm insecure, any suggestions to help us?

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13 July 2009 (M) age 30-35 - two days before me and my gf started dateing she was talking dirty to another guy through internet on myspace and i think she lies to me alot i love her and she says she loves me but i think she cheats on me and talks to other guys she dnt want me talking to woman so idk im ... (74 words)