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Am I just a way to get over his girlfriend?

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Question - (15 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have feeling for one of my best male friends. we a re very flirty and there is a strong chemistry. he has a gf but we have kissed quite a few times recently, without anyone knowing. i want to know if he has feelings for me or i am just a way to get over his girlfriend?

he has told people he does like me, and that if she wasnt in the picture he would go for me but i dont know what to believe and im very confused please help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

hi surely he must have feelings off some sort for you if he is kissing you any chance he gets. i would come straight out and just ask him if this is gunna lead anywhere. if you dont you will never know x

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A male reader, Jason32477 United States +, writes (15 July 2009):

Jason32477 agony auntIf he is willing to be with you while he is with her he will be willing to be with someone else if he is with you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

I would say don't get involved until he is single. You could tell him how you feel, girlfriend or not, and if he does feel the same you should tell him you can't be with him until he's single. Or you could tell him after he's split with his girlfriend, if and when that happens. He could like you but still be with her, because he doesn't know how you feel, or what you want. Not trying to give you false hope either, as he could be one of those guys who don't care about cheating on their girlfriend, and just wants some fun. But you know him so talk to him and find out what you both want.

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A male reader, Rogerramjet Canada +, writes (15 July 2009):

Yeah, i agree with Samii. Most guys are quite happy to have their cake and eat it too. Do you really want to be "The other girl" in a relationship?

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