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He stood me up a few times, yet I still think I should stick around

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Question - (15 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *erenity1 writes:

what do you think when you've been seeing a guy for over a year (dating) and he all of a sudden, stands you up (more than once) and says he'll call you back and doesn't?

im not a spring chicken im almost 30. it seems as though this guy doesn't want to be bothered with me. what do you guys think?

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A female reader, Brittbritt09 United States +, writes (16 July 2009):

iv tryed to break up with him I do it almost every day so its not that he jus crys an tells me not to do it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009):

Perhaps you think you are old at 30, but what happens if you are with him another 5 years and then you are single at 35?

He is making it very obvious that he doesn't give a rat's ass about you and if you allow him to treat you this way, it will only get worse. He keep pushing you away until you are finally gone, why see how rotten he can really be?

Gather up your courage and walk away.

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A female reader, boo22 United Kingdom +, writes (15 July 2009):

boo22 agony auntHi there, what has your age got to do with anything? Have you no self respect girl? He sounds like the typical no balls kind of guy who wants to get out of the relationship but doesnt have the guts to end it himself so he's hoping you'll do it. I bet he wouldnt put up with it, so why are you?

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A female reader, juicychic82 United States +, writes (15 July 2009):

I think you are right, he does not want to be bothered with you anymore. He stood you up a couple of times. What was his excuse? Did he offer any? I would move on if I were you, I know it's easier said than done but why bother with a jerk like him!

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