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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She has feelings for a relative..its weird, right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl while on vacation 10months ago. She lives in Colorado and I live in Florida. We hit it off and had a great time. We have spoken everyday since we met. She has visited me twice since I have met her even though she has never flown on a plane before. I... (541 words)

The guy I had an affair with has been cheating on his current girlfriend, so I sent an anonymous email. Do you think he might finally have learned his lesson?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I had an affair with a guy that works with me.We were friends for 2 years,then we started to have sex for 1 year then we stopped. Now we are friends again for 2 years. His last girlfriend left him because he cheated on her. Then he cheated on me with his current girl fri... (254 words)

Why would he say he's happier when he's really not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I got together last night to watch a movie at the house.One thing lead to another and we had sex.He initiated it *he knew previously that I wouldnt be against/weird out cos of it or think we're together*.During - he seemed like he was holding back a bit.The night ... (426 words)

Is 5 months too soon to propose to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi every1, would u say 5 months is too early to propose? my girl moved over here from scotland last year, we met through work and got it together end of feb. i know for sure she's the one. i'm going to scotland with her in 2 weeks to meet her family and we are going to a posh ... (226 words)

I'm 15. He's 24. Mom says she's going to throw him in jail! Is that possible?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 15 year old girl, dating a 24 year old guy. We've been dating for about a year. I know there is a really big age gap there. But we've never had sex, he has never pressured me into anything and the furthest we've gone is kissing. My mother found out about my boyfriend and ... (99 words)

The skype lies

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello guys and girls.Im writing a question about one thing that bothers me.When im chatting with the girls they say that they are going offline,but they are still online in the skype? I send hugs to them and they reply to me with hugs WTF is going on here ? What `s the reas... (70 words)

Is what he's begun to say to me an idication that he now sees me as a potential g/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have a male friend, who I am very close to. We talk every day, and I have been attracted to him for a very long time. Recently he has started making little slips in conversation, accidentally saying sexual things, or implying innuendo without actually deliberately doi... (113 words)

I know I like him and I think he likes me, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, there's this boy who I really really like. He goes to my school, and ironically we never really talked in school, but then I went to summer camp and surprisingly he was there and we started talking and now we're really close. Anyway, he started flirting with me and ... (185 words)

Night attacks from my mind over boyfriends past!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so this was a year ago now. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for seven months when we went to the same uni and i got involved with another man and broke it off with him. That dissolved quickly and by the new semester i was back with my boyfriend, however i found out ... (225 words)

I just don't know why no one likes me. Can you help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Why am i so lonely? I mean, I am 14 and I have never been kissed and have only ever had one gf but I dont understand because I think Im a nice guy and im quite sensitive but I just dont know why no one likes me! can u help me please??... (53 words)

Mirena IUD... or IUDONT

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if this is the right place to ask this, but my doctor has suggested that I should think about getting the Mirena IUD. I just wanted to know if anyone here is using it or has used it and how it works or worked for them.... (50 words)

How can I let her go when I love her so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After eight years, my g/f and I decided to have a open relationship with others on the internet because she said she was having problems with being faithfully..not cheating on me just liking on getting to know other people. I was having problems with this even though I didn't ... (415 words)

I love him...but I think he hates me!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My now ex, isnt with me anymore because since he came back from the war he seems to be way distant than normal. Ive tried to be there for him but he always tells me hes all alone and no one understands him. We were always getting into arguments just about everyday and I didnt ... (161 words)

My love for my bestfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, well i have this girl bestfriend that ive known for about two years now. when i first met her, i was dating this other girl i thought i was in love with. during that time, i never really payed attention to my bestfriend yet. i never paid any attention to any girl ... (1582 words)

Why does it hurt during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When i have sex with my boyfriend sometimes it hurts internaly. Why does it hurt? But again often times it feel ok.... (22 words)

I'm hopelessly Jealous

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and everything's great aside from one thing - I'm ridiculously jealous. Of course everyone gets that way sometimes, but, I get jealous too many times a day. I can't go to movies with my b/f because I know he's watching the ... (545 words)

Should I leave home to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Two questions in one day, I'm on a roll. Okay, if you haven't read my earlier post, then you probably don't know that i had a misarriage. I had it a week and 1 day ago. My boyfriend's life isn't that great right now, his fathers an alocholi and his mother is afraid to leave ... (321 words)

Did being pregnant ruin our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I are 21 and she is pregnant. When we first found out the news we were both scared and shocked, I would be lying if I said anything different. In the next few days we both talked and were very excited, she always wanted to start a family young and I had no ... (212 words)

Is it really over between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How long do breaks in a relationship last? My boyfriend and I of two years have just had a son together and all the extra stress that goes with it. We've been fighting more. And he wanted to break up so I packed my things then he changed to I need to thing about what I wana do. ... (88 words)

Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other day as friends had a great ... (153 words)

She knew that it would be a short-term relationship, but now she is pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been dating a girl for nearly a year, I'm on holiday in the UK and we both know that I was going back to Aus in the end, I have been completely honest from the start about all that. I leave in 6 weeks, and she just told me she is pregnant and keeping the baby, i'm ... (71 words)

Why has my boyfriend started calling me names and being horrible?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys (: ive been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months now, weve generally been really happy together although he is rather prone to mood swings (a couple of times we almost ended the relationship over them). recently we spent a week together on holiday and since then (we... (213 words)

Why am I upset that my ex got married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i cant understand why this is bothering me my ex fiance got married 6 months ago and hearing it has upset me quite badly. when we were together we were together about 4 years we got engaged and the ring he got me cost 15.99- we were both on good salaries. anyway we got a... (144 words)

He flirts on-line -- how do I make him stop??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey my boyfriend is 16 and im 5 months older than him weve been together a little less than 4 months i really like him he's told me he loves me weve met each others family and friends and were really happy together i can just be myself around him :) but i'll go on beb... (148 words)

I gained a baby but lost my period. Is this a problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my pregnancy end it a year ago a got a healthy 1 year old baby but up to now i did not get my period back. there is any problem with me? ... (32 words)

I'm 14, he's almost 18, and I'm nervous about his 'needs'

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and I fell in love with a 17 year old boy. We met at school and we even kissed once. We are considering being together. I know my friend's views but I'd like to hear from people who aren't biased. He is about to turn 18, which might worry people. Is it bad? ... (119 words)

Does this guy like me or is he just a flirt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So theres this guy who i've been talking to him for some time now and i always get a vibe that he likes me but, he has a girlfriend... here is the story: I was talking to him for a like month and i was getting a vibe that he liked me. He said he wanted to go watch a mov... (263 words)

Should I call the maths teacher I'm in love with?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and in college. I am in love with my Maths teacher, we talk all the time, I feel so much love for him its untrue. I think he has feelings for me too. We have finished college for the summer and he gave me his mobile number and home address and said if i want or need a... (101 words)

She has a boyfriend, but we want to sleep together and I'm worried about the size of my penis. What should I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - the girl i liked she said she liked me too but she has a bf an idk what to do. she said that it is ok that we have sex but neither of us have ever done it before. i like her alot an when we do finally have sex i want it to make her like me even more. i am fourteen goin into ... (98 words)

Want to lose my virginity but I'm scared I'll bleed. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm fourteen, and i'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years, and we want to have sex soon. I'm afraid, because if he goes really fast, I'll bleed, and I don't want to bleed all over him, because if y ou're a virgin and you pop your cherry or whatever? Just ... (62 words)

He tells me he loves me by text but not in person, should I be worried about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend loves me. He's told me via text. Also when he's drunk. I also know that he wants us to last forever and move in together. But again, he says this through text or when he's drunk. I know he has communiation problems, but why won't he say it in person?? He says its ... (85 words)

Am I overreacting? - Is there anthing I could do to help this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age - I have another question. Could I tell you about my current feelings? On Monday I started my new job and we planned to go to the cinema today. I booked tickets yesterday. At work I get a message from her saying she had received a call from (an ex) saying there is a party an... (755 words)

20 and never had a boyfriend...What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 20 and i've never had a boyfriend! I'm ready for one, what am i doing wrong? I am confident, happy and sure i'm not all that looks wise but there's nothing wrong with me either. I go out, socialise, I've dated a bit, had fwb (i found out this wasn't for me and would... (132 words)

My ex is having crazy mood swings, what's her problem

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I work with an ex who cheated on me. I walked away caused no trouble and was hurt. It appears the other man didn't work out. During this time I have made every attempt to be civil and polite with my ex. But what I find is one day she will make the effort to give me a sm... (190 words)

His performance in bed is so disappointing I'm not sure I want to see him again! Should I tell him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age - I have been seeing a guy for a very short time, He invited me to his place for a meal the other night. After a few glasses of wine, we ended up in bed. I was very dissapointed in his performance, to say the least. He was too rough, and didnt bother with much forplay, afterwa... (134 words)

Curious about certain in-law behaviour. Need input on this.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I need someone's input on this. My sister-in-law and a few of my wife's cousins have the tendency of getting up close to me to the point where their breast is rubbing up against my arm. For example, if we are at a party and I am taking pictures with my camera my sister in law ... (231 words)

Does this flower have a deeper meaning?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - While on a bike ride with a mutual friend, the boy of my affections picked me a tiger lily off the side of the road to bring back to me. However, he does not know about my affections for him and I'm wondering if maybe this flower may have meaning to it. Do guys just pick ... (67 words)

Do I have a problem with cocaine?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If someone spends £230 on cocaine a week would you say they have a problem? It started off as trying it on a night out and im spending atleast £230 a week on it, and i mainly do by myself. I dont really have a family to turn to, all i have is friends but they do drugs to, and... (86 words)

I fell madly in love with her, but I'm too tongue tied to tell her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey well theres this girl in school that i fell madly in love with at 1st sight but i know that i have no chanse what so ever with her she soo beautiful i dont know what to do. what should i do whenever i try to tell her i get tongue tide and can't think stright and also i ... (71 words)

I like him only as a friend. How do I let him down easy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have a friend who likes me. I don't like him at all in that way. We're just friends. He has a girlfriend anyways. The other night, I was hanging out with him and two other people. He kept trying to sit closer to me. When he was as close as he was gonna get, he k... (273 words)

I want to turn this from a good relationship into an amazing one!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend still really loves me because he tells me all the time, but how do i get him to show it? i want to make an amazing relationship out of a really good one, any suggesions please ? xx thanks!! ... (42 words)

I'm having stronger feelings for my girl friend... am I bi?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heyah everybody! im getting really confused lately if i am straight or bi or even just bi curious.. i know my best friend for years and i am begining to have feelings for her.. i had an awful hard time with guys they treated me really bad and she was always there to regain ... (179 words)

Keep in contact or let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

What's with a guy when....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok would like opinions from both guys and girl here please! :) Whats with a guy when... 1) he talks to your friends and starts converstaions with them on msn but doesnt with you! He only talks to you if you talk to him. 2) when he chose to sit next to u for a year i... (423 words)

"Dating" is shaking my confidence AND making me lonelier!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age - I found this site by googling the same question almost as Honeybun. I am an older woman - divorced for almost 10 years - had a financee 6 yrs ago for 4 rocky years. My thing is I am older over 50 and maybe I shouldn't complain....please keep reading....I have men from 25 up ... (286 words)

Sex and masturbation questions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how often do guys want to have sex? how often do they masturbate? is that all they think about in a relationship? and also, i know a single guy in his 20s. he's been single for a while. does he masturbate? and is it a lot different than being with a woman?... (60 words)

Is it their fault I have changed my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel like im loosing my bestfriend because she keeps slying off with my "friend" *sophie* it breaks me everytime i see them together because there always talking and messing around and never let me join in on the fun - i have currently changed styles as an "emo" not the ... (64 words)

I met a Turkish man in Germany and now I'm very confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi All I have just returned from a holiday in Germany with some friends who live their. While in Germany I met a Turkish fela the same age as me 34- he has lived in Germany apparently for 12 years or so and seems to be quite successfull in his job. We met on the autobann ... (836 words)

My boyfriend leaves me for his ex-gf. How do I move on from this extremely hurtful pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for 6 months. I know it may sound like a short amount of time, but I began to fall for him. However, towards the end, we were having a rough time and he ended up leaving me for his ex-gf. Supposedly she was asking him back and he left. I was heartbroken, ... (385 words)

Do women in relationships still masturbate or have sexual thoughts about other men?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I were talking the other day and the topic of masturbation came up. When I asked her the question I am positive she fed me with a bullshit answer. So basically I want to take a poll here. The question for any married woman or women living with their bf or fiance. ... (113 words)

My little boy has an air buble behind his belly button, can anyone help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya i am a new mum 2 a little boy, he is now just over 4 weeks old and i have noticed an air bubble behind his belly button which is raise and is squishy 2 press. can any body help? x... (43 words)

Is it wrong for me to be in love with my first cousins son?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently started dating my aunts sons son. We have totally fallen in love with each other and have a connection like non other I have ever felt with any guy in my entire life. I cannot even imagine the thought of not having him in my life this way, he has come to mean so ... (201 words)

I feel a little afraid of the monster my brother is turning into.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know what to do , i work in my family business with my brother who is a year or so younger then me , we are both in our late 20's . He has caused nothing but trouble for my parents since he was a child and still at it now bringing all sorts of problems home , he owes ... (404 words)

Is a penis with a girth of 4.5 to 4.75 inches considered thin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is a penis with a girth of 4.5 to 4.75 inches considered thin? I know I shouldn't be asking this and be confident in my size, but I have recently overheard a particularly catty group of women bragging about their boyfriends 7 inch girths. (Give or take half an inch.) A 7 inch ... (60 words)

I think I want to break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the problem...after a long time of thinking i have decided that i want to break up with my boyfriend. Because i get so nervous talking to him about serious things (which leaves me forgetting what i was meant to say) i decided it was best to write everythi... (176 words)

She was my first time, but I'm wondering if I was hers?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i recently got married and on our first night we didnt go all the way as she said it was hurting her but even on the next day she didnt bleed but she says she was a virgin. can that happen as she doesnt play any sport and i always thought there should be lot of blood on the ... (125 words)

Should I give up on the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Aiight, check it... I'm 20, two years ago ago I was with this girl, she's 18.. knowing how she was.. she was scared of letting her parents find out, so we were in a private love affair... Things got really heated and we almost had sex on many occasions, but she was a virgin a... (440 words)

I'm a little obsessed with knowing what shes doing now that shes single...any opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How long is considered a normal amount of time after a break up to be following your ex's life through a social networking site? Im going on about three weeks straight after a year long relationship. Other than that Im over it. I wouldnt even want to get back together if she ... (68 words)

How can he make assumptions about me without even meeting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, I met this man through a dating website he lives in my city, I asked him to be friends with me so he said yes. He told me he has a disabilty his left hand has a nerve problem so its not easy for him to type and he even stopped to drive. We went all well for 2 weeks... (151 words)

Females: How do you react when a guy is hugging you and he gets an erection?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

22 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Females: How do you react when a guy is hugging you and he gets an erection? Do you act flattered? Are you usually disgusted? I hug this girl from time to time and I always get an erection whilst hugging her. I used to find it embarassing until she said "Happy to see me... (169 words)

I don't understand how he can be friends with someone who calls me a whore and a slut!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'll start at the beginning. I started dating this really nice guy, whom i've come to love a lot. We've been dating for nearly 5 months, and it's been getting a little rocky. I am 17, and he is 18. We both had this friend and we stopped being friends with her after sh... (1026 words)

We all need to move on, but its like we cant....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents split up about a year and a half ago, but the divorce is only being sorted out now. It's exceptionally complicated because they own a business together as well. There are many reasons as to why they split up - they're just two very different people who have grown a... (323 words)

What can I do to get my money back from my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I split up with my ex (we were together for 2 years)nearly a year ago because he stole money from my parents. He still owes me a lot of money and keeps on giving me excuses on why he can't pay me back! I have a new boyfriend and he has a new girlfriend which he is planning to ... (110 words)

When we met up she was all over me, but now she isnt replying to my texts! What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known I have been gay for about a year or so, and I have had gay flings wtc but ive never been in a sexual relationship with a girl. I started talking to a girl (friend of a friend) about two months ago, and we were talking and texting loads. I really started to like her ... (236 words)

How come I always pick guys that are like my father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help my boyfriend is just like my father. He is immature, a drug addict, and alcoholic. I didn't notice at first but then in the middle of the relationship I had noticed that they were exactly alike in so many ways. My boyfriend is the same age as me and i don't know if ... (119 words)

I know we can work things out but he wants to throw in the towel, how do I put things right?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I even attempt to move on with my life without the man I love so much, the father of my child and the man who has been a great stepfather and friend to my other children whom they all have love and respect for? The man who my family also respect and like so much, de... (245 words)

Should I stay with him? Throughout our 3 year relationship I have been depressed and I feel like I am losing my mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been through alot in our relationship, he's a widower and has a little daughter. I don't know if I should stay with him. He always takes his mother in law and sister in law side (they don't like me...trust me I know they don't)and is always making ... (149 words)

My boyfriend accuses me of flirting when I was at an industry networking event! Will this type of man ever change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an event management student, and our teacher organises frequent visits to exhibitions and conferences. this is a great way for us to network with industry professionals. today was the australian event business expo and was a great opportunity for me to network, so i did ... (268 words)

I feel like I'm the only one putting the effort in, should I stop seeing this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Good morning all, well i have a lil problem i cant decide whether or not to continue seeing this guy. Weve been seeing each other for 2 months. Yesterday he worked over time so i texted him to let him know that if he felt like it then he could txt me when he got off well he ... (113 words)

Been together 5 months, and he still hasn't told me he loves me!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost five months now, and he still hasnt told me that he loves me. when we are together our relationship seems great but when apart he seems a bit distant and as if he doesnt appreciate me. Im not sure if he really does love me but once when he ... (113 words)

Do you think my sexual history is bad?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just looking for opinions if you think my sexual history is bad. im 19 nearly 20. before my bf i have had sex with 4 guys, all of whom i was in a relationship with or had strong feelings for. In about 4 years i have hooked up (made out) with about 25 guys, most in clubs. i have ... (109 words)

Should I hang out with my friends more so I can drink again or just ditch that scene all together?

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22 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so, i'm not sure if this is even the thing to be talking about, but here goes... when i was younger, 14-16 i was REALLY heavy into drugs but when i met the right girl i slowed down and now i dont even really drink. but that's not the issue. thing is, i keep getting urges... (163 words)

Does it sound like something happend between my boyfriend and his ex?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I ask for your advice? Can you give me your opinion on this: Boyfriend said he wanted to do his OWN thing at home on Saturday night. I tried to call him that night, no answer. Tried again, a while later, no answer. I'd text and ask what he's up to, as it's strange I ca... (373 words)

I'm in love with my best friend, is there a chance he feels the same way?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my bestfriend and I don't know if he feels the same way. We text each other everyday and he would find time to hang out with me even though his busy schedule. He said that he will never leave me and I am the most important person. He would tell me that he ... (101 words)

I've just found out that I'm pregnant but I want to leave my boyfriend!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right i basically need to know what i should do. I just found out i'm pregnant last week, i knew i was for a couple of weeks anyway so it didn't come as a HUGE surprise. I'm almost 8 weeks in. I'm happy at my little surprise bambino and excited. The only problem i have is, i ... (291 words)

I enjoy sex with my boyfriend but I'm never in the mood!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We have the best relationship... except I don't want to have sex anymore. I feel terrible about this, I really do love him. I like having sex with him, but I'm never in the mood. I'm only 23 so I shouldn't be losing my sex drive ... (104 words)

How do I get over this crush?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I cannot get this guy Gary off my mind. I won't get into all the details, but there is no chance of us ever hooking up. He is a friend of mine. I can never wait to see him. I have sexual dreams about him and sometimes masturbate to the thought of us together. How do I get over ... (83 words)

What is the best way to explain to my family that I am attracted to women and not men?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, i am 25 and have feelings for women, recently my favourite radio presenter was axed due to a new company takeover, my parents aren't understanding that i am emotionally, physically and sexually attracted to her. I have had strong feelings for women since the age of ... (101 words)

This is only my second serious relationship, and now she drops the bombshell that she has a boyfriend!

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22 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I fell in love with a woman over a period of time. Nothing physical happened. I've known her for a while. Anyway, It was her birthday few weeks ago, and I had a special night planned for us. She calls me and says her "b/f" is coming down for that weekend. That was ... (149 words)

My girlfriend might have got caught masturbating through the phone by her parents! I'm nervous!

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22 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok. well im somewhat young lets say in my early teens. i have known this real cute girl for a few months and today, she told me she was masturbating. she turned me on and i was having so much fun so was she. we were helping each other masturbate by giving graphic images and ... (147 words)

My boyfriend told me he gets bored of kissing me for too long!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, but recently he told me that he 'gets bored' of kissing me for too long? We rarely snog anymore and when we kiss its maybe only for a couple of seconds, maybe less. also he's been reluctant to have sex or do anything too sex... (89 words)

Am I wrong for wanting to move on and find happiness?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have decided to end things with my partner, sheerly because he gambles five days a week, we have one child together and i have three from a previous relationship, and he pays no interest in them only complains about their behaviour, they are naughty but they are all quite ... (222 words)

Why do guys stop making an effort after being in a relationship for a while?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone tell me why over time guys stop giving you compliments and other things like that? I've been with my boyfriend for over 9 months and I know he loves me but he's stop giving me compliments and never does x's on his texts when I text him anymore. We used to text eac... (131 words)

I'm a virgin and he's not, what do I do seen as he is moving a bit too fast?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a question about my relationship with my boyfriend. I am 19 almost 20 and he's 21, I'm a virgin and he's not. We have been dating for two months now, and I have told him that I'm still a virgin and that he's not allowed to touch certain areas. I don't know if he's ... (241 words)

My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!

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22 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make a decision since 3 people in ... (333 words)

He wanted to discuss our future together, but all of a sudden he has gone quiet!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been dating this amazing guy, and lately (in a jokey way) he's been asking to marry me, suddenly he told me he wants to discuss our future together, i said im open to possibilities and now he's gone quiet - what is he thinking?... (48 words)

Why wont they accpet that I don't drink and stop pressuring me?

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22 July 2009 (F)

- My bf, his whole family, and his friends all keep trying to force me to drink through pressuring me. I keep telling them I dont drink, but they wont accept it, they continue to harrass me non stop. They buy me alcoholic drinks and say "you have to drink it now, I bought i... (391 words)

Why the sudden U-turn in his feelings?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a man for 8 weeks and he just finished the relationship. He fell in love with me in two weeks and i said it was too fast. He said he had found the one, he spoke about moving in one day in the future when we were ready and that one day he wanted us to marry. ... (223 words)

Sometimes I don't feel the same way as my boyfriend is feeling, so I assume he has fallen out of love with me!

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22 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Okay maybe it will be hard for you to understand, but I have this question and I hope it makes sense when it comes out. So I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. He treats me so good, takes me out, sends me cute text messages every morning. Just does everything a good boy... (127 words)

We have decided to lose our virginity to each other....but I'm scared and uncomfortable with my body

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey... Well ive been dating this guy for around 3 almost 4 years and like latley hes been like beenig wayyyy to much of a sweetheart :) and i love it! :] We are both 18 and agree that we are ready to loose are virginitys to each other... It will soon be his birthday and yeah... (234 words)

My husband has been going out behind my back with his ex wife and son to the beach and dinner!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with this man for ten years we got married three years ago he has a son with his ex wife in the first seven years of our relationship I hardly had to deal with her because she would not let him see his child so he would not talk to her much only cry from time to time ... (220 words)

Husband looking at porn....seeking help to save my marriage

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Umm this is my first time on here and I read some people's posts and well I really need an answer to my problems.I've been going to therapy for the past 2 1/2 months because my Husband of 1 year said that I'm to emotional. I did it for him. Well he's military and has ... (808 words)

Why am I a secret when I'm carrying his child?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i zak have been off an on for almost 8 months. Well, ous relationship has been full of alot of good things and there has been many heart breaking moments. We just found out that we're having a baby and i told my parents and they're a little disappointed but ... (172 words)

Don't want to lose our friendship, but I want to move on

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - In January me and the father of my 2 kids broke up- we had been together for 7 years. It was a bad relationship- constant fighting, and cheating. In January he left me for another girl- I didnt even put up a fight because I knew there was no point. I was sad but relieved at the ... (212 words)

I'm a 29 year old virgin that doesn't want to wait anymore

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 29yr old virgin, and while I know that's 'okay', I really would like to have a (few) sexual experience(s) before I turn thirty. (And please don't give me self-esteem advice or wait-for-fate advice. I just really want to try this, in case I get hit by a bus next month ... (326 words)

Husband told me he is not in love with me anymore

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband have been married for 4-1/2 years now and for the past three years we have lived in two different states. When we moved the first time he brought a lot of debt with him that I was unaware of and then became quickly aware of. I have since gotten us breathing ... (293 words)

I pay for everything myself, why doesn't my husband ever treat me?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I hope you can help. I really need to know if I am being practical. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. When we were dating, I saw a successful, hard-working man. I did not marry him for money, I make my own. But I admired his work ethics. In being married for this ... (331 words)

He was billed for a phone sex line but is denying it

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok here goes...my husband got a bill in the mail today well it was for a 6 min talk to phone sex number...he said he didn't do it but I call it back and the first thing they ask you for is your credit card number..and the bill he got had the last four digits of his credit card ... (147 words)

How can I drive him crazy and reciprocate all he does for me?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn't a problem, but I was wondering what does this mean about his "tastes"? My boyfriend loves to go down on me and he will do everything he can to make me cum. He also likes anal sex, and sniffing my used (gross, I know) panties. Now, i am not trying to be a freak here... (99 words)

She doesn't initiate contact - should I move on?

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22 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Since last year, it has becomes long distance relationship. It goes well for the first few months then have a huge fight. Problem rooted from trust issue and we ended up badly. I believe it is both fault. If only I trust her little more and if only she takes little time to e... (222 words)

Confused about my teachers behaviour

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys I really need help. Earlier on the month I posted a question about me feeling like my teacher was flirting and I really didn't get a lot of feed back on it and I'm still hung up about the whole thing. I think about it a lot and every time I do I remember more thin... (288 words)

He hasn't texted me back, it's been 6 days!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there's this guy that wont text me back. I have no clue what I did for him to stop texting me. Yeah I know there's many questions like this one, but I need help for mine. Ok so I told this guy that I liked him...the last few days of school. it was all fine till maybe th... (186 words)

He broke up with me for his ex, how do I approach this?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So the guy i have been seeing for the past 2 months ended things with me. things before were absolutely great. texted me, introduced me to his family, his friends, told me how smart and pretty and funny i was. he wasn't the player type at all. but what was his reason to stop ... (308 words)

I'm stuck here for 3-4 years away from my BF and regretting it!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For the first time in my life, I'm regretting a decision I made. I never have before because I've always seen choices as experience, even if I only learn never to make a similar choice again...But now I need some advice on how to live with my choices. Last year I applied f... (268 words)

Embarrassed about a wet dream

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22 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is embarrassing, but there's nothing for it so I might as well ask... So, I was at my girlfriend's house, and at the request of her father, we were sleeping in separate beds. In the morning as usual, she came down to wake me up, but the problem is that I had had a... (152 words)

I don't want to mess up the friendship, but I want to tell him how I feel

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to take things to the next level we are just friends and have never chilled outside of his job but have made many plans to coming up soon. Its hard for us to get to know each other at his job because it is aginst the rules where he works. We have some of the best convos ... (134 words)

What really is the role of a wife?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I really don't know how to explain my marriage. I mean some days are better than others. My husband is 13 years older than I am. To me a marriage is based on trust and communication, to him it seems a marriage is based on sex. He once told me that a responsibilty ... (93 words)

I'm engaged, but my ex is pregnant

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22 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was on service overseas..At a time it was OK wd my gf..As time prolong from each other we decided to go seperate way..Now Im engaged wd the girl i meet overseas..Going back home after end of service. I meet at EX-GF at the common friend party and we talk about the past ... (198 words)

He gets loving texts from his ex's

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been going out for a year and a half, last year his phone went off while I was using the camera and it was a txt from his ex saying she loves him sexy etc...I found on his phone that he had been txting them back and saying I love you etc I told him about it ... (136 words)

How do I break the link with this married man?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 40 something married for 14 years and very much hopelessly in love with another man. I noticed him for the first time 3 years ago. Before then he was completely invisible to me in social settings with my husband. We collided while traveling to a mutual destination at a ... (1109 words)

My friends get hit on, I don't?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am an attractive, quiet type and I am Indie...I have wild curly and can not stand to dress provocative or in loud colors. I do not have that Charlie Angel big hair nor own a pair of Audrey Hepburn (I think thats spelled corrrectly) glasses. Now, I would be out with my frien... (147 words)

What is going on? My gut says there's someone else.

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22 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Im confused. my girlfriend out of nowhere started trying to avoid me like the plague. she says its cuz shes worried she is pregnant and is hormonal towards me. its shady to me. she hasnt started period but every pregnancy test is negative. i know she is bi-polar and ... (69 words)

Are there any women in history who had more than one husband at the same time?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - why man only can have so many wives at a time not women . is their any women in history who have more than one husband.... (26 words)

I'm starting to feel like a caged animal in this relationship!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I have been together for almost a year now, when we first started dating we use to go out heaps. Now we both work during the week the only time we get to see each other is on weekends. We hardly go out anywhere and he never spends money on me.. Don't get me wrong... (209 words)

Is all as it really seems between us?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A brief outline: I met a guy online last year and we got talking pretty seriously straight away about pretty much our whole lives (we just seemed to click). We moved over to talking on the phone a few months later and talk every night. We're due to meet in a few months. A... (371 words)

Where is the love and why can't I get any?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is mainly about the relationship I have with myself; I hope that's okay...? Also, I sincerely apologize for how long this actually is and if you read through this whole thing, I applaud you... Anyhow, I was about seven when I started showing signs of being depressed.... (1136 words)

I get jealous easily and my boyfriend doesn't like it...Please help

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfirned have been going out for a year and five months now, I love him and I trust him with all my heart but someone please help me get rid of my jealousy. He has many more and makes more friends with girls, and without meaning to, I get really jealous and have many ... (76 words)

Do I make the next move or move on?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I ended my relationship because he started to distant himself from me then turned around and said that we was never together in the first place which is a lie as we did stuff that most normal couples would do, we spent most our time together then he went away for afew months ... (317 words)

He had sex with his ex behind my back!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been together with this man for a year and a half. He is divorced and has a son. His ex wife called me to say that he was seeing her. I didn't believe her, later he admitted being with her twice. I called her to confirm that. She told me they were together during and ... (164 words)

Are there guys out there who are happy to accept their girlfriend without trying to change her?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Are there guys out there who are happy to accept their girlfriend without trying to change her? A year ago my long term boyfriend wanted to change so much about me - my taste in music wasn't girly enough, my clothes not classy enough, my glasses were just awful, my sex drive ... (157 words)

With him, it's constant kisses and hugs and "I love yous" and it's really starting to annoy me!

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22 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 months now and hes become totally obsessed with me. I constantly get txts asking "wuu2" or "ily so much babe x" and its like really freaking me out....at first it was like aww now i find myself ignoring the txts and him sayi... (182 words)

I'm scared I might be bi!

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22 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Im scared i might be bi. I mean ive always questioned it but im scared to admit it to myself. I mean i have a boyfriend and i love him but i still have feelings towards girls not really sexual just like i like them. i mean i think i have a crush on one of my girlfriends wh... (175 words)

She seems to have vanished since I let her know I loved her!

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22 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - ok so heres my problem, i met a girl last year around octoberish...we talked online and telephone for about a month until we met in person.she`s in the middle of a divorce at the moment and has been seperated for 2 yrs...so since then we dated...the first night we dated i ... (1387 words)

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy casually (as in we're both free to see other people but actually don't) for about 8 months now. He's fantastic and we're both happy with not fully defining our relationship yet. He's just suggested we go travelling overseas together sometime next year. ... (71 words)

What does sex mean to you as a person? Please, honest answers only!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - SEX...what does it mean to you? Just curious to find how different people respond to the matter. To me sex is sex. Its fun. I don't find it overly intimate whereas to me a cuddle is. I can't get enough of it sometimes. I never refer to sex as making love. Maybe its my age, ... (68 words)

How long does Social Services keep records for?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if anyone would be able to tell how long social services keep records for and if you are able to ask to see them?... (27 words)

Long long story short, rekindle or put out the flame? Please help!

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22 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend broke up 2 months ago after dating for 14 months. It seemed right we both, yes even myself at the time, decided maybe friends would be better, the spark just wasn't there anymore. It was a lot harder then i thought it would be the next couple days but then i ... (197 words)

I need my ex to go away before this annoys my new boyfriend!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was in an emotionlly abusive relationship for 11months and finally got out of it about a month ago. i am now dating someone new im really crazy about but my ex keeps trying to come back to me and he wont listen when i tell him to go away. i told my new bf what my ex is doing... (120 words)

When we found out we had an 8 year age gap, we stopped dating! But is it really that bad?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well i met this guy a few months back. hes absolutly gorgeous! and i never in a million years thought he'd be interested in me, but he was! i met him through a friend who told me he was 21, but the thing i didnt know is that she told him i wss 18 (at the time i was just 16!!!), ... (304 words)

We need a song, but haven't said "I love you" yet. Ideas?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just resently started dating this guy and he said we need a song but i cant find one that fits lol. most songs are about love but we havent said i love you so i dont want a song like that. he hates country and rap music and prefers rock. anyone have any ideas? ^_^... (60 words)

We were texting about the future of our relationship, then he stopped responding.

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22 July 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Ok, this guy i like was supposed to meet up with me, but he didnt. I was going to have a chat with him about my feelings for him, he didn't know this at first, and because i didnt get to meet him, i told him by text, which i probably shouldn't have. I just said that i was ... (193 words)

I don't think she should be shouting at me when I'm pregnant with all these hormones!

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always got on really well with my boyfriends mother. Only recently she has really started to piss me off!! I help her out when me and my boyfriend stay at her house for the ocational weekend with the decorating and stuff. We have always got on pretty well and I think... (456 words)

What is he doing in his baby mamma's house until 12:30am?

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone please explain to me what my boyfriend is doing. 3months into the relationship he told me he had a child by some girl he went to college with. No problem since he was with me everyday but not at nights. As our relationship went on more things came out like him sayin ... (289 words)

We never go out anywhere! I don't know what to do anymore.

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend to bits, but im having trouble believing he has "real" feeling for me, we spend everyday in his house, watching t.v or having sex, what kind of a relationship is that? i even had to ask him to take me out for our years anaversary. i asked him nicely to start... (101 words)

I love him but he doesn't want a long term relationship.

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22 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, Im a young lady who has fallen for a guy 7 years younger than myself... i have deeep feeling for him and i know he has feeling for me but he doesnt want a long term relationship with me what do i do about this, do i move on as we have now broken up but recently have agr... (74 words)

She wants to end the relationship!

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22 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi im wondering if i may ask of your help with regards to my girlfriend and our current situation,we have been arguing just of late and she says she wants to end it although we have twin girls just 14 months old. is it a gene thing or a family trait but 4 generations of the ... (120 words)