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writes:would you avoid dating someone that was the wrong starsign? im seeing a man whose supposed to bethe worst match for me yet we love each other to bits, yet i keep thinking if we were together full time we wouldnt work..any views on this? Reply to this Question
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reader, sugar_sugar  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 I have never in my life factored someones star sign into any assessment of them, or my relationships. So yes, I'm sure I've dated many guys of the wrong star sign!
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reader, penelopepitstop +, writes (21 July 2009):
penelopepitstop is verified as being by the original poster of the question im aquarius and hes taurus its strange that i seem to always go for deep dark moody taurus men lol when they are supposed to be my worst match, your all right though love is whats important not their signs
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reader, auntylil +, writes (16 July 2009):
Yes I have had a great relationship for a decade with my "worst match"If you believe in the stars why not love?
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reader, Starlights +, writes (15 July 2009):
 no dont take star signs too seriously!
my husbands an aries and im a gemini, apparantly we're not good matched but we get on very well !
& one of my good friends is cancer (altho we're not supposed to get on either) as is my other friend a capricorn (and thats a worse match)
i wouldnt base your whole life on astrology, dont dwell on it.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Been happily married for 34 years to the "wrong sign".
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reader, alwaysreadyandwilling +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Put it this way,i have spent years with someone who is supposed to be compatible with my sign and we couldnt go a week without falling out. star signs are ok at entertainment level but i would never take them serious.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): Star signs on the surface is a means to pass time. However, I would not be so bold to declare that astrology is all hokey pokey. The problem that most people have with astrology is that they look at the surface signs and apply a generic understanding across it. Of course, even if we get deeper into astrology, it would be more 'wise' to not take astrology word for word. True astrology is a combination of layers that make up the mechanics of a person. The factors to look at are: Sun Sign, Moon Sign and Rising Sign.The Sun Sign is basically what you read in magazines and newspapers. This is what people are talking about when they say astrology is hokey pokey. Of course, it is simply not possible that what you read in a magazine about any given sign can be accurate for all people of that sign across the globe. Therefore, to get an accurate reading of oneself, as well as a love interest, you have to look at the Moon Sign and Rising Sign. MIND YOU, even with astrology in place, a person's mind and personality is not solely made up of 'stars', though literally physically, we are. A person is still influenced by past experiences, current and subtle influences and upbringing, and of course, mood. So even with astrology, you can only decipher so much about a person before you realize there is indeed a threshold of a 'faded barrier' where the stars end and the person begins. -----As for answering your question directly, though I am more in-tuned to astrology, I only use it as a guide. It will never dictate my choice in intimate companionship and friendship. Think of it as a means to "pass time" and to get some form of basic idea of the other person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): forget star signs they are a load of rubbish,if you like the same things in life and have similar interest then you may have found your match i did but he didnt
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): Starsigns mean nothing. Honestly, I don't believe they have anything to do with anything. Yes, you can say that people in a certain month would be like that because they are such general terms they use that they almost always apply to everyone. That's the entire point of the thing. You two seem to love eachother, that's a very good thing, go with that!
Date whoever you want. Stars have nothing to do with it. That's my view on this.
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