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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Shes verbaly abusive! Should I split?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, This story might be somewhat long and tedious, but here I go. I just had a big fight with my girlfriend. She made a comment that was makeing me feel very sad, so I made that clear. But she was saying that I am manipulating the situation. She was very verbal a... (214 words)

Will he wait for me while I'm in another country?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4428 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had been together for about6 months, but we were seeing eachother for about 6 months before we made it official. We both loved each other deeply and everything was going fine until I recently cheated on my boyfriend by kissing someone from my past. I did not ... (463 words)

I love him but I want intamacy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age - have the best man in m life, caring thoughtful, gentle, fabulous BUT he doesn't or is not interested in making love. We love each other dearly but i am missing the intamacy. we have been together for just over a year and propbably have sex or make love about once every three ... (130 words)

Why would he go through the trouble if he had a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy abroad his name is john i met him last year now we had a laugh and watever went back to ireland and i got an email on bebo askin how i was a month later it was him i found out he had a gf were txting ages i need someone advice why wud he go through allt hat ... (69 words)

Afraid to ask him out incase we can't be friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi im am 13 but am totally crushing on a 15 year old. I am pretty sure he likes me too because we have been hanging out a lot lately but im still unsure. Im afraid if i ask him to go out with me he will reject me and we wont be able to be friends any more. I really need advice ... (65 words)

I can't feel a thing during sex! What is wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't feel a thing when i have sex. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we have regular sex. I have tried everything, different positions, toys, getting him to touch my clit where it feels good when i do it but it doesn't work. I haven't told him this a... (119 words)

When does friendship become more than friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay, I have a question. Say a woman is married and she has a good male friend (we'll call him Mr. X) that is also friends with her husband. Mr. X and the woman are pretty good friends, closer friends than he is with her husband, but she and Mr. X have never crossed any ... (164 words)

Does my Piano teacher like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my piano teacher is 28 and I've been noticing a lot of weird things that he does around me and doesn't do around his other female students and I am really confused. Does he like me? (I know dating him would be dangerous and I don't want to). 1. Everytime he tal... (219 words)

I want to give him a chance but he punches me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend over 2 years and we're madly in love. However on a number of occassions he has punched etc.He has not beat me up and never badly hurt me. I used to blame myself but not anymore . After warning him never to touch me again after he really scared me ... (157 words)

My long distance relationship is over but he still wants me to see him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been in a long distance relationship for 8 months . and on friday i am going to see him for the weekend but last night he said he doesnt tink its working out.spoke to him today and he said he still wants me to go and see him and he still loves me but it is over but we need ... (87 words)

Hes come back into my life and I have feelings for him, does he still feel the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have a little problem. There is this guy, and we always seem to come in and out of each others lives really frequently, and there is always something between us when we do. However, the last time we met, he wanted us to become more like boyfriend and girlfriend, and ... (208 words)

She always wants sex! I don't get anything from it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im in love with this girl and were going out but she always wants to have sex and im not too keen on sex but i do it anyway for her. also i dont enjoy and i dont feel anything from it. Is the something wrong with me? How can i tell her to lighten up on the sex? Is there a... (72 words)

Missed two pills! Was I fertile when we had sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my bf had sex last week and i am on the pill and i missed two days of it and i took one on the day but i dont know whether i was fertile he pulled himself out before him... and i am scared he cummed in side me i am due on my period in a week or so but i am scared i am ... (124 words)

I love him but he shuts down when I mention sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not really sure who to turn to so I guess I came here. I'm 21 years old and I have been married a year and a few months, but I have been with my husband a year before. So about 2 1/2 years together total. When we first got together we just wanted a one night stand but ... (471 words)

Am I destined to be with him? What is this feeling

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had this guy friend who is 3years older than me.We knew each other ever since I was 6years old.It started off as good and funny friends until I was 12years old.I had my first love,but it just ended with a heartbreak.So what I did was turn to this childhood friend of mine,and ... (220 words)

I wear the same clothes all the time that I go to hospital in, am I spreading MRSA?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm visiting my gf a LOT recently in hospital due to her illness but i haven't been changing my clothes when i get back and i have been lounging around on my bed and the sofa etc as i haven't seen the point in changing when i get back so late. I also sometimes wear the same ... (129 words)

He walked out on me and doesn't want to be found!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband walked out on me over 2 weeks ago... I had no idea why, so I got the police to look for him. They eventually found him, but wouldn't tell me where he was, as they said he didn't want to be found. I feel dejected, depressed, empty and sick, knowing this. I sho... (142 words)

What would you do if you found your 40 husband in bed with a girl age 18-21? Help me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girls blonde, young everything he would like and i even found texts on his phone where he told her she was hotter than me, and would prefer her over me, could this be true ... (93 words)

I fear my husband isn't attracted to me anymore and is having an affair! Is anyone like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a housewife since our son was born 5 years ago. Taking meds to get preg for 2nd baby.I'm tired most of the time(due to medicines i think)I'm overweight and I know my husband is not attracted to me though we have sex twice a week. I'm scared of roller coasters, all wate... (118 words)

I care for him so much but he talks to Rachelle about sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a boy a year older than me named "Nick", and he is Orthodox Christian like me, and he is godsiblings to my cousin "Cecily." When we were all younger, his father, a priest, had an affair and he was disrobed and he and his wife divorced. Since then, Nick has been lost ... (309 words)

I can't sleep with her because of what he did to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a bad relationship (he would push me and force me to do thing i didnt want to do) i got out of it 1 year ago and since then i have got a new partner and she is great but she want to sleep together i try and make up excuses but she is starting to lose her cool. i ... (112 words)

What do you think about this player... does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. Well I need help here....to know where I'm standing...I met this guy on a bar (he works there) and ask me for my cellphone. He works close to my house and I always see him and chat. Anyway, last thursday he came home after work to have a couple of wine. It was going to ... (335 words)

Does my ex still like me or is he still interested in a family member?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was going out with a guy for about 5 months and I know he really loved me! Then we broke up because a family member of mine liked him and she was trying to get at him but he doesn't like her. Even though were not going out we still go out to places and we talk on the phone. I... (80 words)

I'm the Other Woman...How do I break away from this man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help! Help me get over this mm, I don’t like this relationship that I’m in, as good, great and as much as I love it.. I don’t want to be the other woman.. it hurts.. hurts like hell!!! So help me… how do I break away from this man! I’m sooooooooooooo inlove with him, ... (85 words)

Should I give up on us being more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy tells me all the time he loves me and wants to be with me and I really do believe him and its not just a friendship love. And I love him too, so much. But he doesn't want to go out. What does that mean? Should I just give up on us being anything more then what we are ... (64 words)

How long should I wait before sleeping with a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age - when you meet a guy what is the time frame you should wait to go to bed I don't want him to think im easy or slutty... (27 words)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfried and i know that he loves me, we have the most amazing times together and have often talked about the future, getting a house together, having kids etc, however recently we've been having a bit off a tough time,arguin and stuff, and for the first time 2day my ... (79 words)

I have three options in asking her out: What one's best?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi ive just started the sumer holidays and there is this girl in a lot of my classes who is pretty and i like that added me on facebook. we were talking on comments and i THINK that we are flirting. she comments on my status a lot and i comment on hers... how shall i ask her ... (101 words)

What will happen to my boyfriend if I get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok..I am 14 and I have a 17 year old boyfriend..and all last week I was over his house and half of the time while I was there we had unprotected sex but everytime he is about to "bust" he take it out for awhile and we start again, while we were having sex he asked me did I want ... (100 words)

My sister's been very disrespectful and I resent my mother for her reaction!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont even know where to start.....I'am worried that i might be heading for unhapinness for ever. ok so this is the deal. I am 22 with alot on my shoulders, not because i have to but because i choose to. i have 2 jobs. so this sat i came home very tired and hungry. i sat down ... (292 words)

He won't let me around his children!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months. I love him and he says he loves me and wants to marry me someday, but here's the thing... he has 2 kids. Now, the kids themselves are not the problem. I am more than willing to come in and fulfill whatever role I need to fill ... (184 words)

I need an unbiased opinion. There's a lack of passion in our marriage due to her illness.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 8 years. When we started dating (12 years ago), we had a great time. She was not as passionate or as romantic as I was but I was able to look that over because she had many other great qualities that I was attracted to. She was smart, funny and she ... (383 words)

So why did my period come early?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend. We have sex right after my menstrual cycle finishes everytime. The last time we had sex was on 07-11. Two weeks later, I felt horny that I decided to finger myself until I came. The next day, I started to bleed for no apparent reason and my period wasn't ... (77 words)

Hormones playing about or pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I'm quite confused because I always get my periods and there regular. Im on the pill at the moment however when I came off it for my period to start I got a tricle of blood and now nothing. I've been waiting for it to start again however it hasn't do you think I shou... (78 words)

I'll be 16 in February, he's 21, is he too old for me? And is a bj a bad idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 turning 16 in feb. And is he's 21. Is he to old for me? Oh, and is it a bad idea if I gave him a bj?... (29 words)

Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age - Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events? I have met some family members and he has met some of mine, so I don't understand why he does not invite me to cookouts, dinners, etc when he is with his family. We are both older and ... (146 words)

Should I confront her about this or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, Ive been dating my girlfriend for over a year now. Lately im getting more worried that she doesnt love me like she did. First of all we did not have sex yet, she is 16 and i am 18. But lately her sex drive has been lower than usual (no touching, kissing, etc) Th... (135 words)

Hoping for a positive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i'm 23 yrs. old and i'm thinking I might be pregnant again. I have a two yr. old and have recently had a missed abortion. My fiance' and I have been trying for another one and I had a period in the beginning of last month and at the end. This is the way my period did the ... (134 words)

I need someone to talk to because I feel extremely depressed....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, i need some help! im not quite sure whats wrong with me doh! Im extremly tired i work a full time summer job have the greatest boyfriend ever feel extremly depressed and i really need someone to talk to iv got no friends anymore their all out having fun while i... (235 words)

My annoying boyfriend follows me around, help, please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I just got a boyfriend but am having second thoughts, he is a really nice guy but just a little to nice. he follows me around a lot and sends me texts every night saying how much he loves me. i really like him but he can be annoying at times. i dont want to break his heart, he ... (83 words)

Boyfriend is depressed - what to do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this man for about 5 months. We met over the internet and he had just relocated to my city for a new job. At first he seemed to good to be true..such a great guy, no drama, steady job...just what I needed. Things were going great for us, and he finally ... (614 words)

How can I get better at sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think im bad at sex it doesn't feel good when i do anything I cannot make myself come or my partners cant get me to come I think i suck at it. Like i can get myself going and what not but I just cannot come somebody help mee! ... (50 words)

How will I know when it's right to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with a girl for 5 years and for the past few months we haven't been happy together,we both wanted different things in life so we decided to end our relationship. It is two weeks since we broke up, soon after we broke up i was talking to a girl that i recently met and ... (266 words)

Is she giving me a signal that she wants me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok my first question so here we go... I got out of a bad relationship about six months ago and since then I started chatting to a girl I have known for many years well she rang me on Wednesday night from tesco and I said I fancyed some lemon chessecake and she bought me some ... (306 words)

Am I bi? Should I just decide one or the other?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi again. Ok, so these last few days have been a rollercoaster ride to say the least. I've now fallen out of love with a guy i've longed after for years, and i'm kinda happy about it! I've told a friend i'm a bit confused about my orientation, and he's really supportive which ... (92 words)

Why on earth did my now-married ex add me as a friend on Facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - what can i do ? i did post about this earlier-as a recap i split with my fiance 6 years ago we havent spoke since 2005 the other night i get an email requesting facebook friendship from him so i accept and go on his site to see hes married and theres all the wedding photo... (173 words)

His woman "friends" from the past keep coming out of the woodwork!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating my boyfriend for one year now. Since then quite a few of his female "friends" from his past keep coming out of the woodwork, still. Some turned out that they had once been more than friends but because he calls them all friends, it's tough not to question it ... (268 words)

He seems selfish sometimes! I'm not sure he appreciates me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for several months now and we were friends for a couple years before we started our relationship. We have a lot of fun and spend a lot of time together. However, I find that he can be really selfish sometimes and I am often left wondering if he ... (155 words)

She's 17, nearly 18 and pregnant - we're so worried about her mother and brother's reaction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts and Uncles, Me and my partner had sex about a month ago and the condom split when using tingle durex condoms. My partner has been worried ever since and we decided to get a pregnancy test 4 days after we had sex. The test came back as non-pregnant so ... (326 words)

I have been cheated on before and now I think my new boyfriend is cheating too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Boyfriend trouble..... Not sure what to do/think....................? I have known this guy that I am now seeing for almost a year. We just recently started dating almost 2 weeks now. I am 28 years old and have a 9 year old daughter. He is 23 mature for his age and plays in... (199 words)

How can I change myself so that he desires more intimacy with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am in a relationship with a man in his late 40's and I am in my late 20's. The question is about our sex life. He does not do much foreplay, when we do have sex and outside of this act, casual hugging and kissing is just not his cup of tea. What can I do to... (75 words)

I really need positive advice on how to fix things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so me and my boyfriend broke up last month after being together for six months. Now this relationship was amazing and he often told me that he really believed he had found his soulmate. I totally felt the same. He is a very arrogant and good looking guy who has had plen... (550 words)

Heartbroken, confused and needs help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl of 2 and a half years broke up with me for another guy who's closer to home and more affectionate. She was 18 just turned 19 and he's 24. Still I love and miss her and i dont know why. Its been 2 months and she told a mutual friend that she cares about me a lot and sees... (202 words)

I'm dying to talk to my girlfriend but her mother has taken her phone away!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - its been like a week since i talked to my girlfriend and i'm already dieing to talk to her, her mother took away her phone from her and "i have no idea when she would get it back or if she would get it back" so what should i do ??... (51 words)

I made a mistake last year but my fiance cant seem to move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I m 18 year old, My fiance and I together for 6 months. He thinks that I'm not show him for enough love with him. I told him many time I do fall in love with him, He is blind and wont be remember this my word. He cant move on for last year, I did make mistake last year with my ... (90 words)

I would love to ask him out, but I'm worried about how my younger cousin will react to my taking an interest in him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My cousin has a friend. I get on very well with his friend. His friend is very good looking. My cousin's younger sister and I both have a crush on his friend. My older cousin, his friend, and me are all 14. My younger couin is 12. My cousins friend has shown an interest in me, ... (113 words)

Can urine pregnant tests be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im currently doing my grade 12 this year and i have a problem which is unabling me to study, i had a one night stand 3 months ago .after that i been getting my periods which only lasts for two or a day im now having this stomach cramps after eating,dizziness when ... (137 words)

I lost feelings for him after he kissed someone else... help?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hiya, ok well i've just left high school this summer but about a month before i left i went to my best mates birthday party and met this really cute lad called *tom* whos in my year but i'd never talked to him before, anyway we got on really well and got chattin, we exchanged ... (262 words)

How can I convince him that I'm telling the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this guy on and off for 6 months now. Recently, he called me from another number, and when I asked who it was, he told me to guess. Not realizing it was him, I called him by someone elses name and now he won't drop it. He shows me no commitment and only ... (174 words)

Sibling sex

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i read a post about a brother and sister having sex, at first i thought it was wrong but a lot of the replys where people that have had sex with there siblings and enjoyed it, and didn't have any long turm negative effects from it. Now i can't stop thinking about having s... (142 words)

In material terms I have everything I want, so why do I feel so dissatisfied with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi All I am desperate and could really do with some advice. I am 41 year old male, married with two beautiful children aged 7 and 9. I met by partner some 20 years ago and we have now been married for 12 years. I am successful in business and earn a reasonable salary – f... (1232 words)

My wife went into the gents with another guy but claims she cant remember what happened in there!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - When a girl drinks a lot and she kisses another man and he takes her in the gents loo for some more action, will she be able to stop going all the way and will she remember everything what happened in there? she remembers what they were talking about but not what happened in ... (91 words)

First dates at someones house? Yes or No?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What would you people say about dates at someone's house when you're only getting to know that person? I met a guy online and our first date went well. He called me two days later and asked me if I wanted to come over to his place that night as he was cooking and wanted to wa... (264 words)

I've been married 15 years and am having an affair

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I thought maybe it could have been just a one time incident, but now we have had sex three times sneaking away about once ever three weeks. I have been married for 15 years and never thought I would do this. I have always had men find me attractive but would have never ... (203 words)

Do I tell my wife I haven't really ended the affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age - I have recently separated from my wife after I had an affair, I told my wife that I was no longer seeing the other woman, to save her any further upset, but I am still seeing her and want to be with her, my wife sends me malicious emails, texts and letters, which I cant blame ... (152 words)

Does anyone know why my periods are so irregular?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had regular periods. They usually are regular for about 3 months and then they come on a couple of days later. However, this month it's slightly different. I'm two weeks late. I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said negative. I've skipped whole months ... (131 words)

I don't want to sound mean. She doesn't exersice and shes putting on weight

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok. i dont want this to sound horrible but it probably will. Im very very into fitness and working out. i have a very good body and feel its really important to stay in shape not just for myself but for my partner. my girlfriend however, without trying to sound harsh is... (316 words)

Why does he want to marry me if he treats me so badly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a man for about a year and a half. He has had a very tough year due to unemployment and has become very discouraged in just about every aspect of his Life. In order to try and provide what I can for solidarity to the relationship, I have stayed by his si... (494 words)

My husband isn't intrested in a sexual relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hai, I am Mrs. V. MY husband is not interested in sexual relationship but he is a very good person He likes me very much. Out of great dfficulty I have a son ,he just comes to me very rarely, above all he is perfectly well at his health what should I do... (53 words)

He says he wants to be with his family but calls his mistress every chance he has!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age - help me! i was with my ex husband for 37 years and during that marriage he had a mistress for 30 years . when he left me the last time i got the divore . he had left me 3 times before! i believed the words of god (only on to him) and look what happened to me! i still love him ... (138 words)

Should I ask her if she slept with the other guy when drunk?

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27 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Right, this is my "dilemma" I basically met a girl about 5 weeks ago at a party. From day one we've got on unbelievably well, to the point where we've never felt uncomfortable with eachother in anyway at all. We've been seeing eachother 3 or 4 times a week since then, and ... (236 words)

He won't see his daughter when shes menstruates!

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27 July 2009 (F)

age - Hi there, I have been divorced for some years now and since my daughter started her period, her Dad has refused to see her the weekends she menstruates. I was wondering if any Father's or other Mother's have had the same experience so some light can be shed on this for me. ... (93 words)

We rarely have sex and it's been this way since day one. What should I do?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My problem is my boyfriend, ever since we've started dating he hasn't been interested in sex. We're lucky if we do it once every 2 or 3 months. We've been together for almost 3 years now, and this is something I've been trying to resolve with him since the 1st year we were tog... (199 words)

Intenet Dating: How long is too long to meet after emails and phone calls?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age - I corresponded with someone I met online almost everyday for about three weeks. We live less than two hours away from one another. He asked to call me about a month ago. We have talked on the phone 4 times. He knows my schedule and the weekends I'm free. During our second ... (273 words)

My girlfriend gave up prostitution for me but I think she's gone back to it! What should I do?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - She use to walk on the streets and her mates did it to. but when we started dating she said she would stop and she did and it was fine until she ask me to sleep with her but i didnt want to and we had the fight about how she was giving up everything for me and i wouldnt even ... (102 words)

Have I lost my virginity or not? And does my boyfriend love me?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help i dont no if i have lost my virginity or not because i dont no what its like, so someone help me. How do i know n i also want to know does my boy friend love me cos we've been together for five months now and he's been tellin me he love me but i dont think so ... (82 words)

Why does she keep turning me down after claiming that she wants sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - im so confused about this girl im seeing!!! Ive startd seeing a girl the last few weeks that has really fancied me for about 2 years. Anyway the thing is we havent had sex yet but have had plenty of oppertunities to, but she keeps making excuses. when I go to touch her i... (374 words)

How do I tell my mom I want to go on birth control?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im 16 and thinking about having sex for the frsit time. i wanna get on birth control. i just dont know how to tell my mom becuase i dont want her to think its for sex when im going to be safe. condoms and everything. how do i tell her with out her thinking that i... (69 words)

Our relationship has changed since moving back home. How can I get things back to the way they were?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - On August 14, me and my boyfriend make a year. We are like to peas in a pod and there is no other love like ours. We weren't only each others' lovers but we were best friends. In November of 2008, we moved into an apartment together so that we can be together and I could still ... (364 words)

I can't stand my sisters behaviour anymore. Should I cut her out of my life?

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27 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I don’t want to know my sister anymore . She has turned out to be : selfish ,cold hearted , nasty and manipulative. She gets jealous of anyone and everything . Sadly her current boyfriend changed her beyond recognition . My eldest sister (Caroline ) has mild speech prob... (1724 words)

My girlfriends mum tried it on with me! Should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a rather uncomfortable situation and I don't have a clue how to handle it at all! It concerns my girlfriend's mother. She's what I can only describe as a "sex pest". I don't know any other way of describing her behaviour. When I first started seeing my girlfriend, nearly ... (450 words)

Have I lost my 'physical' virginity?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old, and though sex is not intended between my boyfriend and I we are... sexually active. If that is the right way to describe it. Well recently, ever since he returned from his trip to Orlando he has been more and more attracted to me sexually. He decided to ... (373 words)

Is there something more to the shemale porn he watches?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my partner of 5 years, who i have two young children to, watches hardcore shemale porn and only she male porn. when we have sex, he has trouble getting his penis up. it seems it only comes up when he plays with my anus. he loves anal sex and i really dislike it. he comes across ... (81 words)

He has a girlfriend, so I'm trying to see him as just a friend...but I REALLY like him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy I've recently met that I REALLY like. We are very similar, we get on so well together etc etc and the chemistry is amazing. The only problem is, he has a girlfriend. When I first met him, it was online and he was ambiguous about his relationship status. On one ... (336 words)

I think this guy might be trying it on with my girlfriend...or am I looking too deeply into this?

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27 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i have a question for you...i had a thing happen aweek ago and it still bothers me.. my girl of 2 years has a friend who is terminally ill and isnt doing to hot these days.. well two days before my girl goes to visit this sick friend at home..her husband comes over with ... (748 words)

Having her cake and eating it too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife works at a small buisness run bye a close friend of the family. i think she is having her cake and eating it with the bosses son who is working with my wife she comes home from work and does not shut up about this person when i ask her about him she goes on the defence ... (132 words)

He ended our friendship because his wife doesn't like female friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i had a male friend of six years but he has ended the friendship because his new wife does not want him having female friends should i take back the expensive gifts i gave him as i feel like a rag doll who has been chucked to one side.... (49 words)

Great marriage so what's my problem?!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - The first time I wrote my long, drawnout alcohol-induced (couldn't sleep) description of my problem, it didn't post, so I'm going to give the Clifs Notes version now (just looking for general advice/words of wisdom): *Married, happily, for over 5 years. *Contacted an ... (391 words)

Moves in one day, dumps me for his ex the next day??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating this guy about a month and a half ago and we hit it off right away. I knew he had gotten out of a long-term relationship about a month or two prior, but he reassured me that the relationship was long dead to him. Everything seemed like it was going perfect. It ... (512 words)

I unconditional love worth waiting for?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My love life is beyond complicated. My last serious relationship lasted roughly 2-3 yrs, the last year of which I lived with the guy. After a year of living together he asked me to move out. I can't explain how awful I felt, having to recollect my entire life it almost f... (207 words)

He said there was something sexy about me but now hasn't been in touch for a month!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - ok well my cousins friend was at his house while i was there. lets call him billy. ok billy teased me and we started texting like crazy. he said that there was something really sexy about me and that we have to go to great america some time. but its been about a month now and ... (87 words)

He whispered another woman's name during sex

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband had been sleeping soundly for several hours when I came to bed late. He initiated sex and during the course of having sex he whispered another woman's name. I think he was having an erotic dream. I didn't recognize the name, when I asked who "she" was, he denied b... (165 words)

Life has too many curve balls...so unsure of what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Oh where to start with my ordeal. About 8 months ago I split up with my Ex Fiance. For about 6 months before we broke up I had a suspicion that her and a co-worker had something going on. Between the constant phone calls daily and the texts between the two of them it was to ... (762 words)

My wife is cheating but I love her and don't want to lose her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey .. my name is iyad I be married for over 3 years ... I am 26 .. my wife kerri she is 22 years .. she work 2 jobs and hard jobs she is a manger for store and scond job is delivery news pepars .. so from frist of july she change her life with me .. be4 she was vary good so ... (807 words)

Want to have sex but am afraid of getting caught

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. we're both college students and during the summer its hard to find places to have sex. Sometimes we try to have sex late at night after everyone in the house is in bed ( poor college students who live w/parents ... (147 words)

We're on a break and I want to fix this relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now and it hasn't been easy at all. recently we decided that we are forcing the relationship and we need tew change or its not going to work. so we decide to take a break for a while so we can get ourselves together. but the ... (114 words)

Why does this young girl act this way? Why do I let it bother me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I never thought that I'd ask such a question, but here goes...this is a friendship question, not a relationship question. I live in a trailer park with my mom. I play games outside with little kids sometimes such as board games like scrabble, Life, etc. The oldest is this girl ... (638 words)

Would a good friend stay? Or leave him alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having problems with my married guy friend. I have known him for a really long time, way before he got married or even met his wife. We dated initially but realized we were better off as friends. He recently found out that his wife cheated on him in the past and was ... (146 words)

Relationship ruined because of a picture of his parts??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay. Here is my situation. My girlfriend and I have been friends for almost 3 years now. In those 3 years we have been the type of friends who talk about their relationships with one another. This is my situation. Before we started dating I was dating her best friend. Her... (336 words)

How do I prove to her I'm in it for the long haul?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So I've never asked a relationship question online, but here goes....I've been dating this girl for two years now. The first year we dated was great. I could not have been happier with another person. She was a very caring person and I would smile every time I thought about ... (442 words)

When would I have conceived and when is the best time to take pregnancy test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't a relationship question (MY APOLOGYS!), but I don't know much on pregnancy, by the way I am eighteen years old. I last had my period of June 28th for about four days. After the four days I had unprotected sex about three times. Now it's July 26th and I ... (154 words)

He goes too quick and sometimes I just want sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend cannot last during sex at all. I can tell if he kept going for like a good 15 minutes I would probably be able to finish and be satisfied, but he can only last about 30 seconds! He doesn't finish after 30 seconds, but we have to stop and take a quick (minute or ... (141 words)

Is it just a case of nerves? Why does it hurt so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, When my boyfriend fingers me it hurts. I am a virgin and i feel its such a tight space as he goes in - i get so uncomfortable. I have never done it with my own fingers. And when he does it, he goes in slowly, with one finger and only goes in until Im really ... (158 words)

How do I get this man to the altar?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age - I am a never married / childless woman who has lived with one man for many years. I ended that relationship many years ago and have been dating a wonderful twice divorced man for two years. We spend all our free time together and talk numerous times daily. We adore each others ... (156 words)

Would you wait for him or ask him out yourself?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online and within a week of emailing we arranged to meet up. We were going to play mini-golf but he made dinner reservations as well so we had dinner before the golf. We got along really well, had a great time at dinner and the golf and then spend an hour or so at a ... (246 words)

Boyfriend kept gawking at bellydancer!

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27 July 2009 (F)

- My b/f and I went to dinner with some other couples, to an authentic Indian restaurant and there were belly dancers performing that night. When one of the dancers came to our table the other men barely glanced at her, they nodded and went back to their food, and the ... (222 words)

How do I explain how I love my boyfriend?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this sounds stupid but I don't know how to explain that I love my boyfriend! he has like a hard time feeling loved cuz his mom killed herself and he's just always felt like she didn't care so now he just has a hard time feeling someone cares... he asked me today ... (148 words)

Woman on top?

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a BBW plus size woman. My man is tall but he's not heavy. The first time he asked me to get ontop during sex, we had a hard time trying to get his penis inside of me. He usually has a soft erection until he enters me and gets started so "we" tried to put his penis in me ... (147 words)

Husband wants to stay in the family home while continuing his affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there I would really appreciate people's perspective on my situation. I'm dealing with a lot of emotional pain having learnt that my husband of nearly 21 years has been seeing another woman. Admittedly our marriage was a struggle with poor communication and endle... (541 words)

Is he my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i was at a party and i was talking to this one guy who i have a mutual friend with and we have hung out together a couple of times but never alone. so he texted me while i was there and said we should hang out with out all these people around and so i brought him home one ... (154 words)

Very complicated....Two men in my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been sleeping with my oldest child's father for the last 2 1/2 years....However I have been married for 12 1/2. My husband and I have definitely had major hurdles in our marriage and I feel very unappreciated and he takes me for granted,I had been faithful for the first ... (134 words)

She wants to carry on living as "friends" but act as a couple in all but name!

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27 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My relationship with my ex was not without problems, mainly caused by her having OCD and depression while I was struggling with the pressure of having to fight my ex-wife to get to see my kids. It wasn't working out and we decided to split. However, we ended up living togeth... (400 words)

He put his penis in me but we didn't have full intercourse. Am I still a virgin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - am i still a virgin? last night me and this boy were making out on his couch i was on top and he took off my pants and my underwear and then his. at first he was just fingering me and stuff then he put his penus in me and like it hurt really bad im not totaly sure if it went ... (135 words)

Met up with ex-fiance again how do I tell her of my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and i broke up about a year ago and didnt speak to eachother. Recently she contacted me on Facebook and said she was sorry about the way things were left. I still have feelings for her so i accepted her apology. She then asked me for my number and was texting me all the ... (134 words)

Why did my ex-fiance contact me now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - well-after 6 years my ex fiance contacted me to be a facebook friend 2 days ago what the hell i thought just to see what hes up to i wish i hadnt looked-he got married and there were wedding pictures everywhere-i felt really upset. he didnt know i was on facebook-we s... (117 words)

I want rough sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile. I want him to be really rough me with during sex. Hes a really sweet guy and I wasn't sure how he would react to me asking him to be rough with me. So we've been having sex this for ahwile and he likes it. But I want him to be ... (83 words)

Is this controlling behaviour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys! Question! My grandmother just passed away and I've been having a really rough time. I'm not sure if I'm just overreacting because I'm going through all of this, or if this is how a normal person would react? Anyway, my boyfriend keeps using this tone with me whe... (368 words)

Taking our bedroom secrets to the webcam!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all, I don't know where to start. My husband (of 3 yrs) wants us to take our bedroom secrets to webcam. I'm confused about it all, I used to think its all wrong but now its like a big question mark. Let's say if I was to do it how many people would see? I don't think he even ... (101 words)

What do you think this dream means?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What does it mean when someone tells you in a dream they love you?... (14 words)

I found my 40 year old husband in bed with a blonde 20 year old!

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girl being young, blonde everything he would like, he gets paid about 4K a month and his credit card bill was higher than usual so i dont know if he has been buying her stuf... (64 words)

I don't know which guy to be with!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well let me see here,....im 19 with 2 kids. they both have different fathers and im not with either of them im with my boyfreind of 11 months now..but it doesnt seem the same anymore it really seems different to me since i came back from visiting my oldest daughters family ... (199 words)

What does he mean by saying "you know you owe me"? I'm freaked out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and this guy had a huge crush on each other. He is very popular and handsome. All the women wants him and he has slept around so many times. We met at work. Anyway, things didn't work out especially since I found out he is married. We didn't have sex or get a real chance ... (246 words)

Does he like me? Where do I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - We don't really talk a ton, but he tags along with my friends and I sometimes If I ask for a hug, he will give me one (I like hugs) At a dance, he just refused to dance so I grabbed his hands and started dancing around. He started dancing as well. As soon as I let go, he... (221 words)

I can't stop thinking about him!

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27 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently went on holiday to Spain and when I was boarding the plane to come back to England there was this guy standing behind us in the queue. He didn't seem to be standing with anyone and when I was talking to my younger sister of 9 about something, he told her that what ... (102 words)

My boyfriend told me he fantasizes about other girls all the time!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf told me he thinks about having sex with other girls all them time. He said he would never go with them or leave me. He said he loves me very much and wants to be with me forever. He said he sees girls everywhere and thinks about having sex with them even my girlfriends. ... (79 words)

This 22 year old virgin wants this guy SOOOOO BAD!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

27 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had this friend for two years. We get along well and have a lot in common. Last year we had met up with another mutual friend and were talking about dating. He had stated that relationships are just not for him and that he just can't do the boyfriend/girlfriend thing. ... (810 words)