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writes:A few months ago, my friend introduced me to some of her other mates. They are all girls, except one. He is really small and sweet. I know a boy would hate to be called that, but its true. I took a liking to him cause of his energy. He's always so happy and full of energy like me! He says that he now counts me as one of his best friends, but after time passed I started to think that he likes me not just as a friend but a little more. He was always saying how great I was and how much he likes me, and he NEVER says that to any of the others. Whenever I ask him if he's seen my other friends, he says yes. And instead of telling me where they are, he takes me to them and stays as long as possible. He always cuddles me and follows me. One time I went to the bathroom and he followed me! After when I came out, he was still there. I said lets go back to the others, he said sure, but lets take the long way so we can talk. I agreed cause he's one of the best people ever! We have so much in common.Now that it's the holidays I feel myself missing him. I'm going to see him on Monday to watch a film at the Cinema, and I feel somewhat like I can't wait! I don't care about the film, I just want to see him! I don't now why, I used to feel like he was my little brother but, hehe, I dunno, I don't think that its that anymore. I mean, maybe I just want to see him, cause I've never known anyone that fancies me and I like the idea of it.Ugh! I'm so confused! What do you think?
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reader, PsychoVenom777 +, writes (16 July 2009):
PsychoVenom777 is verified as being by the original poster of the question But I'm worried about something else. I mean, when I like someone, the way I make sure is imagine kissing them and even though embarrassing it is, I imagine making love to them. When I imagine it, if it feels right or I like the idea, I know that I must defiantly like them in some way. But when I imagine doing that to him, it feels wrong, and I don't like it. Its not cause were friends but maybe its cause I'm a very romantic person. And I've always thought that the woman should be smaller than the man cause...dunno, I'd like a boy that I can cuddle in to his chest, but with the boy I know, its not like that, I mean, he's really short. I'm not insulting him. I've just always liked that idea. I suppose I shouldn't worry about it though, cause even if I did go out with him, it wouldn't last, no relationships ever do.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (15 July 2009):
 its normal to like someone after u fall out of love with someone else, but dont do a rebound relationship.
take your time with this guy and things will work out.
good luck!
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reader, PsychoVenom777 +, writes (15 July 2009):
PsychoVenom777 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk. Thanks. :) But I think what confuses me more is that, I still am in love with this other guy. I mean, were not going out and he hardly knows I exist, but I will never see him again and I am still recovering from that hurt. Do you think it is normal to fall straight in love just after fall out of it?
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reader, Starlights +, writes (15 July 2009):
it sounds as if you really like him, but get to know him better as friends and take it from there.
enjoy your time together & dont rush anything.
he will let u know if he has deeper feelings for u in time too.
good luck!
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