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I can't decide on my own whether to sexually satisfy him or not

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Question - (15 July 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2009)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months. We recently started having sex. He wants oral (b***j**) without a condom. Also, for me to swallow c**. I know u cant get pregnant but the thought is still in the back of my head. I want to make him happy. He means so much to me. So should i go adead and do it?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009):

If you have to ask whether you should do it, then you're not ready to do it, and you should never do anything sexually that you are not comfortable with.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009):

well it sounds like hes a pretty good guy...but as i said do wat makes u feel comfortable =]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i feel i am ready. Getting into a sexual relationship was my idea. He is very suportive. I lost it to him & had my 1st kiss to him a few years ago. He's there for me & i want to give back. But is it a good idea of giving back with something he wants?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

well, your right. you can not get pregnant from giving a blow job. but you are 15? what? wait until you feel comfortable or you will just regret it and if he can't accept that then he is no good anyway.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

well i know i dont know u that well but i gave my ex a bj

without a condom and i swallowed u know wat..it didnt really taste like anything

but u do wat makes u feel commfortable

good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

You do it on your own time when you're ready for it. You will know when you're ready when things are natural for you, even if you are nervous.

A past lover once remarked that though sexual intercourse is intimate, oral sex can only come when she is emotionally ready for it. It's like how kissing to some people is more emotionally intimate than the sex itself.

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