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anonymous
writes: Okay, well first off I'd like to tell my story. Me and this girl have met up about three years ago in a game and ever since we've been talking to each other. I just dated her cousin beforehand though (online) but after we broke up I started to like her. At first I didn't really want to tell her how I feel because I dated her cousin and it would be kinda weird if I did so I waited a while. So now I get to this point in time where she had a boyfriend and she just broke up with him but I don't know when to tell her my feelings for her. I mean we know each other well, we've talked on the phone, webcammed, etc. and it's just killing me whether to tell her how I feel (as she just broke up with her bf and currently facing issues with cousins). It's pretty much long-distance from here because I am currently in Japan and shes in Alaska, that's another thing I worry about, is the distance, but other than that we pretty much stay in touch. What do you guys think, should I tell her how I feel or not? She just means so much to me x] Just a little bit confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): Well it seems like theres a good friendship there.
i think you should tell her how you feel.
some people are worried about friendships getting ruined but usally they dont.
So i say next time ur on the phone with her u should tell her ur feelings and u never know maybe she feels the same way =]
wish u the best
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reader, Starlights +, writes (15 July 2009):
its really something u need to decide for yourself, becoz she is going through a tough time and if you tell her it might be at a bad time.
i probably wait a bit, till things calm down in her life before u say anything.
good luck!
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