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I should tell her how I feel now, but for some reason, I believe it's not the right time

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Question - (15 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2009)
A male Japan age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, well first off I'd like to tell my story.

Me and this girl have met up about three years ago in a game and ever since we've been talking to each other. I just dated her cousin beforehand though (online) but after we broke up I started to like her. At first I didn't really want to tell her how I feel because I dated her cousin and it would be kinda weird if I did so I waited a while. So now I get to this point in time where she had a boyfriend and she just broke up with him but I don't know when to tell her my feelings for her. I mean we know each other well, we've talked on the phone, webcammed, etc. and it's just killing me whether to tell her how I feel (as she just broke up with her bf and currently facing issues with cousins). It's pretty much long-distance from here because I am currently in Japan and shes in Alaska, that's another thing I worry about, is the distance, but other than that we pretty much stay in touch. What do you guys think, should I tell her how I feel or not? She just means so much to me x] Just a little bit confused.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

Well it seems like theres a good friendship there.

i think you should tell her how you feel.

some people are worried about friendships getting ruined but usally they dont.

So i say next time ur on the phone with her u should tell her ur feelings and u never know maybe she feels the same way =]

wish u the best

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (15 July 2009):

Starlights agony auntits really something u need to decide for yourself, becoz she is going through a tough time and if you tell her it might be at a bad time.

i probably wait a bit, till things calm down in her life before u say anything.

good luck!

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