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writes:hi, i recently found texts on my boyfriends phone from him to another girl (who doesn't have the urge to look :P) she goes to the same college as me, he was texting her like he does to me putting 'babe' and lots of kisses i could tell he was getting really protective over his phone but i said i was just looking at photo's, he took the phone off me and the next time i looked he'd deleted all his sent messages. He is always talking to this girl on sites like myspace. I have confronted him about it once and he said he would stop if it was upsetting me, but it hasn't. she is also texting my boyfriends friend and he recently broke up with his girfriend after she found out he was meeting her. basically she's a homewrecker! i trust my boyfriend to a certain extent but what boy wouldn't cheat if it's handed to them on a plate?! what should i do to stop them texting, she is always where i go at college and gives me really bitchy looks and now i know why! she's just getting in the way of me being happy as it's making me insecure! please help!
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reader, searbear  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 A sneaky way of dealing with this is changing this girls number on his phone.. you could change it to one of your old mobile phone numbers, then he'll just think she isn't texting back.. not exactly the best idea but you could always give it a try.
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Sounds to me like he is cheating on you.And someone that really cares about you would never do that to you (even if served on a plate).If he`s hiding his phone he has something to hide.Deleting those messages proves that even more.Doing things he promised he would not do by continuing to chat with her raises some serious trust issues.You can`t stop them texting.You can only stop being his gf.
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