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30-35,
*lfredo1400
writes:Ive been talking to this girl for about 6 months now. Basically to make a long story short, my girlfriend never SLEPT with nobody but she did talk to a BUNCH of guys on myspace while we were going out for about 3 weeks because she was mad at me for a bunch of shit, plus people were going around saying i was cheating. Basically one of the guys called me and told me the had sex and this and that, even tho i later found out it wasnt true, I was mad at the time and I over reacted a lil bit. I called her a whore, slut, everything I could think of to make her feel like dirt, but it was over the phone and it didnt seem like it was working so i kept going and saying even worse things, trying to make her feel bad. I found out the guy was lieing and we worked it out, but now after all that she keeps bringing it up. She made it seem like it didnt hurt her at all but she brings it up and we end up fighting about it like 3 times a day, she wont forget about it but wat she does forget is i said that because she CHEATED on me even tho it wasnt through sex, but wen i remind her she gets mad at me for bringing it up. I cant win, I cant even defend myself, or it makes it worse. and wen I manage to stop arguing she wont talk to me. It kills me because I dnt want my girl to be mad at me, but i feel like im more hurt than her since she was a fuking telling all those guys dirrty things and stuff. I dnt no y she did that because she doesnt even have a sex drive, i guess because shes been raped a couple times but she still like messing with bois head. I just dnt no how to put this behind us, i really dnt care whos in the rite, i just cant take it.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 well if shes been raped a couple of times then maybe she does this to make herself feel more in control with a guy after what she's been through.you should not have called her a whore or a slut she probably won't let this go because she probably feels really hurt the fact that you have said that knowing she has been raped a few times.when a girl gets raped they feel it is there fault even though it's not but they do just the way it goes and you saying that probably made her feel like maybe she is.if you guys can't get past this then maybe you should talk to her about it tell her how sorry you are provided you are and make sure she knows it!hope this helps.x ilovebowsandcherries x
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