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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

There's been no honeymoon period... am I being a drama queen, am I wasting my time or should I give him some time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Im dating a guy who has a ten year old daughter that he has sole custody for. The ex has only come back recently and takes the daughter every fortnight. Ive a couple of issues Im trying to get my head round at the minute. Firstly, I brought up the subject of arranging something ... (367 words)

I'm the boss's daughter, but his mom is my supervisor. We like each other but don't know if dating would be inappropriate. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so I work at this tiny little store with only like 5 employees. So we're all a pretty close-knit group. Well, this one kid and I have gotten really close, to the point where he admitted that he likes me and wants to date me. Awesome, because I like him too.... Howeve... (191 words)

My 15 year old is pregnant!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - DearCupid, I am a forty year old mother to two teenage girls. One who is thirteen, and the another one who is fifteen. My husband and I have always taught our daughters right from wrong, or at least we thought. We told them what we did and did not approve of, and we have ... (277 words)

Legally we're related, but genetically we're not! I fancy her... what shall I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - First off I'm gonna have to give you a little bit of background info, so please bear with me. I was put into a care home when I was about 2 and then adopted by a couple who couldn't have children of their when I was 7, I call them mum and dad and everything and they are my ... (181 words)

No sex on my wedding night!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am writing this a day after getting married. We had a really special day and we retired to our room about 1am. My wife looked amazing and I couldn't wait to consumate the marriage. Unfortunately despite my advances she simply was not interested and went to sleep. Even i... (225 words)

He never introduces me to people we bump into who know him, but when I did the same, I was told I'm "spiteful". Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

- My b/f of 3 yrs. and I have had a long-standing disagreement about something. We are always running into people who know him (mostly women) yet he rarely ever introduces me. They give him a hug, ask how the kids are doing, how the job is going, what's "new" in his life and they ... (305 words)

Her control freak husband started texting me anonymously, I caught him and he's begged me not to tell her. What's my next step?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, My friend has been married to a complete control freak for some years now. She works for him from home and i find it difficult to see her sometimes as he makes it awkward for her. She cant drive so is dependant in lots of ways. Some months ago i started ... (287 words)

Gay man with a dating question: is he leading me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is my first time doing this. I am a gay male, 28. I have been seeing a guy for over three months now. Initially, I met this guy and we hit it off. After about 2-3 weeks of seeing each other, he asked me if we could become more serious, but did not want to scare me away. I ... (259 words)

How do I start relying on myself to make me happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 8 months now. We are completely different in so many ways eg our outlook on life, what we like to do for fun etc. He constantly wants to be out doing things, whereas im happy relaxing watching the tele. But now because hes ... (275 words)

Do I have an elastic hymen or something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok actually this is my first time 2 talk about it.the first time i had sex i didn't bleed at all and then the secoond and so on. ahy is that? is it that i have an elastic hymen or what? plz tell me how can i know that without going to the doctor?... (55 words)

I masturbate to lesbian porn but only date men. Am I gay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a woman who likes to watch lesbian porn for hours and masturbate to it...do you think i'm gay. The reason i ask is i only go out and have relationships with men.... (33 words)

Online relationship-sometimes I feel pressured into talking to him and I don't need to talk every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, for the past few months I've been talking to a guy online. It's gotten pretty serious and we've entered into a long-distance relationship. He's coming to visit in a few months and he says he loves me. I think I love him too but I can't be sure. Sometimes I feel pre... (162 words)

Lately he's started flirting with lots of girls, and says it's just for fun, but I've lost trust in him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello people. Probably this is just another story for you guys, but I really need some second opinions so here it goes. I've been with this guy for more than 3 years, we went through a lot of things, good and bad, he met my parents and I met his, everything peachy so far, but ... (195 words)

She's invited me to her party, and I'd love to be more than friends. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear All I would appreciate any advice you maybe abe to offer. I could really do with a second opinion please. I’d recommend you look over some background info about my situation: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/have... (521 words)

Am I still a virgin after he fingered me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, last wednesday my boyfriend fingered me and it was my first time that someone did this thing to me but i now every thing about these things ... the thing that worries me is that after 2 hours that he fingered me i went home and i went to pee and when i wiped on the tissue ... (91 words)

My sister's boyfriend tried it on with me, and my sister doesn't believe me! Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys and gals,Ive Got A Major Problem. I think my sisters boyfriend likes me because i was sitting in the living room with my sister and her boyfriend. I wasnt really paying attention to them because i was txtin my bf. And She said she was going up stairs to get ... (226 words)

Effects of masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Does masturbation make your penis smaller or affect its growth??... (10 words)

Is this normal on a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, my marriage to my ex ended in horrors. There were signs which i ignored thinking that I was the one with the problem, or I was just being too "investigative". First off, my ex used to hang out with gay men when we were in college, one of them used to stay over at his house ... (404 words)

In love with my best friend's ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my friend's ex are madly in love with each other. How wrong is it if we told people we wanted to have a relationship? I feel like I would be outcasted as they were together for 6 years and he isn't over her.... (47 words)

Is he scared of his feelings or does he not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is quite a lengthy question, I've condensed it to the most relevant details! Thank you too anyone who reads it and answers! I'm 17 and my ex boyfriend is 19. He is in the RAF and so works far away, about 160 miles away from me. We started dating last november and... (764 words)

How can I stop being selfish with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: Please resubmit your question using initial capitals only and NOT all capital letters (which is not allowed.) ************************* okay my question is i have a boyfriend and we knew each other for 5months and we started dating 7/1/09 and i really care about ... (110 words)

I can't commit to either one. Whats a guy to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age - I really love being with a nice lady. I find I relate to guys more though and the sex is always great with either. I can't commit to either one. Whats a guy to do?... (38 words)

Mollycoddled!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just returned from a great vacation w/my family and my bf. My parents are nice enough to invite him along every year. We have been together for 5 years. We are both at home for the summer and his parents still have an issue when he does stuff with my family. His mother ... (493 words)

How do I know if it is just friendship or if it is something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We were both deeply hurt by the town gossip and so we took a step back from the relationship. We are slowly stepping back into it but I am confused. Keep in mind that this man was head over heels for me as he put it I was life and his soul and he gave me his all. He is not ... (243 words)

What are some of the signs of a cheating husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) age 51-59 - What are the signs,that your husband might be cheating? I can;t tell for sure, but I just noticed,lately my husband changed a lot. Like never hugs,or no kisses, no sex of course. And never spends time with me,, Only working and busy busy. No time as a family, we have 3 kids... (117 words)

Am I being selfish or expecting too much after 9 years in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am back again. several years later. David (26) and I (24) are living together. We are not married. For the simple reason..we feel that there is no extra money for a ceremony. That is not what i'm concerned about. My brother just passed away in February and I am grieving. M... (249 words)

Lost out on friendliest girl I ever met due to shyness, how do I fix it, can it be fixed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a bad accident about three years ago, I got really thin and weak after it and lost all my self confidence. I've only just recovered from it in the last few months. A couple of months after the accident I saw this girl on the bus but I was too shy to speak to her. This ... (539 words)

Masturbating to an ex's picture?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (?) age 41-50 - So I was going through some old photos and I found one of my ex gf that is pretty provocative. I ended up masturbating to her picture. It felt really good, but at the same time, I felt vaguely guilty. My question is, how bad should I feel here? And does it mean I am not ye... (65 words)

Straight/bi/gay??? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi i need a little help, and i dont know whats going on. I'm very confused about my sexuality. Am i straight/bi/gay? idk. lately ive just been wanting to have sex more and more and and i dont know whats happening. my problem is that im very attracterd to girls, but i think i ... (99 words)

My best friend claims my boyfriend tried it on with her but my boyfriend says she's lying. Who do I believe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, heres the thing, My old best friend claimed that my boyfriend tried it on with her, she had been a really pants friend and been getting around a hell of a lot! i didnt know what to do, he denied it but said he might have said things to her on msn that she could have tak... (235 words)

Some people send their numbers... she sends her nipples!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - 9 months before i was married, out of the blue my girlfiend sent a photo of her nipple to my phone, with a message that said are you ready to see the real thing? the message looked very much like a reply. I asked her what does this mean, and got into an awful argument and was ... (245 words)

She's stealing everything away from me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend is getting on my nerves at school because whenever we are around everyone else she is nasty, selfish and hurts everyone's feelings. She acts like she's the queen of the world and steals everyone else's attention when they need it the most. what makes it even worse, is ... (92 words)

Why does he choose to make nasty comments about me after all this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I split with my ex fiance 6 years ago Recently found out through mutual friends that he got married. I don't see or speak to him. They've also told me that lately he's made the odd nasty remark about me. We had a nasty split and I never saw him after that - it was so bad I... (104 words)

Strange question from a friend I'd just met...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - When I do the school drop off there has been a man being quite pleasant and polite and occasionally saying hello to me. I have also noticed that whenever I have walked to the supermarket over the drop off if he sees me he will keep looking behind to look at me. I asked a... (309 words)

He fell asleep on me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So i've been seeing this guy for 2 months already. I'm a little confused. Last night I ran into him at the bar and he always does this: He never comes up to me but he's always observing me and watching me, he'll pinch my butt, he'll call me and ask me when we're walking home, ... (327 words)

He criticized my breast size now I can't get over it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello my ex has made many mitigating statements of how small my breasts are. He had his new girlfriend mock me. She told me how he laughed with her about me for having small breast. She compared herself to me and made me feel so insecured. Eversince, I've been drinking birth co... (158 words)

Help! What can I do to help my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is 14 and has recently broke up with her 17 year old boyfriend. They really liked each other and were getting on fine but he works at a primary school with children. Well they somehow found out about the relationship and told him that if he didnt end it then he ... (121 words)

Is it possible to feel such a strong connection with someone you don't know in real life? Or is it just an illusion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've met a guy on the internet. We have been talking for a year and half now. We've been always honest to each other, we spent hours of talking, watching each other on cam... I think of him more and more and obviously he feels the same. I feel that he is my soul mate and we ... (116 words)

Can you take the morning after pill during your period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just had sex 4am this morning it is 12pm rite now, im currently on my period, i started friday 7/17/09 the date rite now is 7/19/09 but anyway i had sex during my period and the condom broke meaning he ejaculated inside me, he is advising me to take the morning after pill but ... (94 words)

Do girls love long necks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Do girls think a long neck is sexy? My neck is 5 1/4 inches long and I have a nice tan on it. I am the only one in my family to have such a long neck. ... (37 words)

How do I explain? What to do... please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old female. I have only been with my boyfriend for almost two years.We have three children all together in our home. I have a 4 yr old son from a previous relationship, he has a 2 1/2 yr. old son from a previous relationship and we have a 5 month old lil girl ... (382 words)

Opinions please... does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i like a boy in my school ive ..but am not sure if he likes me too but i always catch him staring at me and then he sticks his middle finger up and then i kinda chase him then he says sorry .. is that a sign of him liking mee? ... (52 words)

Is this lump normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ive just done a vaginal check and i seem to have found a small lump in the top part of my vulva and im not sure what it is .. it seams to be connected to a vein or something small and stringy like but im a tad worried about it.. ... (53 words)

Crush on my brothers' ex

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19 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Sticky situation, don't want this to become a catastrophe but I don't think it will; I have two younger brothers who are twins. They have "dated" a number of girls however never having held a real job they have never really taken a girl on a real date. One of their mutual gir... (168 words)

Is it true that if a guy doesn't chase a girl, he is not that into her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for a couple of months and we are constantly flirting with each other. We've onlly hung out three times and don't really see each other that often because he has a job in a town 2 hours away from where we both live and I don't know when he comes up. I can ... (166 words)

Will this approach help me lose weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey :D I realy want to lose weight but quite fast and i was wondering if i ate like 500 caleries a day and excersized a lot how much weight could i lose ? please no nasty comments i just want help ! thanks x... (54 words)

Puberty questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Moderator's note: two questions from the same poster have been combined. 1.) im nearly 14 and i have a lot of pubic hair and a little bit of arm pit hair but no other hair expect from my head but my penis hasnt grown to much its 3-5 inches flop and 5-6 erection is it below av... (98 words)

My husband told me he's gay ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband told me yesterday that he was gay. He said he hadn't cheated on me or anything, but felt something inside of him that made him have to "get it out". We haven't had sex at all for the last few weeks, so that explains why he wasn't interested in me physically. Howe... (204 words)

We haven't talked for a few days, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy that I really like. We've been talking almost every day for about a month. He came over the other day and we just hung out at my house. He says all these cute things how he wants to kiss me and cuddle with me and hangout more. I think he likes me:) but we ... (82 words)

Is this wrong or gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - im 14 and male and somtimes wen i have sleepovers with my friend we have wank but we dont do it to each other we both do it other porn but we make sure we are away from each other and we make sure we cant see each others penises is this wrong or gay??... (55 words)

Is this normal behaviour for a 14 year old girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it normal for a 14 year old girl to sit on youtube for 20 minutes and watch sex scenes at least 2 times a week?? Cause I do this and I am feeling like I'm the only one!! Is this ok??... (44 words)

How can I make my masturbating last longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 nearly 14 year old boy and when I masturbate I normally watch porn before i do and when I start wanking I cum really fast like it takes 2 minutes is there anything I can do to make my masturbating last longer??... (44 words)

Should we just have sex to get it over with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should we just have sex to get it over? I am married and he is in a relationship. We are long for each other for almost a year now. He is going crazy because I try to avoid him and I am suffer from trying to do the right thing.... (50 words)

He doesn't feel like he's close to me. What does he mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Married 5 years have 2 kids and now my husband tells me he has never felt close to me?! (back story) He is in the military and is gone all the time. Every other year he deploys while he is "home" he is getting ready to leave again. So other than him leaving we never had any ... (259 words)

Addicted to my promiscuous ex girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'd really be glad of your thoughts to my situation, although I'm honestly not sure there is a solution... I'm 32 and I started seeing a girl just over 3 years ago. The relationship only lasted about a couple of months. It was highly charged sexually and one of the things th... (259 words)

Is the size of my penis normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 but gonna be 14 in a month. My penis size is 3-4 inches flop and 5-6 in erection is the size of my penis average,small or big ???... (30 words)

Does he act this way for a reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey ok so I've know this guy for about 5 years now and he says I'm like one of his best friends and that he never wants to lose me... When we get into textn we sometimes end up talking dirty and when we talk he only wants to know about me when I ask him a question he says I'm ... (226 words)

Ex won't give back money he owes me! Is this his way of controlling me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex b/f is being a jerk. He has some money of mine. I called him for it many many times and he said no problem. But then he tires to be soo sweet and I don't get it back. I have been very nice about this but I am beginning to think that it is not the issue of money since ... (182 words)

Why was she willing to have sex so early in a friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - she is 20 years old and has recently had a bad break up. I dated her socially a couple of times. The first time we were really alone together she seemed to be very sexaully available for so early in the relationship, to the extent that I backed off. We are still friends an... (79 words)

Do I put up a fight for him? Or just let him slip away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this is a question that probably comes up time again, but I'd like some advice on how to try and forget about my probably ex-bf as I can't stop thinking about him, despite trying to distract myself. We've been together 9 years. We lived together for 7 years, until he ... (669 words)

Would not getting closure cause me to dream of my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having dreams about my ex lately.We broke up last year.Im over him now,the problem is these dreams.For the past 3 nights now,I wake up and see him laying next to me(smiling and wisphering).Then another night it's a nightmare.He tried to hurt my dog.Do u think it's ... (72 words)

Let it go? Or tell her of my feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OK so i Met this girl online we shes 17 today and im also 17. ne way we have been talking for about a month and i have developed feelings for her. my question is should i tell her or just let it go? She doesn't have a boyfriend so we are good in this department.... (56 words)

Why wouldn't he ask for my phone number?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy in my class approached me and we had a small conversation. When we got to the subway we went out seperate but he never asked for my phone number. Why would he do that? What are the reasons why a guy wouldnt ask for my phone number?... (49 words)

Broken up but want her back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I know this is long but need a few solid suggestions. Thanks to anyone who gives this a read and responds. Just recently got broken up with and would like to get back together if even over some time but would like indications whether this is possible or whether I'm wasting t... (1127 words)

I don't want to be in a FWB relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My b/f and I split up but now I think he wants me back but I feel that he wants me to call him and chase him. We have talked and have seen each other a few times. He said I have been waiting two months to see you. My question how should I handle this? Should I call him? Or ... (194 words)

Do I ride out this break and hope my boyfriend will stop being so smothering?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. I do really care for him, yet we've had problems in the relationship because he's too smothering. I'm very independant and don't want to be "mothered" by a boyfriend, which is what he tries to do. We've had a few arguements about... (365 words)

He was interested when I was with someone, now we're together and it feels like he's gone cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - when j and i first got to know each other, i was still with my ex. then, i was having problems with my ex, so i kind of confided in j and talked to him about my unhappiness. j was furious when he learned how badly my ex treated me and tried to get me to leave my ex. my mum was ... (373 words)

Should I keep having phone sex with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey its mi again well I got another problem my“friend” says he will wait but we had to keep haveing phone sex...... idk if we should cause im kinda getting boerd.... so I told him meybe.....wat do u guys think should I at least keep haveing phone sex with him or should I just ... (58 words)

How do I help him get over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been friends with this person from school for 10 months now, but all he does is moan about my other friend not having feelings for him, he thinks its because he's "black, fat and ugly" but I cant help finding him annoying and seeking for attention- i've tried acting like ... (106 words)

Do I tell him that I like him too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a crush on this guy. just that other night, we were talking online. i couldnt hear him very well so i told him to call me. after we talked for a little while,we atated talking about my bff. i asked him why hi cared so much a bout my bff. i asked him is he liked her.... (121 words)

Should I apologise to her parents?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am having a problem that my girlfriends parents have noticed that I have given her a love bite on her neck and on her chest. She has also done the same to me, both of our parents are now annoyed and have forbid us from seeing each other out side of school. what should I do to ... (95 words)

Who do you think is right in this situation?

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19 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everybody I got this long distance relationship mess here:) I met this girl online and we hit it off. She is in different neighboring country. Not crazy love or anything, but mutual interest and feelings that we like each other. Long story short, we decided to meet ... (311 words)

I slept with his sister - should I tell him?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a crush on my boyfriends sister and didn't find out that she was bisexual until I got into a relationship with her brother. She recently slept over at my house while my boyfriend was at work and we ended up getting a little too close. Do you thing I should tell him?... (54 words)

How should I tell this guy that I like him?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this guy in my class. i think he likes me too but i cant be sure. i really want to tell him that i like him. i cant keep it in myself anymore. i need to tell him. i just dont know how...... (45 words)

Why'd she make a sexual move and then say she only likes me as a friend?

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19 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ryt ive been friends with this girl 4 over 2 years and recently ive started to like her. a few weeks ago she came to my house to watch a film, we were in bed cuddling and she kept stroakin my arm n holding my hand, she also put my hand on her boob. we got reli close but ... (137 words)

His family really doesn't make an effort to talk to me and I'm shy!

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19 July 2009 (F)

- Im scared my bf is going to break up with me. Ive met his family twice and I am pretty shy around them. I dont really say much, I'll say hi how are you and smile etc, and Ill talk to them if they ask me a question etc. However I am not good at starting conversations with them. ... (498 words)

Should I make a move or just be content to leave things?

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19 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, So I've been friends with this girl for over 2 years and we've both been through boyfriends and girlfriends while being friends. We work together and we talk a lot and people have wondered if we have been together, are going out, or why we haven't gone out yet. A... (211 words)

After breaking up I feel really angry & resentful while he seems fine

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I split with my partner of 18 months last week. The relationship had been on the rocks for months and it was a mutual decision to split because he has a child from another relationship and I wasn't happy with this. We were arguing daily right up until the split and I'd resi... (244 words)

Only a 3 day period-Could be pregnant?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i always get my period at the first of every month, but in june i had a normal period but then on the 26 of june i had a three day period, am i pregnant, i have been experience uncomfortable sex, eating alot more, and the veins in my breast are now more noticlable...... (54 words)

Do I have OCD? What to do?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so i have a comfort issue. For the last 5 years ive been obsessively wearing coats. No matter how hot it gets. When im not wearing one I panic and feel naked and ugly and exposed. My parents wont leave me alone about it. We r going to Cali soon and they made a rule i cant ... (81 words)

We've been arguing non stop and I don't know what to do!

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19 July 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I've been with my fiance for 6 1/2 years and we have a 4 1/2 month old baby. As of late we've been arguing non stop and I just don't know what to do anymore. We are both stressed since we barely get enough sleep. Any little thing will tick us off. He's been lying ... (210 words)

I've given up so much for him but he lies to me!

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys. i thought this would be a good way to get things of my chest seeing as i dont really tell people my problems. im 16 and im going out with a boy whos 21. i know you are probaly all thinking about the age differrence. i dont know what you would call it but i would ca... (229 words)

Bleeding during sex?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone have any ideas on why I've started bleeding during sex? This has never happened to me before, it's only been the last 3 or 4 times. Sometimes it's really heavy and sometimes it's just spotting but it's really worrying me. I know it could be lots of different things ... (83 words)

Does boyfriend want me for love? or lust?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my name is adrianna and i have this boyfriend and sometimes i wonder if he wants me for love or lust. i want him to want me as his girlfriend but sometimes i feel like he justs wants me for sex, but other times i feel like he wants me. i don't know which one to believe.... (151 words)

He held my hand, then he didn't. What should I do about it?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a movie with this guy and at the very end we held hands. The next night me and my friend went to his house and watched a movie. I sat next to him but he never held my hand...It was kinda awkward. I like him alot but i dont know what i should do...???? ... (60 words)

What's the biggest reason why you divorced?

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19 July 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I want ask people , who are already divorced, What was the biggest reason to do it? And if they had regret after all? I really want to divore, as my marriage can't be saved anymore, Tried all possible ways for several years I have nobody else,and I will lose financial stabil... (110 words)

I think he would lie about anything to keep the peace with me

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My BF and I have been together for 4 years now. On and off, it's been kinda bumpy but now it's pretty good. We would be perfect if two things: I don't sweat the small stuff and his issue with his children's mother. I'm working on my problem but I wish I could trust him more. I ... (1519 words)

How can I get over this attraction to my cousin?

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19 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am very attracted to my younger cousin. She is about 1 month younger then me. We were at a family party about a month ago. We have very rarely ever seen each other, I honestly didn't remember who she was at this family party, I don't think she remembered me either. Any... (295 words)

THe only reason I got with her is because I thought she was easy

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19 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has kind of a sluty past, and I know shes a freak. Infact the only reason i got with her was becuz i heard she was easy, which she was extremely and also REALLY REALY FREAKY, but then while we were sitting in bed she told me a bunch of bad stuff that happened to ... (191 words)

I called my Girlfriend a slut and a whore and she won't forgive me

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19 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I get a call form this guy I used to go to school with, claiming that he had sex with her about 2 months ago. So I called her a whore, slut, just about every mean thing u can fit in a 5 minute conversation, while she just kinda took it, then I dumped her. It was over the ... (142 words)

B/f constantly asking for money! Even called me in the hospital to ask for some!

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been in relationship for the past 3 and 1/2 years now (it's long distance: I don't know how we've made it work, but we did). And we both love each other very much! Last year my BF lost his job and as a result he has started asking and depending on ... (630 words)

I wonder what would have happened?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm starting to really miss my ex boyfriend. We broke up about a week ago, and I missed him but not as much as I do today. He cheated on me.. and when I went to give him his stuff back, he came out and stood there.. and watched me walk away, now I wonder what would of happene... (136 words)

Sick and tired of my stingy husband!

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am posting here because I am so sick and tired of my husband being so stingy. We are both working and I am actually earning 800$ more per month than him. Together we are quite a middle-class family - total earning after tax about $6000 a month. However my hus... (861 words)

Teenage love and very confused!

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was young 15.. never been in love and didn't plan on falling in love when I met this guy. We met, by his best friend and became a couple. In the beginning of the relationship, I wasn't all that into him. I ended up giving him a chance and falling head over heels for him. We ... (333 words)

When is it time for boys to grow up?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wondering when it is time for boys to "grow up" drinking-wise? I understand that guys (and girls) like to have a good time while they're in college/university, and tend to party hard, get very drunk etc, but when does that behaviour start to diminish? My boyfriend is 2... (163 words)

Told me he wanted to be alone-I found out he went out with girl he had always liked!

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering whether I could have some anonymous advice? Ok, so I have this man in my life.. who I've been with for 8 years.. who, until today, I had 100% trust in. We have our own friends and both of us have hang out with other girls and guys, but there's the trus... (713 words)

B/f of 5 years stopped sleeping in bed with me

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boy freind of 5 years stoped sleeping in bed with me he is always makeing excuses of why he wont then i tell him stop making excuses and am told the he just dosnt want to he wont tell me why and i cant sleep with out him it realy hurts i know im being pushed away but i cant ... (78 words)

24 and feel at this point in my life I should have a boyfriend

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19 July 2009 (F) - Hi there. I'm 24 years old and I feel as though I should have a b/f at this point in my life. I am a grad. student and am working towards being a ateacher, and I take pride in how I present myself and feel I have a great personality. All of my friends ahve serious relation... (317 words)

I don't know where this is going..if ANYWHERE?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - if you would, please help give me some opinions or advice. with the guy that i met online. we have been talking to each other for nearly two months. we have traded pictures and he has told me that he likes me a few times a while back. if he does not get to talk with me in a cou... (214 words)

Which position would be good for first time sex?

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19 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - well i am about to have sex for the first time with my gf (yes i have a condom) and i was wondering was position would be good for the first time...my friend told me like cowgirl (woman on top) but ya...... (42 words)

Ex going after my best friend!

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My exboyfriend and I dated for almost 6 years; we broke up in 2005. I am now married and have a baby and am very happy in life. I know my ex has been having trouble finding someone to settle down with. I haven't really talked to him for the past few years, but we're on good ... (459 words)

Where to find cute bras for big chested girls?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 32DD and when your boobs are that big, bras stop being cute or pretty and turn into "over the shoulder boulder holders" lol i was just curious if some other busty girls knew of someplace to find cute bras for big chested girls??... (45 words)

I'm not sure how this boy feels about me, should we have sex?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14 years old and I konw this boy since 2nd grade we have been thru hell and back!!but its been amost 1 year and im in total love with him but I think he feels the same way for me but since im not sure I don't want to get my hopes up!!!but lately we have been talking a lot ... (140 words)

I don't want to give up my dream but I am so very discouraged!

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Music is something I love more than anything else in the world. I haven't given up my dream of being a professional musician, but right now I am feeling so discouraged that I'm beginning to wonder if I'm crazy for not having given up. I'm feeling bad about myself because... (626 words)

Should I believe this will work or should I believe that "history" is going to repeat itself?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, About a year ago I left my man due to the fact he stopped listening to me, started screaming and yelling @ me instead of talking to me and he was being just down right sneaky!! During the time we were broken up we still communicated because we have four children... (485 words)

Looking for advice on how to decipher the future prospects for me and her...

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19 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love with this girl I have talked to online for going on 3 years now that I recently met face to face. At the beginning of this year while in college she met this guy that she was all into and they started sleeping together. He has a GF though and so yes he is ... (383 words)

Am I reading too much into a situation with a co-worker?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i reserve conf rm space for nine men that work for a company that is owned by the company i work for. out of the nine men, there is one man that is always very nice to me. this man came to my office for a meeting a few wks ago. when he left my office (after his meeting) he said ... (100 words)

She has developed her own life's needs and wants which does not coincide with mine

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19 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi ladies and gents, I am 29 going on 30 soon. I have been with my high school sweetheart for the past 13 years. We separated 7 months ago, right after new years. We have 2 kids a 12 year old daughter, and a 6 year old son. We had ups and downs, and stood by each others side ... (1140 words)

I'm paranoid that he is not ready for a committed relationship

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19 July 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I was seeing this man named "Ted", Jan. through Mar. Things just ended because he said he couldnt give himself to anyone just yet because he was going through a divorce. He was so exciting and fun. In April I started seeing a man named "Jim". Jim is more dependable and treats ... (129 words)

Not attracted to him, ,but I love him

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19 July 2009 (F)

age - I'm not attracted to my partner of 5 years. I love him but the idea of having sex with him repulses me. He has let himself go and is defiant about it. I suggested he get his hair cut and have his teeth fixed but he won't because he won't let anyone "rule" him. I don't think he... (171 words)

Hard to let him go, what should I do?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I meet this guy and we have been knowing each other for one month and something days. And I read some advice about someone elses question and she was going to end it. I gained feelings for him and then lost them later on, cause I felt used. now I really don't care, if he's ... (137 words)

Do men think about other women in a sexual way?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a question for guys or girls in the know. I was wondering how often men think about women in a sexual way. Does it vary if you are in a relationship; is it a reflection on the girlfriend the amount the guy checks other girls out? Do men really think about their ... (131 words)

Ladies: Experiences and suggestions with a mama's boy!

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I went tonight on a first date with this guy I chatted to sporadically over the years but never met before. All went well, he is the kind of 'boy- i thnk' who knows his own mind, a bit of a mummy's boy ( yes, i can spot them now'. but overalla charmer and.... extremely cuddly. ... (301 words)

Living with my boyfriend & the guy I like...complicated!

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 years old. I have been living with my boyfriend Chris for 2 years and dating him for 6 years! We are definitely in love. I have always been one of the guys so I loved hanging out with Chris and his guy friends. I love to flirt but Chris doesn't mind that. I've always ... (442 words)

When do you know it's time to throw in the towel?

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19 July 2009 (F)

- When do you know it's time to throw in the towel? Been with b/f 3 years. We have alot in common and enjoy each other's company; good chemistry. But my b/f doesn't treat me w/respect and we're constantly hooking horns over his temper. I love him but I'm getting sick of him ... (194 words)

We're poor and this is affecting our relationship

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I am 25 and my partner is 34. We both lost our jobs a few months ago and haven't been able to find anything since. We have cut down our outgoings to the bare minimum, and this is the only way we can survive until we find work. Our savings have nearly run out, and we ... (538 words)

What is your meaning of life?

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19 July 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have no idea what I'm supposed to do. I thought maybe reading other people's raison d'etre might help me figure my own. So does anyone here know why you exist?... (31 words)

He's withdrawn and distant

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im 29 i been dating for a year and my boyfriend and i was so close very passiate but now hes withdrawn and im 4 months pregant i dont know what to do i asked him has he lost interest he says no but hes showing otherwise so how do i really know if he still loves me?... (63 words)

I want to be more...

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know there are many, many flat chested women in the world who are living life happily. However, I'm not one of them. I'm single, and it just seems so unfair that despite having a nice face/hair, taking care of my appearance, and dressing up well, guys just flock to curvier ... (337 words)

Befuddled and heartbroken

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 34, divorced (3 times over) with five kids ranging from 15 to 3. I ended my first marriage because my husband thought he was gay. I ended the second because he was seeing several other people and became an alcoholic and abusive. I ended my third marriage by putting him in ... (587 words)

I'm super short, but is my weight too much for me?

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19 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and he's perfect, im sooo happy to have him. if it wasnt for this one thing im never depressed. but almost every day im depressed about my body and i cry about it atleast once a week. is 97lb big for a 4 ft 10 in short girl? i try to ... (84 words)