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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Pornography & drugs, but no sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I have quite the dilemma, and don't even know where to start. I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. Up until six months ago, we had a great relationship, and amazing sex. About six months ago, he started losing interest in our sex life, and I always had to ... (331 words)

Best guy friend likes me, I don't want to ruin our friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16; My best guy friend Ben who i've known for just over 2 years, told me that he really likes me,that i mean alot to him and that he thinks that we could have something special. But im so worried to go any further with him incase it ruins our friendship, and can't go back ... (142 words)

I can't seem to keep a man or a friend no matter what I do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, what brought me to this site is the loneliness and despair i feel. I can't seem to keep a man or a friend no matter what i do. I run everybody off and I'm not sure why. I laugh at peoples jokes, listen to them, and always try to offer encouraging words. I feel like a loser ... (72 words)

Do I tell my b/f that it all just happened so fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5403 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everybody I need some help I have a boyfriend and he lives far away from me and there is this really great guy and and we have feelings for eachother and we met up and we are just really good friends and then we started kissing then it led to other things and it all just ... (70 words)

Best friend won't see sense!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some help! i have been best friends with my friend since we were 3. attached at the hip.. through everything together. So we went our seperate ways after school, still as normal hanging out the odd day or night to keep in touch. so then, for the last 4 months i hear not ... (243 words)

He didn't cheat on me when we were together, so how can he cheat on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Feel used and abused. My ex has been there as a friend which I am fine with. He has dated since us but said he has no girlfriend although his friends said that he does did. He was there for me when my father was dying, hospital, dinner, etc. He stayed over night slept with ... (491 words)

Is it wrong to have male friends and go out with them behind your BF's back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong to have male friends and go out with them on ocassion? But behind your boyfriend's back? I ask this because I've had a good guy friend for 2-3 years. We don't talk all the time just when we want to hang out. Initially, we were supossed to start dating but nothi... (198 words)

Do men see teenage girls as sex objects?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heyyy !!! this is just a little question just to ask Do men see teenage girls as sex objects? because all they seem to do is talk about sex and boobs, what is the big deal about it? I mean i walk down my street and all the builders wink or shout things at me like "ge... (172 words)

I'm scared of being a single Mom, so how can I get my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

- my ex boyfriend of 4 years finished with me because he said i have an attitude problem, he is the father of my 9 month old daughter and i am currently 5 months pregnant with his second child. We started seeing each other again and he slept with someone else then wanted me back ... (125 words)

Why did she assume that my current man stole me from my ex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - well here goes. my ex fiance got married 6 months ago. my current boyfriend was working with a girl the other day who was telling him about my ex fiance getting married. my current boyfriend knew of him but didnt know his surname. he knew of him because i was good frien... (172 words)

How can I get my BF to stop making mountains of molehills?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been in a reationship for 6 years. He says he was more sure about marrage when we first got together than he is now. Our relationship has had it's natural ups and downs but for the last year or so he makes mountains out of molehills. If I do something ... (397 words)

I'm worried I won't get bigger!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi guys. im 14 and will be 15 in a few months wich im really excited about.and my problems involves the whole penis size delema and im sure you've heard i a million times.when does puberty actuallly start, and what the normal size for a guy my age? im really insecure about ... (182 words)

Her mom died and now she wont make love

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife's mom died a month ago and she didn't want to anything sexual, she wouldn't even let me see her naked. Anyway one night I was really horny.and my wife was washing dishes. Well I went behind her and grabbed her breasts (she usually hates me when I do that). Then she push ... (103 words)

How can I last longer during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - So I seem to have a hard time lasting during sex. After the foreplay when we get to the act I last maybe 10 to 15 seconds then its all over. This never used to be a problem when I was younger. Is there anything that can help me last longer? Oh and I tried the thinking about ... (67 words)

What do I do about this crazy Myspace situation?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 33, married with one child but I look really young for my age. Most people thought I am a college student. I met this guy at work who is 22 and has a maybe 3-4 year relationship girlfriend. He and I look about the same age. He is cute and looks a little bit older than his ... (371 words)

I feel so lonely, I want to have more confidence and friends, please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i need help. i feel so lonely all the time ive just come out of a very bad relationship and my self esteem is zilch-to be honest ive never had much im always so hard on myself , negative critical. i have only 1 good friend-that sounds terrible. i spend all day at wor... (130 words)

Should I confess my feelings to my friend? He's giving me mixed signals and has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have a situation. I have been liking this boy for over 3 yeard but I have never gotten the guts to tell him how i felt. When he graduated from middle school (he's a grade older than me) I lost touch with him but then one day i found him on myspace and after th... (299 words)

He said he has a 'lust' problem and looks at other naked girls. He wants me to help him, should I believe it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. While we were on a walk at the park when i found pictures of girls (not models) posing nude. We argued about this for hours. He told me that he has a problem with lust and sometimes likes to look. We are in a sexual ... (86 words)

I like my friends ex, but now she's flirting with him again! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For a few months now i've started to become really good friends with my friend's ex *paul ... after him and my friend *Sara broke up i helped him out alot and were really close friends... Now i like him more than a friend..and he knows this and were still just friends and... (214 words)

Am I overreacting or were his hurtful words as bad as it seems?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months and well it has so far been great! im 17 now, but when i was 11 i was raped twice by the same guy. this horrified me, and i havnt told anyone since! apart from my boyfriend, i didnt want to be rushed into sex, which is why, 6 months into ... (440 words)

How can I stop my posessive feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Quick outline to my situation: I live with my friend, who's also a work colleague. We sleep together also, in the same bed every night (we do have separate bedrooms though.) We moved in together after breaking up with our long term partners. At home, we act as ... (634 words)

Is it just human nature to cheat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone have a straight-forward, happy, long-lasting relationship these days? My Mum and Dad divorced when I was a teenager, and my bf has recently cheated on me (nothing physical, but exchanging flirty texts and phone calls with a girl from work) despite us being together ... (104 words)

Cheated on me with her cousin and dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im not kidding you, I was with a girl for 8 months and I truly loved her but, she ended up cheating on me with her cousin, I fell into sadness and depression and felt as if I would never find anyone. One of the reasons she dumped me was because I am an Atheist, and second ... (64 words)

Should I split from him, hes never physically cheated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello readers, I hope you can give me your perspectives on my situation as it's making me sad. I've been with my bf 10 years. We lived together pretty happily for 7 years, until last year, when he broke up with me, saying he didn't know what he wanted from life anymore... I ... (570 words)

I can't help feeling jealous hes already had the big white wedding!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy that I'll call Sam for a little over 3 months, about a month ago we decided to become serious. My concern is this, he was married at a very young age but divorced her after he caught her cheating. He was truthful and did not try to hide it but sometimes ... (177 words)

Am I straight, gay or what??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright im a 17 year-old guy who is attracted to girls and ive liked many girls to an extreme many times in my life. But, im not at all sexually attracted to girls and they don't turn me on at all. Guys on the other hand, i am sexually attracted to but i would never want to ... (144 words)

I'm so frightened. I think hes suffering from post traumatic stress

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I married my best friend of over ten years three years ago; right outside of high school. A month later, I found out I was pregnant. Two months into it, my husband enlisted in the US Army. He was deployed to Iraq four months before I gave birth. There are no plans for a second ... (220 words)

Why is my semen cloudy and thick?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age - Why is my semen so thick and cloudy looking? I have never had any complaints from any of the females I've been with. Any help would greatly be appreciated!... (29 words)

Does everyone read their SO's emails?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I wonder what everyone's opinion is regarding their signifigant other's email? Reading the questions here, too often I see questions asked prefaced by the person saying they read their SO's emails (or messages on myspace or facebook). Am I that out of the loop? Does ever... (100 words)

Need ideas for a night in that don't involve cooking or the bathtub!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - having problems with my partener and want to have a romantic nite in she does not like eating so cooking a meal is out and dont have bath in washroom any idea's would be great... (35 words)

Does he have erectile dysfunction or does he not desire me? How can I figure this out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) age 51-59 - How do I know ,if my husband has erectal dyssfunction,or he just does not desire sex with me? It is important to know, as it is too different situation,one,what I can handle, and the other, I can't. He is not medically sick,as he went for check up, but it is chronic situatio... (97 words)

I feel trapped in this relationship - it's becoming abusive but I'm stuck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. We have just recently moved out of town and are living together for the first time. About a year and a half ago i was raped by someone who was a coworker and someone who i thought was a friend. Long story short... the guy ... (410 words)

I'm 22. She's 14 and has a crush on me. Is it legal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, a girl had a crush on me and she would like to have a relationship. She's only 14 y.o. while I'm 22. I never had sex before and she's attracted to me. Would it be legal with her? Thx... (48 words)

Am I asking for too much in a man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I meet this guy on internet. He is 37 and I am 29 which is fine by me as long as he take good care of himself. Everything seemed great when we were emailing. We have a lot in common and he is very nice and has many good qualities. His profile says that he is the manager in a ... (463 words)

Question about Viagra...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Does anyone know if Viagra works for not getting an erection due to performance anxiety?... (15 words)

Are these comments he makes about me on this online forum normal "man" behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - This question is for the men. I have been dating a man for almost 2 years now. He is a Christian man and I adore him. He has this website that he goes to often called ls2.com. When we first started dating every time I went to his house he had a new woman posted as his screen ... (182 words)

Aahh!! Boys are confusing as hell!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - love. the only word to describe the way i feel about my ex-boyfriend. he dumped me for another girl 2 months ago but i cant get over him. since we broke up weve talked EVERYDAY, and madeout twice. well spend the day together and lay on the same chair by the pool. hes nothing ... (90 words)

Is my penis too small for my age?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i have a 5.5 inch penis and im proud of it and have no problems with my size. however i would like to know, is it small for a 16 year old?... (33 words)

Now that I have him, I'm not so sure I want him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - k so i've got a major teen issue. i really liked this guy and flirted with him for a year and had to watch from the sides as he wasn't very interested in me i guess and watch him flirt with my bf. she knew how i felt so it never turned into anything. but now me and my crush are ... (115 words)

Getting over the past... how can I help the man I love deal with mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are on the verge of breaking up. Four years ago was the darkest time in my life. I met my current boyfriend and his best friend and ended up sleeping with both of them when my current boyfriend was helping me out of a horrible situation I was in at the ti... (304 words)

My pregnant girlfriend is WAY too flirtatious! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok ,my gf is preggers and she is way to flirtatious. I`ve asked her to stop and I just discovered that on the 15th she send an invite to her ex on myspace and left: "so sexy! mmm mmmm mmmmm *kisses you* " as a photo comment. ... (55 words)

I need some sexpert advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya ladies n gents, i got a bit of an embarrassing problem here, well not so much a problem, but here goes anyway lol Basically, i have a amazing sex life with my fella, hes a very unselfish lover and always makes sure im satisfyed! We are very open with each other about wh... (223 words)

Is she wearing the ring for me, or for the guy she is talking to? I'm so confused by her... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - holy hell some one help asap. i had this girl i was dating for 4 1/2 years. i loved her more then anything in the world. and two months ago she killed me on the inside when she broke up with me to c other people. i love this girl still. well a few days back her lil sis snaped ... (328 words)

My boyfriend told me he never loved her this way! Their emails say different...help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge problem. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 or so months now but he is so much older than me and has lived so much life before me. He never really wants to talk about his previous relationships, bad times he went through, or he never gives me any insight into ... (348 words)

A week of the ex-factor. The more I learn about men, the more I hate them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have had the worst week of my life it started at 10 am last thursday i got a call from a friend of mine saying that my ex had just been arrested and is in jail on 4 felonies and a misdeminor. first of all this was my bestfriend i was fucking for a really long time we ended it ... (564 words)

My roommate's gf woke me with a bj! He's promiscuous so I wasn't feeling guilty, but now I am....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - OK so I have a roommate who always has girls spending the night at our place. I don't mind since it is his room and his business. Since we have moved in he has had at least thirty girls. Sometimes they moan really loud which turns me on at night and so I masturbate to sleep ... (460 words)

I like guys who look more feminine. Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for a girl like me to be attracted to androgynous guys? (Like Johnny Depp or David Bowie) I'm 100% straight, but I just have this fetish for guys that are kind of feminine. Is that normal for a woman?... (42 words)

My boyfriend is being unfair! I find it hard to orgasm with him...so he has stopped trying!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a couple of months now. We have been having some problems sexually as we have been finding it hard to make me cum, i can when im masturbating but not with him. Because of this my boyfriend has given up trying which makes me feel ... (71 words)

How do you forgive and forget the lies and deceit?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Two years ago my husband had an affair and ended it. The affair lasted about eight months. I didn't know about the affair, but I was suspicious about his whereabouts during that period. Against my better intuition, I chose to trust my husband at the time, as that is the ... (331 words)

Is it pathetic of me to forgive my back-stabbing best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi A few months ago I was betrayed by my (female) best friend in the worst way that she knew how. We have always hung around as a 3, and she knew that I was a bit obsessed with the guy that we hang around with. We had a thing a while ago, but he ended it saying that he would... (348 words)

Husbands vacations with ex-wife and adult children

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age - My husband is going on a camping vacation with his exwife and some of his adult children. He kept it secret from me untill recently when he had to admit it because of buying a airline ticket. She is not bringing her husband and he asked me to go only after I was upset and ... (99 words)

I don't know if he's for real or not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i net this guy on msn and he said i was hott! (this is the first boyfriend i have had) ..... he asked me for sex and i said no. than he asked me out, i said yes i dont know how to talk to him and when i do i always sound like a dickhead, hes a lad , and he sometimes gets an... (162 words)

One night stand with Lothario leads to pregnancy!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on a girls night out a few weeks ago, had a good time, had fun, but unfortunately I couldn't resist the advances of a good-looking Lothario, and I slept with him. I didn't plan to sleep with him but was under the influence at the time. A sexual health check revealed I... (265 words)

I think my girlfriend is hiding something!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I hav a girlfriend and I think she's hiding something. I'm getting worried. I'm getting worried. She isn't acting the same as she used to. And I don't really see her much. But we used to text all the time, but now she doesn't. Can you help me?... (48 words)

Do you know what love is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this isn't really a help question more i want peoples opinions on what they think the definition of love is? my definition is someone you love and care for is always there for no matter the circumstances someone you can never stop thinking about and never want to stop thi... (129 words)

I'm desperate to get her back but I don't know how to play it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently split up with girl of 3 months a couple of weeks ago - it ended on a really stupid note, basically a couple of arguments that got out of hand. I'm having trouble deciding whether she still likes me or not though - the only contact i have with her is when i go ... (143 words)

Now I have gotten older guys don't seem to fancy me anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was like 13-15 or 16 guys used to fancy me, but now i am 17 i don't think they do? and i have realised guys kinda hate me. does that mean i won't be in a relationship and what am i doing wrong and i'm scared? numerology say i am attractive woman but i haven't s... (66 words)

He is seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant part 2

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey. Don't know if you remember my last problem - "He is seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant." I am in a relationship with a well known Scottish Football player. As you know from my problem both me and his ex are pregnant. He has said that he loves ... (117 words)

I'm starting to doubt if my girlfriend is the one

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, me and my girlfriend are a good couple in my opinion but i feel like im starting to doubt shes the one. were both into the same things, she also inspired me to go back to school and she likes being wild in a public way but its just the way she acts and how she has ... (167 words)

He realised its no good to continue a relationship that would end eventually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have written for advises on this site but I never get enough. I always come back for more as I am still as depressed as ever. Somehow, the advises seemed not enough. I will try to make it as short and as accurate as ever. I have been with a muslim bf for a year. At ... (1081 words)

Do I confront my girlfriend about her trivial lies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

- Hi - I have started seeing a new girl, have been going out for just over 4 months now and everything is going great. However, there are a few small issues that I have. The main problem is her lying (or what I believe to be) - we have had discussions in the past about our o... (204 words)

Is our short-term relationship worth maintaining?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've come home from university for the summer, and I've started seeing a local girl. We seem to be having a nice time together, and we both have already started to get a little attached to each other. The problem is of course that I will be going back to University in a couple ... (156 words)

I feel like he is not interested anymore and I don't know what I've done wrong. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just don't know what to do anymore. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now, well 6 months to this exact day actually, and everything has gone really well (we've had our slight up's and down's but what couple haven't) but just recently he has come back from a biking ... (268 words)

What can I do to please my husband-to-be that no other woman would do to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm getting married soon and I know my soon to be husband has a fantasy and I would like to please him but what can I do sexual with a man that no other woman would ever do to him? And what is the meaning of the word full house?... (50 words)

How should I aproach this guy in my class? I'm kind of afraid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a crush on a guy in my class. Everyone says he likes me but I don't know if it's true. There's a week left in school and I'm going to move soon. I want to tell him that I like him, but I'm kinda afraid. I need help ASAP. What can I do? theres this really cute guy in m... (136 words)

Is it a compliment to be told I remind him of his mother or was it a sign he isnt really into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age - I met a man online and we hit it off wonderfully in person. We have a lot in common, are both freedom loving and yet value the friendship and human touch. But, he made a comment and I'm not sure how to take it. He kept staring at me over dinner and casually said, "You have a ... (143 words)

Is this man not over his ex-wife or is he bitter because of her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age - I have been dating a man who is intelligent, secure in his career and with himself. Further, we get along well. However, he appears to have a wall up towards truly expressing his feelings. If I say terms of endearment such as "honey or sweetie," etc. he will not act like he has ... (177 words)

Nervous about getting a blowjob for the first time!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

17 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, i've been seeing a girl for some weeks now. it seems to be getting a bit sexual. i haven't done anything with a girl before but is about to sometime next week. she has said she wants to give me a blowjob, but im nervous. is there any tips, i dont know the inns and outs of ... (63 words)

Our relationship just isnt fun anymore, any tips to spice things up a little?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My lesbian girlfriend is really great and I don't want to end things with her, but it's just not fun anymore. When we first got together it was great. We had amazing sex, licked, sucked, kissed, all the trimmings. But I need something new to do with her. We've watched porn ... (97 words)

I'm not really sure why we broke up...did he get cold feet or felt that he wasnt a good boyfriend?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's my story/summary: I apologize for the lengthy summary - it was hard to summarize.I mainly need opinions. My bf of 2 mos broke up w/ me. The reason for break up was numerous – one of the reasons: “I cant give u what u want (kids/marriage)” We were thri... (992 words)

How do I tell my lover that he squashes me during sex because of his weight?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age - I was wondering if anyone can give me some advice as to handle this, I have a lover who while is not obese but is about 25kilos heavyer than me .when we have sex he likes to lay on top of me with all his weight sometimes i feel like i'm being squashed and it becomes very ... (148 words)

I don't find any pleasure anymore when having sex with my husband

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i m 41 yr old with two kids 20,16 yr old boy and girl ,my husband is 12 yr older than me ,mine is arrange marriage 21 yrs ago, my husband is lazy kind person .he is not good looking ,very serious type, he gave me all freedom of money and all. and i m different than ... (144 words)

Should I be worried that my boyfriend's best friend has feelings for him?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been having problems. I feel his best friend wants to take him away from me. We'll be together for a year in 2 weeks. He tells me he loves his best friend but is in love with me. I feel he is gonna pick her over me. She constantly tells him that she has ... (70 words)

Cheated....how should I feel?

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife cheated on me just before we separated. she then slept with another 3 guys while we were apart, 1 of them she works with. we are now back together and she finally told me about it after someone let part of the story slip. now she is always telling me that she loves me ... (148 words)

How do I find a male platonic friend just to talk to?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age - .........I'm lost and yet confused about my marriage and I will sit my husband down and talk more about our strange dilemma...but I hardly think he will answer straight,but anyhow...How do I go about finding a male platonic friend to talk to...not to date,just talk...who is in ... (51 words)

Took a pregnancy test and it came back negative....could I still be pregnant?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well I'm 14 and I had sex about a month ago and I think I may be pregnant..I didn't really want to do it with him..Well if I am I refuse to tell my dad..I want to have an abortion if this is the case..but I can't trust anybody!! Geez this is crazy...I have had no symptoms of ... (111 words)

My boyfriend has lost all interest in me after only 5 months!

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months. He used to act like he just could not get enough of me. He text messaged me all day long, always told me sweet things, and was very sexually interested in me as well. Things were going great...he started calling me "Love," ... (254 words)

Should I lose my virginity to a guy who I'm only going to spend another month and a half with?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and a virgin. My boyfriend of the same age is not a virgin. We started going out a month ago, and we were friends before that. I'm leaving in September for university, and we agreed at the beginning that we would not do long distance. We've been moving pretty fast, and ... (131 words)

Lack of sex is making me want to leave my girlfriend before I cheat on her!

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend tells me im hot and sexy. Very often i have to turn down other girls that want sex from me, but my own girlfriend never comes onto me. She has an extremely low sex drive and my only option is masturbation. I am in my early 20's and i might leave her for some sluts ... (86 words)

How do I approach this girl I've known from school but never spoke to before?

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so me and my friend were talking about the typical guy's thing: girls. We were talking about all the girls we knew in high school and wondered what they were doing after high school. I mentioned that I saw one girl (I'll call her Nicole), and her friend (Amy) at the ... (280 words)

How do I get all the trouble with my ex to stop and start getting over her?

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So me and my now ex-gf have been going through a pretty ugly split. We argue and insult each other and try to sabotage each others self-esteem. She was bad to me during the relationship and now even when Im trying to get out of it she still torments me. I try to avoid her and ... (123 words)

The girl I like just lost her virginity to a 19 year old guy! What do I do?

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old boy with a problem. This is my first time writing my own question on this site. I really like this girl that lives near me. She is only 14 but that is because she is born in December, so we're basically the same age. She is a very pretty girl and she is very, ... (263 words)

My boyfriend doesn't love me anymore

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, but I overheard him telling my best friend that he doesn't love me anymore and that he's been pretending to like me so my feelings won't get hurt...I'm more hurt that his hugs and smiles have been fake than if he had just ... (73 words)

Ex-gf problems.....

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well me and my girlfriend have been together for 3+ years we recently broke up. I have tried contacting her and we have met twice after the breakup. Both times we had sex and she says she really doesn't want to see me. She says every time she sees me she wants to have sex and ... (132 words)

What does eye contact/staring mean to a guy?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just wondering. When you check out this one girl once in awhile, or like when you have eye contact with her, you hold it for awhile before breaking it away without smiling, what are you actually thinking? I mean, being attracted and being interested in a girl that you want ... (172 words)

Girlfriend wants to have sex with another man

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend wants to have sex with another man. First of all i know this question was probably asked on here thousands of times but i really have no one else to talk too. This all started over a year ago i was working it a job that i needed but really did like. I start... (444 words)

I had an affair with a married man and now I'm worried his wife will confront me at work!

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Iv got a problem, I slept with a married man now things are kinda getting freaky, I slept with him a couple times, i work very closely with him, i called it off after he told me that he "loved me" His wife became suspicious (during the affair) about the phone calls an... (380 words)

Should I tell my friend I caught her boyfriend cheating? I don't want her to lose her virginity to him!

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17 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I saw my friend's boyfriend cheat on her at this party that my boyfriend was hosting at his place (he lives on his own). She was looking for him cause he told her needed to a phone call half an hour ago. Anyway she asked me and my boyfriend if we seen him we both said no. Well ... (168 words)

Is my husband cheating?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all.I would like to get feedback from both men and women on this one. I am in a marriage crisis right now and at this point, I am leaning towards a seperation. My husband of 10 years looks at porn all the time. One day he left a porn clip on his cell and our 8 year old ... (575 words)

I am insecure and paranoid that she would leave me for someone better

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, recently my girlfriend and i have been talkin and i learned she was still physically attracted 2 him..as he is her usuall type...tall head full of hair 6 pack etc....while i am short around 5 6 and built but stocky ...i am kind of feeling a little self conciosous about ... (77 words)

I don't love him

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help! okay so I just started dating this guy i met on facebook and he told me that he really love me, but i just realized i dont love him back. what should i do? I want to break up with him but I dont know how to cause I dont want to hurt him. He's a nice funny and a foot... (74 words)

We need each other, but our parents are morbidly trying to separate us

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need Help..I dont want to be criticized i just want help.I just had a miscarriage(i was 5 weeks preg) im 15 years old my boyfriend is almost 17.My parents went completely crazy on me even tho they knew i was not a virgin when i got with him. my father broke my phone and has ... (223 words)

The girl of my dreams is walking in and out of my life

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, (Sorry for such a long message) I have a situation that I never thought I'd be in and was just wondering what other people's perspectives are. I am in a long distance relationship with a girl form Hong Kong (we've been dating on and off for more than 2 years). We first... (1370 words)

Two of my friends slept with my ex, should I befriend them again?

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17 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I found out that my good two "friends" were sleeping with my now ex-boyfriend. I dumped them all and I haven't talk to them for about 2 months. Well My "friends" have been begging me to hang with me because they are sorry and want us to be buddies again. I don't think I trust ... (83 words)

My ex has a new GF but we still have sex. Should I keep trying?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and i broke up 4 months ago. Even though we broke up, the sex hasn't stopped. He has moved on and it kills me. Because we still talk and have sex I'm still attached. I still love him and want to be with him. He tells me he still cares but he loves his girlfriend. When we ... (95 words)

We broke up and now I'm depressed

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up about a week and a half ago. He had told me every day how much he loved me and how much I meant to him. However, the night before we broke up, he was acting really distant. After asking him to be nicer to me, he suggested spending some time apart so ... (307 words)

I like this girl who's hung up on her ex

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - NEED HELP!!!!!!! I've been dating a girl, who is perfect in every way. I know she likes me, but shes stuck on her first boyfriend, who cheated on her. I really like her, and she knows that. I tried asking here if she just wanted to be friend but she wont give me an answer. ... (107 words)

We never do anything together and he mostly ignores me

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am gay and my partner is ignoring me most the time, I cant understand why, once we moved to live together I found him different person, not the one that I love, he always off from his work to his computer, then to take a nap, and he spend all the night watching movies and I ... (466 words)

Should I contact him after so many years?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What should be the best way to get in contact with a lost friend after six years of absence? I was romantically involved (non sexual way) with one of my college professors. At that time he was on his fourties and I want on my twenties. Although the age difference, I felt truly ... (270 words)

Why he reacts like that when other guys flirt with me?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy at work, he likes to flirt with me and seems to hit on me sometimes, he looks at me and likes to be near me and stuff. But, I´ve notice that when other guys from work tease me out and play jokes on me he keeps quite and only smile but no like wanting to be part of the ... (138 words)

Teaching is my greatest love but I'm scared Ill screw up

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I realize this is not the time to be complaining about having a job. I'm extremely grateful that I was just offered a position for September. I am just out of college and the job is as a teacher, what I trained to do. The problem is almost every night I have nightmares about ... (115 words)

Should I be burning bridges? Or be Mr Complacent?

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17 July 2009 (M)

- I didn't have any enemies in high school. Things stayed that way in university but over the past 4 years of my life I've started burning some bridges. This was unthinkable when I was younger but now there are some people that are simply sources of negativity in my life and I... (152 words)

I've just found out she had a threesome and this is eating away at me!

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I really need some help here. Me and my girlfriend broke up a couple months ago. I had sex with one girl, shortly after the relationship ended and again two weeks later. She found out about both as i admided to it. She then procieded to have sex with someone I knew and ... (207 words)

Was it right for me to go out with a guy that my friend liked, even when she had a boyfriend?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I havae a realy good friend, so close we refer to each other as sisters. Her names,well.."Jennifer". and "Jennifer" and I wouldnt want anything to come between us. Or so I thought. She is in a Really good relationship. They both claim to love each other and everythi... (605 words)

He is constantly making comments that I'm cheating and checks my cell phone!

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance for 4 yrs. we moved in together 18 mos ago. he no longer makes me feel desirable, which is damperin my self esteem. he used to make me feel so beautiful. we are intimate ocassionally but nowhere close to how much we used to be. he is always makin ... (158 words)

Any ideas for a nice romantic visit to the beach?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are going to the lake tomorrow by ourselves without any parentals around and i'm very happy about it. Since we'll be at the beach, and a lot of romantic things happen on the beach, I was just wondering, is there anything..special I could plan for the beach ... (65 words)

He asked me to bring lunch, but then was a no-show because of his female trainees! I'm furious!

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17 July 2009 (F)

- Should I be upset or making too much out of it? B/f calls me prior to my lunch hour, asks me to pick up burgers and come to his work. I come with food, he's not there. I call his cell, no answer. His co-workers say they haven't seen him all morning, I tell them he's expecting ... (244 words)

How can I tell my mother I want birth control?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how can i tell my mom that i want birth control... (11 words)

How much porn is too much? I've considered downloading pics of naked me to my PC to let him see how it feels!

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just got married a few weeks ago and I knew my husband looked at porn but I thought he was doing it just sometimes as is 2-3 times a week. I found out that he is looking at porn almost every day when he gets home from work and on Sunday when I went out to dry clothes he was ... (182 words)

Is changing your appearance a good way to get over someone?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i spilt up a few days ago, we havent really dicussed it, i just said it was over and that was that, i dont really want to go into details about it, but i had good reasons for it though. i don't want to ever go back, but i have long black hair and he LOVES the ... (115 words)

Ex boyfriend is charging me with vandalism!

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short, my bf cheated on me. i didnt know how to deal with this, ive been upset for the last two weeks so in a drunken rage i took red spray paint to his door (he has a door that leads outside) and painted CHEATER on it really big it felt so good but today the poli... (96 words)

Why is he ignoring me? Why didn't he want to come to England to be with me?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i ned some advice as i am going crazy with thinking. i went to turkey for 2 weeks, went with people that really i should not have done and was unhappy after 2 days of getting there. i aked the hotel manager was their any spare rooms but hotel was over booked as it was. then he ... (1118 words)

She showed interest but now is suddenly ignoring me

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well hey there. This all started about 3 weeks ago. There's this girl that literally lives across my work. For the first week we've been looking at eachother and smiling and all, and then I've decided to make the first move. Started talking to her, laughing with her. Then... (398 words)

We miss each other but whenever we are together we argue!

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys please help again lol..wel ive been with my boyfriend for like 3 years now and i think the world of him he lives 4hours away from me now which isnt a issue cause we always try our best to see each other . but when he doesnt come down and doesnt see me for like 2 weeks ... (146 words)

How do I deal with my work collegagues?

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17 July 2009 (?) age 51-59 - sorry for the length I work in a hospital, where I am older then a lot of my colleagues, they are in their mid 20s - early 30s. I get along with most ppl and say say hi and how are you? I almost always say hi when i start my shift to everyone, even if thats all i say,... (320 words)

I've been having my period for a month?

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i just have a question... i am 17 years old and i got my period for the first time when i was about 13. ive never been regular... sometimes i might skip a month and stuff like that but about two months ago i got my period twice in one month and about 4 weeks i got my ... (148 words)

I can't reach climax and I don't know why. I build up, but then plateau.

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17 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been 'experimenting' for a few months now, and since we've tried so many things he's learnt the right spots that feel good to me. The only problem is, i can feel myself building up to climax, but i can never reach it, my body just quits just before im ... (86 words)

Why is she hurting me like this?

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - so it been 4 weeks since me and my ex have split up i got a flat just round the road from her we have 2 kids and i want to be near them she asked me to leave she said i was making her unhappy and i was doing nothing around the house i had just lost my job and she said i wasent ... (147 words)

I pushed my wife away because of insecurities, now she's gone to study and all I want is her.

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17 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - After 9 months of marriage, i broke up with my 19 year old wife and now she's left town for further studies which i disagree with her because i felt insecure that she might be use by some male friends in her college just for enjoyment. I'm no more interested in sex with any ... (85 words)