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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm attracted to my cousin but how do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so im 15 about to be 16 and i dont know how to approach this... lately ive been getting a sexual attraction to my cousin (i know how it sounds you dont have to say im wierd or anything) so heres the story... back when i was about 12 ans she was 11 i remember me and her ... (159 words)

I married but want to be with others

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for almost three years. I do love my husband, but there has been many times when I find myself wanting to be with other people. Is that normal?... (32 words)

He tells me "if it were to become more you would be the first to know"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy for 6 weeks. He separated from his wife 4 months ago and he was devestated. We love each other but I am worried that this a rebound relationship for him and he still might love his wife (she left him). I also found out that this other girl likes him ... (155 words)

In love with 1st cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: Poster is asking for HELPFUL advice...Not to be BASHED. Aunts please answer according! i need some real help and not judgment plz! ok so i don't really know where to start...its a long story so a few years ago i fell in love with my 1st cousin we started hanging ... (301 words)

Why can't I find love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am an average male, that is a hard worker and somewhat athletic but, I feel like I am being left out of a loving relationship? I have never kissed before, I have been depressed for the past week that I have not found love yet, but others can. Why is that? ... (52 words)

What do I do about the whole extreme shyness thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy that I like. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coach’s son. At the end of this year I will be 17 and he will be 18. We've known each other for about five ... (478 words)

I checked on my ex because I heard he was seeing another girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I broke up with my boyfriend that I have been seeing on and off for the past 4 years he treated me terrible not just terrible but how noone should ever be treated! he sprayed me in the face with pepper spray, he slit all my tires, he called me all the names in the book and i ... (203 words)

My mother loves her clutter, but I'd love to be able to bring friends home!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My mother is a clutter maniac. Ever since my father cheated on her and left the house, my mother has been collecting all kinds of things starting with napkins all the way to old pillows. I moved back with her because of unemployment. I also feel that she is very controlling and ... (185 words)

How do I talk to my Mom about birth control when she doesn't want me having sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 turning 15 in a couple months...i've had sex twice but my mom thinks i've done it once. she doesnt want me to continue having sex because she's afraid of me getting pregnant of an std but i want to keep doing it...im being safe i've used a condom both times. but now im ... (74 words)

I'm dating a younger girl and want to do the right thing for a respectful relationship...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Please tell me what to do. I have been chatting with a girl who is lovely, mature and beautiful. she is 15 years younger and im not worried about that. we connect meaningfully over several (shes not in the same town) lengthy (3h+ phone calls) conversations, and so far one d... (805 words)

After I see my ex, for a few days I'm down and depressed. Is it that I still have feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a gay guy in my thirties. I dated a guy last September; it only lasted for about 2 months, before he said it wasn't working for him. There were aspects that were not working for me as well, but I really liked the guy and enjoyed his company so after a break of around 3... (207 words)

Getting away from him after the summer will be a huge relief in one way, but in another, I won't be able to stand it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - long story, so sit down, get a cup of tea or something, and get ready to read. me and toby have known each other since we were around 12. we started dating, actually, but obviously it was nothing serious. after a very difficult break up (he didnt like his birthday present... (864 words)

Am I a weirdo?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heeey ! right well i would just like to ask people am i a weido for not having a boyfreind or have kissed anyone in my whole life i know i sound like a proppa geek ahah ! but if i could just have you feedback and not rude comments i am sick of them i just want some one to... (73 words)

Changes in clitoral hood size - advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to have an extremely small clitoral hood and after having just one sex partner, it's enlarged to about 2X the size! Is this normal and how do I get it to shrink? I actually feel pretty self-conscious about it...... (41 words)

He's emailed old girlfriends, I'm not sure I trust him but I don't want to police him either. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - This is the 2nd marriage for both my husband and I. Last year, I discovered emails he sent to a female he met at a ticket counter in which he described how he missed his ex and would still die for her. When confronted he said we were going through a rough patch and he reacted ... (257 words)

If you were in my ex's position, would you forgive my new love interest, his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok for the purpose of this question I'll call the 2 guys Tom and Will. I apologise if this is a bit long but I feel I need to explain the history on this! When I was in my teens I started dating Tom and became really good friends with his best mate, Will. Tom and I were to... (289 words)

I want to propose to her, Harry Potter style, but how?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now (five years), since she was 19 and I was 21. And I just want to know of a nice, decent place I can propose to her at. We're both Americans still living in America with the common goal of moving to England once she... (162 words)

Possible to get STD's from a person without sexual experiences?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm going to give my boyfriend a blow job, he hasn't had any sexual intercourse or experience and i know for a fact this is true. but can i still catch an sti? please help a.s.a.p... (36 words)

I feel like my boyfriend really doesn't care about me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel like my boyfriend doesn't really care about me. he says he loves me everyday but then his actions seem to say otherwise. now we're on summer break and we had been in diff countries so we hadnt seen each other in a few weeks and it always seemed like i missed him more ... (200 words)

I'm hot, so why doesn't anyone like me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ! right well i just dont get it i mean i havent had one boyfrind in my whole life and i am 15! when i tell people that i havent had one boyfreind and i havent even kissed a boy they are realy shocked! becouse they say i am stunning! But when i am in town shopping ... (150 words)

I don't want to be compared to the other girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 16 months im 16 and so's he and we have really good sex he always fingers me and i love it but i found out another girl gave him a blow job while he's with me and i forgave and its made me want to do it now but i'm too scared to tell ... (93 words)

Irresponsibly drunk, sent him harsh hurtful words, now things are even more messed up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya, i would like anyone to help me regarding my boyfriend. We had a huge argument last saturday and both attended a party that night. We didn't talk as we were both mad at each other and both got really drunk with seperate groups of friends. In the end, I ended up sending ... (341 words)

I don't want to rush into sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, this boy has liked me for ages, and even when i was going out with another boy he still flirted with me. then i broke up with my boyfried and he asked me out and i said yes. i really really like him and we get along great, but he keeps asking for me to get off with him, ... (127 words)

He told me I couldn't go to the gym because I might cheat on him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I went to my local gym and I was excited about starting, then I told my boyfriend and he said I couldn't go in case I cheat with the instructor :( I need to go because my confidence is low as hell and i know that'd help so much, I’ve told my boyfriend this and he says I'm ... (90 words)

I know my ex-boyfriend likes me, and I am going to wait for him to be ready to date again, but should I countinue to kiss him and hang out with him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend and I have been getting closer lately. Hanging out a lot and talking again. Yesterday before he was going to pick me up to go to the pool with him, he texted me this..."I am having mixed feelings on what to do. Like I want to date but I kinda don't. Like with ... (447 words)

Is her disease even real?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend says she has a disease called S.A.D. (social anxiety disorder) and she hates doing anything with me around other people (drinking, or just hanging out) and acts completely different around me than her friends. around her friends she turns into an extremely flirty ... (110 words)

The best snog of our lives...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm Mimza and I have a question for you. Me and my boyfriend want to have the perfect most wonderful snog of our lives, and we are researching all the websites, and trying to get advice. I really need some. Thanks! xxx... (43 words)

Why is he now so cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - [Mod note: this seems to be a continuation from an earlier question, but there was no link provided.] the guy i was telling you did go out exterme amount of girls he country lad living in the city .when i meet first he wss so nice ,warm,helpful.he was year older me,i meet him ... (476 words)

My bf harassed me, insulted me, cheated on me and made up terrible stories about me, why does he hate me so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My story is long and it proves how stupid I was to stick to this damaging relationship! but I want you also know about it. I met a guy from Toronto in May 2006 in Montreal where I live. He offered me the same day to be my bf and returned to Toronto the same day (he lives th... (1584 words)

Dead jealous of my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dead jealous of my boyfriend. We have been together for over 10 years, we have a son together and we live together for 7 yrs. now. we are planning to get married maybe next year. last weekend on a old friend gathering his ex. gf was there with her new husband. they never ... (261 words)

What can I do to make son realize his girlfriend is destroying him/family?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I'm not sure if this is where I should be asking for help but I figured it was worth a try.I have 26 yr old son whom I love very much and thats the hard part.He has been into drugs for some time, I'm not sure what he's on, I know at first , it was a little marijuan... (1170 words)

His mixed signals is making me unhappy. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I really like. I told him a while back that I liked him and he seemed cool about it. The only thing is, I do talk to him on the internet but in real life we don't speak. Now I am convinced he is blanking me. I sent him a message on Facebok saying "ah...wha... (234 words)

Just found out I'm pregnant, boyfriend is still grieving over the death of his daughter and wants me to have an abortion. Please help... I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this guy for a couple of months but we decided to end it after I found out he was still seeing other people behind my back. He lost his daughter just after we started seeing each other and has two other kids. This was a really hard time for him and his family as ... (374 words)

Being accused by my lover

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem being accused by my lover. He thinks I am cheating him with my ex just because he see me sitting on the porch with my homegirl and him. What should I do?... (36 words)

Are these signs that she likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's a girl that I liked, and for months, she's showed me those signs: -she giggles and laughs at me (even at things I say which are not hilarious) -she gave me a thumbs-up twice two separate times just before exams started -she would sometimes make eye contact wit... (481 words)

How do I convince her that I didn't know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My close friend had an affair with another one of my friends husband. I was never told about the affair. My friend who's husband cheated on her thinks I knew and had something to do with it. What can I say or do to convince her that I relaly truly didn't know.... (52 words)

I'm in love with my friend and I think she likes me too, how should I go about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im so confused, i need help. Im 15, gay, and Im in love with my best friend, have been now for about 9 months. She used to say she was bi, then straight, then she didnt know and just yesterday she said she was bi again. My friends reckon she likes likes me too, but it wouldnt ... (182 words)

I've become friends with a girl I like, but she likes someone else! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - right i left another post saying that i like this girl at school but shes taken but now she is not and for the past few days i have been getting to no her more and become good mates with her but she likes another boy and i think they might go out soon and the more time i spend ... (72 words)

Please help... My brother molested me and I'm afraid he'll do it again.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently, my stepbrother has been trying to pants me. i thought it was just some inmature thing a brother would do. but last night, my step brother and me were in my room talking. We were just talking about his ex-girlfriend and other thing like that. and then we both started ... (237 words)

Am I wasting my time or will things get better as she gets older? He has a child I get jealous over...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All I have been with my b/f for 18 mths now, he's 36 and I'm 28. We don't live together, I live alone and he still lives with his parents. He has a 7 yr old daughter from a short previous relationship. He was only with the mother for a few mths and she tricked him saying s... (600 words)

I'm so confused and I feel so used!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im not sure how this whole sex thing goes im only 13. but any way heres the story and tell me what to do...okay so i have a guy friend hwo lives walking distance away. i text him sometimes and well go hang out at the sovial hall. so one time we were texting i might le... (276 words)

Why is my period irregular all the sudden?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this may seem a bit odd, but i came on my period today, but its only been two weeks since my last one. Is this normal? I've been regular for ages now, why has it done this? i cant think of anything that could have changed my cycle (other than heatwave and missing my best ... (71 words)

Cheated on: Not sure what to do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My (ex) girlfriend and I were together for two months. In that time I fell in love with both her and her kids, and I've never been happier. That changed two weeks ago when she cheated on me. She met a co-worker's son to help him through a tough time, and he showed up with f... (400 words)

I'm a virgin. How do I satisfy my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i want to make love for the first time. Am a virgin but she's not. Am scared i might not satisfy her. Please how do i go about it. ... (32 words)

Was breaking up the right thing to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year and a half. In the beginning of the relationship it was so great, and we were both so happy. But the past few months we have been getting in little arguments and i've been getting upset with him over little things. I felt ... (265 words)

Am I wasting time with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i need help i want to know if im wasting my time with this girl. alright here it goes, im 2 months out of a 4 year relationship and during my relationship i met this girl at my friends house during a party about 6 months ago, she is 1 month out of a 3 1/2 year relationshi... (391 words)

What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the end he was like im flattered ... (109 words)

What can I tell my depressed friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So yesterday i got a call from a friend she needed to see me at wrk. She shows up and said i did it. With a guy lets call Jake. He is lke 17 and she is 14. He has slept around a lil and so i ust put my hands over my face.Then she told me where on her best friends couch while ... (165 words)

I'm fed up with my husband's friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts, My heart is breaking.. This is a long one.. My husband and I of two years are on the brink of another seperation. We had two before only for a couple of days each and since April he's been home and we've been ok.. The problem with us was basically his friends.. Ev... (332 words)

What do I say to break it off with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy fancied me, and we ended up kissing. I didn't really have chance to think it through, whether I wanted to go out with him or not, so now I am. He said 'I love you' and stupidly, I've now said it back. I think I do love him, but as a friend. I'm not IN love with him. W... (155 words)

Am I a slut or are my friends just prudes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I hook up with a lot of guys, not as in have sex, but oral and makeout and stuff, a lot of my friends tell me I'm a slut, and they say that they're kidding, but I don't think they are. It could just be because they are prude, because I don't think of myself as a slut. Should ... (61 words)

Should I confess to my boyfriend my insecure moment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am now in a great relationship that started off a little bit rocky. I grew to care about him and he went back and forth with his feelings about me as a friend and we dated for a minute before he realized he wasn't in the space to do so, so we remained friends and then it ... (213 words)

Are these symptoms stress related?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, lately I've been really hungry, tired, I have headaches and my back and stomach hurt. I've never had sex but I dont know why I have these problems? I know I cant be pregnant because I've never had sex but I'm kinda worried. I would like to know if this has happened to ... (64 words)

Will I end up an old maid?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . that is so unfair i have no body ... (256 words)

I have fallen madly for someone who is wrong for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a 27 gay woman who recently started dating someone. She is 29, attractive, intelligent and we seem to share lots of interests. Normally I would have liked to continue seeing her, but recently I developed very strong feelings for someone else. I have met a woman who is ... (305 words)

Will I regret having sex with someone I won't love later in life?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 14 and I know I'm kind of young, but I look more like I'm 18 apparently and I've done everything but have sex, and I've been asked many times to have sex and I've always turned people down, but I kind of want to have sex, but I partly also want to wait for someone I'm in ... (74 words)

I'm stuck in an emotional rut! I need help handling this...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with a guy for two years in high school and lasted into my first semester at college. He emotionally abused me and during our relationship, I had a lot to turn on how to be a good girlfriend. But I never cheated nor did I lie! I was just finding it hard to comprehend the ... (498 words)

Update: Is he blowing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

- I asked this question a few days ago and have an update and I need help: "I've been dating this guy now for over 3 months, not exclusively. sunday he told me I was "growing on him" I asked him what he meant and he said that in the begining it didnt really mean anything to... (312 words)

He doesn't seem bothered anymore, and I'm beginning to wonder if our relationship is over

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating him for over a year and am so in love he's the sweetest person I've ever met, but im beginning to think our relationship is over, he doesn't pay attention to me like he used to or really even talk with me anymore.. I mean I try to do things to make things ... (131 words)

We're not as close as we used to be...help! I don't want to lose the love of my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, I love him to pieces, I don't think hes cheating or anything, its just that we're not as close as we were a few months ago. We don't talk as much and he's been a bit snappy, but every time I ask him if he's alright he just ... (121 words)

I'm married, she's married, we're both unhappy and have an affair, should we keep it going?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm a 36 y.o man unhappily married with two beautiful girls ages 10 and 6. My lover, whom I met 9 months ago is also married she's 33 and has a teenage boy. My marriage has been on the rocks since about 3 years ago. thanks to my wife's me first attitude. The woman I'm seeing ... (129 words)

Torn between sexual love and safety!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age - I feel pretty desperate and in so much uncertainty. I left my wife 6 months ago. We've been married for nearly 22 years. For many of those years we didn't have a good sexual relationship. For the past 10 years we didn't have sex very often at all, and hadn't had sex at all ... (563 words)

He makes me hate myself. I don't know what love is anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend say things to me and turn me against myself. I am good person, I know it. Last night I try to speak with him and tell him that I hate me because of him and was crying and he told me to be quiet and stop making a show. I don't know what to do. I try to leave bef... (147 words)

Why is it that some girls cum white and others just like water?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - sex question. why is some girls cum white and others just like water?... (14 words)

I pushed him away before, so is he playing with me now as revenge?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does online relationship really work?? Hello everyone. First of all I really want American guys and not guys from our country because I love tall and white guys. I met this guy on an chatting site and he is a marine in Japan. I will prefer call him James. We've bee... (1270 words)

Is it a good idea to have sex with a stranger I chat to in the Internet??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

8 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im 15, and i met a girl on the internet who is 19. Ive been talking to her seriously about us and she asked if we wanted to meet up and to have sex. I said yes, shes attracted to me im attracted to her. We have shown eachother our parts on webcam. I really want to have sex ... (101 words)

Can't get over him? what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - oke, this was my first boyfriend. We met at college and he was the first boy I kissed and had sex with. I wanted to wait for someone that I thought was special and he was. He is in the same group of friends as I am in college. At the beginning this was a very positive thing. T... (397 words)

Does my friend say these things to me to try and get a reaction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i've got this friend whom everytime she goes out with her friends from work she always comes back to tell me about guys she got off with. now we've never really gone out clubbing much together because i'm not one for that i did go recently and i enjoyed it but it was with... (435 words)

When a guy is touching a girl, what should she do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - When a guy is feeling up a girl, what should the girl be doing? Something for the guy? Or just enjoy? Etc... (22 words)

I find my 19 year old step son attractive!

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm a 32 year old woman. i recently found myself attracted to my 19 year old stepson, and i am seriously trying to fight these feelings. i would never pursue him or make any moves, because i think it's wrong, and i love his dad too much, but i still can't help to find him ... (245 words)

3 weeks of antibiotics and no improvement

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm currently on antibiotics for acne treatment and i've heard that having been given too much antibiotics in your life may results to your body being resistant to them. So i was wonderin if is it possible for my current treatment to work for me beautse i'm into my third ... (80 words)

I wish I had a sister, dream made me want one even more!

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8 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, i never had a sister before but whenever I get sad or depressed i wish i had a older sister. i just think having a sis would be sweet and cool, but recently i had a weird dream about this woman who called me her lil bro and held me in her arms then she kissed me. its really ... (98 words)

Does this make me a coward?

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8 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, this is about a problem i have that happens at random times of the week usually. somedays I get depressed like in a instant for no reason and I hate when people put me down cuz i act as if it doesnt affect me at all but deep down it does. i dont understand why i ... (198 words)

I'm stuck in a relationship back home and afraid to end it in case things don't work out with the other guy!

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a very confused state. I am torn between two men. The first guy, (we'll call him John) and I have been in an on-off relationship for almost 6 years now. Initially I did love him, as he showered me with gifts, and did lots of little favors for me (this has made me become ... (680 words)

She kissed her best male friend..what should I do?

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8 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend confess to me that she kissed her best friend. She told me it was a mistake and had no feeling attached to it. Of course I got angry but im a reasonable person and i know everyone makes mistakes. I told her that I applaud her for telling me but im mad that the ... (352 words)

Do all mothers care for their children no matter how old they are?

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8 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Introduction: I'm in my early thirties and unemployed. I live with my parents adn because of lack of money and friends. I almost never go out except to church and to buy things for my family or do them favors. I'm not a kid person and my mother takes care of my little nice and ... (804 words)

Is she only with me because he didn't want her back?

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8 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been seeing someone for the past 6 months and everything has been going great. I've liked her for 3 years and when we finally got together I was elated. She used to be dating someone else before me who didnt treasure her and used her. Now, they are still in cont... (212 words)

Is my boyfriend's ex a problem?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and we are pretty serious. He is 8 years older than me and has a 5 yr old son to his ex girlfriend. He has said to me that he was really in love with his ex and they were together for over 4 years and got engaged. The... (465 words)

He's starting to spend all his time with his friends

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for a little over 3 years. Things have always been pretty good Recently, he's gotten in touch with his friends from back home. Being the cool gf I am, I let him hang out with his friends. (even though he made me give up mine) the thing is, they live fa... (198 words)

How can I totally forget what happened that night?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - long sorry.... please help! im gay and my good freind, probably my best freind, is straight,shes knows im gay and is 100 and cool with it and isnt threatened at all. A good freind. she has had a lot of pain in her life and was treated very badly by her ex husband, sh... (380 words)

I love a married girl

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8 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I trully love a girl, now she is married. We are very close friends also, but I don't know that she loves me or not. How I know that she loves me or not. We are talk through phone just as a friend. In this situation what should I do?... (50 words)

He won't leave me alone!

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - this guy started calling me,never telling me he was about to get married,tells me later and lets me know he plans on keeping me,if he hears of a gu liking me ,he runs them off, i will not sleep with him. he wil not leave me alone. he tels me all of their business. he told me he ... (108 words)

Would I tell him I"m falling for him and would I know if I'm more than a friend?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 7 months ago I've meet a guy, through a common friend. He just broke up with his girlfriend 9 months ago. After meeting him in person, we continue our communication through email,chat and text and sometimes call 'coz we are miles away, and we just see each other once every ... (353 words)

I'm pregnant, my fiance cheated and got her pregnant too!

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance cheated on me and got the girl pregnant. I love him a lot.and to make it worse i was already a month pregnant. he swears it wasnt on purpose, he was drunk and that he will do everything to get me back. i dont know if i can trust him again or how it will be being wi... (76 words)

He keeps going back and forth should I just give him up?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well there is this boy/my ex (we we're together for a long time)(10 months) that i realllyyy lovee with all my heart and i dont want to let go of him...but im not sure if i should or shouldn't??...i feel like i already lost him..but i didnt want to...we'v constantly been ... (134 words)

Etiquette for text messages?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, I'm wondering what is the proper etiquitte regarding txt messages. If you send a text to someone saying for instance,Hi just sending you theses hugs and kisses because i'm thinking of you and i care ect should you expect a reply or not . I didn't send the message ... (85 words)

My father is calling this incest!

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. Iv been with this guy a month then my father starts saying his my cousin and calls me insest and everything and its really annoying me, iv tried telling him to stop but he wont listen. The past 4years he has be making my life misrable and i dont know what to do anymo... (185 words)

Does this make me a slut even though I'm drunk?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy So I have this problem where when I get drunk I'll hook up with random guys and most of the time are alot older than me. Does it make me a slut to hook up with random people even though I'm drunk?? ... (44 words)

How do I handle I like one girl but got another pregnant?

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8 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's what happend. I'm in the military and I recently when on two sets of leave (vacation time): The first set of leave I went to a friends wedding out of state for four days and I met this great girl that I really like. We kind of hit it off and started talking long-dis... (287 words)

The spark just isn't there

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8 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I'm a married man for past 10 yrs and have 2 kids, whom i love a lot and spend a lot of time with them more than my wife spends, as her job is quite demanding. We had a love marriage which our families had opposed. During these 10 yrs, our love has taken a backseat... (311 words)

What do the brown spots mean?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello there! I just want to know early as now if I am pregnant. My last period was june 11 and in between those days I had sex with my bf using withdrawal method but once he come inside me during my period. Last Saturday july 4, I had sex again with my bf and I had little ble... (115 words)

I'm looking for something different but I don't want to hurt her

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8 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello guys, This is my situation. I have a girlfriend, we are currently on our 10th month this month. Everything seems to be in great shape. I know I love her, but not sexually, intimately or passionately. I don't know how, but I know I want to protect her, provide for... (244 words)

44 year old virgin and not sure what to do

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8 July 2009 (M)

age - I think that to be honest I may have more than one question in this subject but my main one is how to make love. I am a 44 yr old virgin and a girl of 28 (woman) has come into my life it was love on first sight sort of thing. But im very inexperianced when it comes to girls a... (138 words)

She has curves but bikini isn't appealing?

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8 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - What do guys think when a girl is wearing a bikini and it isn't very flattering, but the girl has killer curves? (so for example, she has big thighs too)... (30 words)

Is it normal that sex still hurts?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and my boyfriend and i just decided to have sex...and he has fingered me before and it feels good at first then like after 20ish min it stops feeling good and i dont like the feeling at all...i have a high pain tollerance and it still bothers me. and when we had sex it ... (111 words)

Do you need to talk to each other about becoming serious?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it fairly universally accepted that to get serious with someone you're dating, you need to have a conversation with each other and agree to it? I'm assuming that's the case, but sometimes I get the feeling that the man I'm seeing might be thinking things are getting serious, ... (208 words)

Do men gossip about their girls?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do men talk to their friends about women they like or are interested in? I was seeing this guy for a little bit a few months ago and we just kind of started talking again. After going out, he took me to his place since he had just moved and wanted me to see it. His ... (173 words)

He smokes so much pot!

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's my problem .. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and 3 months we're very happy with eachother and are definently in love.. But he smokes sooooo much pot.. I do it with him sometimes but its never been a problem for me but I can see that it is ... (158 words)

Roleplaying and whats "normal"?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I have to ask this. if anyone roleplays what roles are normal? I know that I always have a boyfriends that are few years older then me. I always have called them daddy when we roleplay is that horrible??? ... (40 words)

He's playing favourites but I don't think its intentional?

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8 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have two best friends, a boy and a girl. We're all inseparable however there are a few problems. The girl, I have no problem connecting with and she has none with me. The boy, however, mostly doesnt open up to me, but he will to her. He also tells her things I dont think ... (104 words)

He says "men rule the world"!

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. For the longest time I have thought that I wanted a man who believed certain things, otherwise I was not being true to myself. By certain things, I mean in equality of the genders. He has been saying things that disturb me lately, but I don't know if what he has been... (178 words)

Afraid of moving in with boyfriend

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - can anyone help me? i'm 19 yrs old and my boyfriend wants me to move in with him and i'm scared to bc i dont know if he will be able to take care of me and the house.... (39 words)

I feel lonely and unwanted.What do I do?

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8 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel like so depressed!! I dont know what to do..my parents dont let me go out and hang with friends so i basically stay home all day everyday and it really sucks. i hate that they're so over protective. I feel so lonely and unwanted...and i dont know what to do...... (59 words)

How do I get my dad to like my boyfriend? And is this relationship illegal or immoral? I'm almost 18, he's 26.

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 17 year old girl, i turn 18 in 3 weeks. my boyfried is 26. we love eachother very much and things are going really well between us... however, some of my family, especially my parents dont approve and say it is morally wrong and some of my mates that he is 'grooming' me ... (275 words)

How seriously should I take this comment that he loves me?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you think it means if a guy's female friend starts mentioning he loves you in a half joking sort of way? This girl is nice, mature and 28 years old, so it's not like she's saying haha, you so love her! In a teenager sort of way. Or like his mates saying man, you're so ... (89 words)

How do I know if my teacher is flirting?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im 16 and i have a situation with my teacher.this year i had a teacher who sends me those same mixed signals and i dont know how to take that. in the beginning he treated me badly. i would come late and sleep alot but so did other students but it felt he only picked o... (311 words)

Advice about asking an ex out?

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8 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and i broke up about a month ago. we have been going out for a little over a year. she said that she loved me but wasnt in love with me anymore. when we were together i had trust issues with her so she didnt go out much and she slept over almost every night. it ... (261 words)

I've become the back up friend

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8 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - sorry for the length but need advice plse. My best friend, who I have become close to and who I have been there for,this past year especially, is always talking about this other woman ( who is married with a child,) she has become friends (friends only) with, through he... (328 words)

I did everything for him but now I'm all alone

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8 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I wanna start telling you guys that I'm gay, last week my bf and I broke up after a very ugly argument, that day ii texted him, he answered me in this way, what do you want? so I asked him why did he reply like that so he said, "omfg i dont wanna talk to u. what do u ... (504 words)

I'm going to have our baby soon and he's texting another girl and calling her sexy!

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So due to some recent money issues me and my boyfriend have been living seperately, me staying with my mother, him with his sister some of the time...the other part of the time with his guy friend down the street. Well I kinda have some slight trust issues that I have been ... (229 words)

Does a cheat and a liar ever change?

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8 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been with my boyfriend now for three years, in that time he has cheated once what i know of, and lied on many occasions. i have stayed around i suppose in the hope of him changing, and i really thought he had, until i found out he lied to me again. he was supposed to ... (250 words)