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We've been married 29 years and never fight, Is that common?

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Question - (15 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2009)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

me and my husand (mod note: named removed! please do not include full names in your posts) have been married for 23 years and been together for 29 years and i want to know if its common if we never fight i mean we talk about problems but really we never fight

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A male reader, Rogerramjet Canada +, writes (15 July 2009):

I have to say it's NOT normal, but i don't think that it is in anyway a bad thing.

I have never known a couple that didn't fight at least once in a blue moon.

You are very lucky indeed!

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (15 July 2009):

Basschick agony auntYou both probably love and respect each other, so even when you don't see eye-to-eye it doesn't have to end in a shouting match. On the other hand, just make sure you aren't avoiding conflict simply because you lack the passion to speak out, or say what's on your mind. As long as you are both happy consider yourself lucky that you are both mature enough to discuss things rationally.

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (15 July 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntits a good sign shows a good healthy relationship shows you know how to communicate with eachother and sort problems out before they get too far. :)

it's really nice to find a happy couple whom don't fight.

keep it up :)

x ilovebowsandcherries x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

Thats good that you guys have good communication.

Its normal but rare :)

god bless

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A female reader, BettyBoup United Kingdom +, writes (15 July 2009):

BettyBoup agony auntYes I agree. This sounds like you have a very healthy relationship. You are able to talk through issues without getting angry over disagreements. You've very lucky. I think its to do with personalities, some clash others see eye to eye.

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