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writes:My scorpio man 13 years my senior has just ended our two year relationship very publically and abruptly with abosolutely no warning. I am not really sure why. He says I spoke badly about him. I did pass 1 comment in jest. He told someone to tell me he never wants to see me again. Does he mean it or is it just the scorpio way to make me feel bad. He has ended it before for about three weeks and then come back cause he missed me. Will he be back. Reply to this Question
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reader, Staffy +, writes (16 July 2009):
Staffy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I did make a comment in jest. Just so you understand both him and myself have very offbeat sense of humor. I did not make the comment in front of a lot of people. It was him, myself his best friend and partner. We were just sitting round talking about birthdays and i said "well, here is the epitomy of a asshole, he didn't even ring me on my birthday". It was a true statement. At the time he didnt bat an eye and for the following two days he was fine. Then on the saturday we went to a bush lodge for his friends birthday in the middle of nowhere. We all stayed the night. I went to bed before him and when I said goodnight he was fine. In the morning me and the two people who were there for the birthday comment got up and were sitting outside. My partner was still in bed. When we walked back in he was packing up his bed. He walked out to his car with his bedding got in and drove off. He didnt say a word to anyone. So here I was stuck in the middle of nowhere with all his friends and no car or phone. That the public humiliation thing. Some people gave me a lift home, and when I got home all my things that were at his place were on my doorstep. I went round to his house to ask him what happened and he told me to f off, which I did. I have given him all his stuff back, but didnt see him. I wrote him a letter thanking him for all the good times etc etc and said how sorry I was that the relation ship had ended on such a bad note, and said that I hope in time his hate will lessen and we can remain friends. I have not heard from him at all. It is as if I dont exist. Is he embarrassed and thats part of the reason I dont know. Was my birthday comment that bad? it didnt seem to be at the time. Was it just an excuse. It is so fustrating when you dont really understand what you have ment to have done. We were goods mates before our relationship and I always admired and respected him. I am a very strong, independant person, and he has been the first man to stand up to me, and even though I strong that what I want, I am an oldfashioned girl at heart. I dont want it over but I just not sure how to go about restoring the balance. Any suggestions greatfully received. I do not hate him for what he did, I actually feel sorry for him a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): Sounds like an immature guy and an immature relationship. You don't mention what the comment was but it must have been pretty hurtful for him to publicly humiliate you over it. Perhaps your comment was made publicly as well and it humiliated him.
I don't think this relationship sounds viable to me. If he is 13 years your senior and you want to blame his actions on him being a Scorpio, then I think there must be a gap in maturity and culture that is just not going to narrow any time soon. i.e. you are not right for each other.
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reader, Staffy +, writes (15 July 2009):
Staffy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes he must be upset. I just dont understand, he is not the sort of person to humiliate himself infront of 30 odd friends, and the comment was made about 3 days before he ended it. I have apologised cause i dont like upsetting or hurting people. It is the instant outburst without warning is so out of character, so is the not wishing to see me to save his face or what I have no real idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): I dont think his horoscope has anything to do with him but anyway on to him:
I think hes just hurt that he heard this comment.How bad was this comment? If it was pretty bad you have some apologising to do.If you dont feel you did anything wrong even though you spoke bad about him then just leave it.
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reader, cherry cherry boom boom  +, writes (15 July 2009):
It doesnt have any thing to do with his sign you just need to find some one new one of the worst things you can do is redate all the time. This ya girl, peace.
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