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I have fallen for my straight friend

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Question - (15 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, *hatpunken writes:

hello im a gay male thats have fallen for a straight guy that i work with.im truly is like confussed bout our freind ship i really thank hes want to try me out lol ill get to the reason why i say that is he always playing around with me like hitting me on my butt n brushing against me n when he goes out he door he always looking back at me n smiling o yea it gets btter he send me nude pics of him self n he be saying he dont no why he sending them to me all i can do is smile. n he be telling my best freind that me n him have a relationship he can explain n stuff like that im truly confused i dont no WHAT TO DO please tell me thanks

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009):

Does he know you're gay?

If he does then he's absolutely into you. If he doesnt know....

He still seems to be into you but...to be sure... the next time he flirts with you in anyway u can reply by saying jokingly "Hey *Jack if i wasn't mistaken i swear you keep flirting with me"

This can give him a clear opening in return where he can say how he feels " What if I am???" he'll pass it off as a joke most likely so that in his eyes if u turn out to be straight he won't get in trouble.

Or you could just do everything that he does to you back to him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

There are many ways of coming onto somebody, some subtle, some blatant. Smiling at you and brushing against your butt could be just flirtatious. But sending you nude pictures of himself can, I think, safely be interpreted as a come-and-get-it-boy gesture. Go for it!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

hey im christina.

sounds like you got it going on lol

well you know maybe you should talk to him or text him and tell him if ur either mistaken for wat seems to be flirting or juss a misunderstanding..It doesnt sound like its a misunderstanding the way u put it but u know ull never know if dont try =]

i wish u the best

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (15 July 2009):

Starlights agony auntthis other guy sounds like he is into you.

the way he fools around suggests he's flirting with u.

you already made your feelings clear to him, if he wants to go further he will let u know when he's ready.

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