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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend cums too early, help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend can't have sex with me for over 5 minutes without orgasming. We do have amazing sex (during that 5 minute period) don't get me wrong, its just its not exactly a very long time for me. I don't know what to do. I know for a fact I can't bring it up with him, ... (125 words)

My parents want me to have a baby so they can look after it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im a 17 year old girl living in the UK! recently, my parents have been a little immature and stupid i think to be honest. my parents have been trying for another baby since i was 2, but were told for personal reasons she will find it very difficult to concieve! they're now both ... (236 words)

I left my boyfriend because he was slagging me off to my sister on facebook!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - A couple of months ago i left my boyfriend because he was slagging me off on facebook to my sister! And i was talking to him myself on facebook chat and he said "My mate likes you" and i said who? he said "peter" Then he said that it was a joke about his mate and that he liked ... (171 words)

My sister's husband cheated on her with her best friend! Is there any way back from this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! My younger sister recently found out that her husband and her best friend have been having an affair. My sister and her husband have 2 young children. Her husband wants her and the children back and the woman he was sleeping with said it was 'just for fun' and ... (608 words)

What is the truth about anal sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to know the truth about anal sex. does it hurt. and ive heard that you can poo, or there may be remains of poo on the condom after withdrawal, is this true???... (34 words)

Why am I so upset my ex got married to someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i probably sound really silly writing this but im really upset that my ex fiance has got married to somebody else. im upset because i dont understand why im upset after all when we were together we had a house which i left to him after our bad split which he was happy to kee... (160 words)

Should I take him back? We have this chemistry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok let me break this down for you in its simplest form, if possible. Me and Sam click. Theres always been this chemistry which we both find difficult to gain from other relationships. Theres almost an oxymoron persona between us; love is always followed by hate yet the passion ... (352 words)

I'm waiting on a man...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating my son's father for 3 1/2 years. When i became pregnant in 2007 he said our relationship was over because I wouldn't abort. We moved apart a month prior to the baby arriving. He was excellent and there through my entire labor. He love his son dearly and spends a ... (276 words)

Why them and not me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused. I've known this guys for 5 years. We never physically hooked up until 2 months ago, but were always good friends. We also live 3 hours apart. Before we took it to the next level I introduced him to my 2 best friends and he hooked up with both of them. I later ... (150 words)

My ex baby daddy wants a quality night with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My son's father and i have both moved on after he ran off with a lady of 40 and married her , my son is now 7 and i am 29 and his dad is 27 thing is i'm seeing someone else and since he came by the other day we realised our feelings are real strong, he only married this woman ... (167 words)

What is it that causes pain for a woman when she loses her virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya all, I have a question about first time sex for a woman. What is it that causes pain for a woman when she loses her virginity? Is it when the hymen breaks, or when the vagina stretches? Ive never really been sure? Any help would be great, thanks :)... (56 words)

What do the labia look like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - this is libia question when one of my friends puts on a bathing suit there is a little lump..kinda like an arch stretching down. i think it is her libia. does this happen to all girls? and What is it? [Moderator note: the following question was also posed by this poster.] wha... (60 words)

Shall I be honest and tell him when I fancy other people or simply keep him happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is pissed off I keep telling him I fancy other men. Now. We have got a bit of a history. We've been together 3-4 years but I cheated on him quite a few times but recently I made a vow I'd stay faithful and he forgave me for straying in the past. But this eveni... (227 words)

She hasn't texted back for 4 days!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend who i met alone hasn't texted me back last time she texted me she said she had to go for a bit i said ok well text me when u can. well that was 4 days ago. and iv texted her since but she hasn't responded i even texted her and said happy birthday. she never responded ... (108 words)

How do I proceed with this shy girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I know it`s a hard task to complete,but id like to try. I like a girl from my class. She is a beauty, but also she is very shy person. One night she was drunk and kissed me on the cheek and the second day she pretended that i dont exist. She takes peoples opinions very deep. No... (102 words)

Embarassing gag reflex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I love giving my boyfriend head, but when he comes, I gag...It's embarrassing. Is there anyway to stop that from happening? It's not the taste or anything, usually I don't even notice it, it's just my reflexs. help?!... (40 words)

One day I'm the girl he's going to marry, the next day he's stand-offish!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am quite hurt and confused and would really appreciate any advice! Me and my boyfriend of six months broke up about a month ago but during that month we have been in contact every day, talking meeting up and even going away on a trip together! For the last week we have been ... (265 words)

Is reading this book responsible for the good changes in my life? Or is it coincidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, i just have a question today. No problems thank God :) Basically i have been reading this book called the secret (by rhonda byrne) for the past year. I read relevant chapters when im feeling a bit down. It helps me to have a positive outlook on life. I have to ... (121 words)

She screws with my head, but I love her. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been on before and got good advise, so here we go again. i broke up with my partner just over 4 weeks ago. she asked me to move out as i was making her unhappy but now i have my own place and am decorating it. she is being nasty and very bitchy when i get the kids or ... (171 words)

Is he dropping hints that I'm not picking up on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy about 6 months ago and we didnt really get close as firends til about a month ago and lately I think he has been dropping hints about wanting to get with me but I am not sure. He says things such as he went out on a blind date a few weeks ago and I asked him how ... (179 words)

Why is life such a cruel thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this isnt my relationsip or anything! but i just cant help but worry, im only 17, i found out about 6 weeks ago that i was pregnant, and im now just 9 weeks gone, we was stupid, we made a mitake, not the best thing at this age, but me and my boyfriend are both working ... (296 words)

Two UTI's in one month?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Two weeks ago I got a UTI. After it went away me and my boyfriend continued to have sex with a condom on. Last night we had sex without one, I'm on the pill by the way and now I wake up and I feel like I have a UTI again. I'm scared to tell my mom as she might get mad because ... (83 words)

Possible to have a real relationship without sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So is it possible to have a real relationship without sex? Im 16 and Im a virgin and in a great relationship but I just don't see the point in relationships if you're not gonna do anything else. I mean what good is a teenage relationship? So my real question is, is it possible... (68 words)

My ex has a twisted logic to justify our broken relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently ended my relationship with my ex because she was seeing this other girl behind my back, but when i was breaking up with her she's been saying all these things like "i knew this would happen because you don't want this to work but i do" and " you have no idea how ... (134 words)

I need a date for the wedding fast!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! Need a bit of advice please guys and galls, Been invited to a mates wedding at work but the invite is for mke plus partner im single have been for 2 months. I really wanna go to the wedding but cant let my mate down I need to find a date with in 4 weeks but the pro... (119 words)

Theres always been something there but shes in a sexual relationship!

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I fancy one of my friends, but she's been going out with a guy outside of school for 2 months. There's always been something there, and the relationship she's in now is almost purely sexual. What should I do... (40 words)

He didn't cum in me, on birth control, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi what are my chances of getting pregnant. me and my boyfriend had sex 3 days ago several times, he never came inside of me just like on my stomach. i'm on birth controll but that night i took it later than usual. i'm not supposed to start for nearly another two weeks and i ... (67 words)

We both cheated now he wants a week break!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 7 months, we've both cheated on eachother and i felt awful. After that we worked it out and then the arguing happened again this time more often and we got more verbally nasty with eachother. Then we were fine and i went ... (129 words)

I am thinking of a divorce, I'm fed up with the lies!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm seriously thinking of divorcing my husband. I'm tired of all the lies and deceit. Back in April I checked out an email account that both my husband and I have access to but I hadn't looked at in over a year. I was sickened by what I saw. My husband and his (female) boss ... (462 words)

My boyfriends mum is trying to control what I do with my child! Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently fount out that I'm expecting a baby girl. Me and my boyfriend loved the name scarlett, and I was adement that I wanted to call her Scarlett prior to finding out the sex, if she was going to be a girl that is. Being warry of telling people baby names, we told m... (356 words)

My drug addict ex boyfriend dumped me, he just puts drugs before me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex bf began taking cocaine at age 10 as well as drinking and having sex. His parents sent him to a rehab in grade 9 but when he got out he became a dealer and ended up doing time in jail. When he got out he went back to his old ways and ended up leaving a bad breakup of a ... (713 words)

Did I give her the right advice? She really likes him but hes just not into her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey my friend really likes this guy she had been dating but then they stopped seeing each other, it was his decision as He made it clear he wasn't that into her by not even replying to messages etc. Anyway, he asked to meet up with her recently. I told her she should say no, ... (257 words)

Will he contact me or will the male pride stop him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i broke up over a month ago but decided to remain friends. A week later we had a row via email which resulted in me saying that I didnt think he cared enough about me and therefore I was saying goodbye. I explained that I hoped one day we could be great friends ... (173 words)

I had sex with a girl I love very much, now shes ignoring me...why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So I been hanging out with this girl that I work with. I’m totally crazy about her, we pretty much got hired around the same time 6 months ago. A couple of weeks ago we met after work to have dinner and we later did “stuff” in my car. Fast forward to last week and we had ... (160 words)

When is the right time to tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been with this guy for almost 6 months. every since we met, we spend every second we can together, its at a point where i dont even stay at my place anymore, i pretty much live at his house, im even at his house when hes not there. we love each others company, we ... (151 words)

Foreskin doesn't retract! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 20 years old and a hindu. when my penis is erect , my foreskin gets tight and doesnt pull back... plz tell me some soluton to it as i fear that it will affect my married life? [email address removed per DearCupid guidelines] plz reply at the earliest... ... (58 words)

Stages of getting over a break-up, can you tell what stage I am now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I am still not completely over my ex. I know it will take time but when will that be? I can't wait for the day that he becomes a name I would just remember and the feelings like it was a part of a dream I had before. Right now, I can say I am done with crying. I also a... (304 words)

Any ideas on how to make the smell go away 'down there'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, recently my boyfriend told me when ever we have sex that I dont smell very pleasant down there. I went and had a pap and everything was fine. i dont know what else to do?! any recommendations in how i can make the smell go away?... (47 words)

We broke up a year ago, but still 'hook up'!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up a year ago, and since then we've been hooking up every so often. I'm not sure what to do, its like we cant get back together in a relationship because it just doesnt work out, but after a while we miss each other so much, and the sex is amazing. ... (97 words)

How can I leave this awful relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a bad relationship for three of the longest years of my life. I am only 20 years old and i have a two year old daughter. this relationship as been so bad till i cry myself to sleep sometimes. Now we live together everythings in my name and he pays the bills, but ... (89 words)

I can't move forward in my life with all these feelings I have for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, first of all Id like to tell u that im gay, im feeling really down because me and my boyfriend broke up almost a month ago, he ended up with me in very hurtful terms telling me he didn´t love me anymore, added to this problem i have a bunch more, problems with my ... (248 words)

Am I heartless for even thinking about this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age - I'm engaged to a lovely girl. We've been together for over 5 years, but ever since we bought a house together she's become very distant. She still chooses to live with her mother rather than at our house, and openly admits that she doesn't know if she could ever leave her ... (349 words)

Would it be very selfish if I leave, and let them figure things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) age - I have very hard time live in my own dysfunctional family. I know usually teenagers would feel like that , but really ,I' m so upset. Me and my husband can't get along for many reasons. He is working all the time, and never does anything with me. Including sex ,chores, f... (164 words)

Best way to confess undying love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i need to confess my undying love to a girl before she leaves for uni. what is the best way to do this? jamez x... (31 words)

I'm afraid to like him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) age 36-40 - i was asked out by this guy i like, but i turned him down. i tried to make myself believe i turned him down by making up some lame excuse, but the real reason i turned him down is that i'm scared to like him. i have never had a boyfriend before and i grew up in an abusive ... (211 words)

I'm trying but my boyfriend seems to not care about ths relationship anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. When we first started dating he was Sooooo in live with me, and it was so nice to have someone who treated me like this. He took me on dates, he was compassionate about my feelings, he was caring and selfless. As the ... (290 words)

Help me with my relationship, please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well i am 25 and have four children, three from a previous relationship, and yes i started really young, But i need someones help, my fella is a gambler and goes to the pokers five days a week, now just to be clear, he doesnt spend my money and he still pays me money towards ... (603 words)

I have some sex and health issues and questions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - [Moderator note: I combined two questions into one for space and continuity.] 1: i hate anal sex it hurts me really bad but my boyfriend loves to give it to me. lastnight we ued lube but still i was in alot of pain. i want to mke him happy so i just let him do it. but is there... (145 words)

Should I accept it's over and never contact him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I have just split up with my boyfriend of 18 months and I feel really confused, hurt and upset. He broke up with me because he felt too pressured to commit and knows he can't give me what I want. He doesn't think it will ever work as he knows he will mess it up.... (684 words)

I trusted my long-term boyfriend enough to stop using condoms with him, but now I am itchy! Could it just be thrush or something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I hope I am just worrying for nothing. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and been completely faithful. Before him I have only had sex with 3 other guys all who were my boyfriends. I was safe with all of them (using condoms and I'm on the pill). ... (188 words)

Heartbroken over 2 guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know how to stop this heartache feeling, it never seems to fade. I lost my virginity to this guy in december after a few too many drinks, we meet each other in the summer and liked each other but nothing happened because i was scared because i'd never kissed anyone a... (367 words)

Is he just making fun of me or is he being flirty with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this is my problem. i think i'm in-love with the wrong guy.he has a girlfriend that is far away -like long distance relationship- and the girl really loves him and he loves her (i think). And the worst, he's older than me about 10 years... I think someone told him that i ... (129 words)

How do I come clean to my mum that the condom she found was mine and my boyfriend's?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my mom found a condom that me and my boyfriend used but i couldnt find any excuse but to tell her that it was one of my friends from work that put it in my bag but i find it hard to believe that she believed me and im 16! i dont know how to tell her i did it with my boyfriend ... (89 words)

Is there something wrong with only wanting to have one sexual partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says that I have "twisted view" whatver that means. He and I been together for almost 2 years now and he took my virginity. According to him he wants to have sex with other people now because he is too used to me. He is 19 years old. He keeps saying is just sex it ... (278 words)

I want to continue my friendship with my teacher but I want it to work romantically too!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love a teacher of mine. I wasn't even sure what the feeling was until my mom identified it. (I talk about him with her; my age difference with my teacher is the same as my mom's with my dad.) He's 12- 13 years older than me, but even so, we connect. We have more in common t... (266 words)

Boyfriend's blue balls.....he says if I don't give him head he will leave me!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says every time we hang out he gets blue balls and is in pain for hours, even days. It causes him headaches and muscle cramps too. I do plenty of sexual things for him almost every time we hang out. He's tried masturbating beforehand, but that doesn't work. I ... (261 words)

I started to move on after our affair but now he is dragging me back into this, he has some kind of hold over me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need some advice. at the beginning of the year i fell in love with a guy at work, the feeling was mutual and we started seeing each other. the problem was that he has a fiance and two children. what stopped him leaving was his children so he broke everything off with me ... (411 words)

To call or not to call....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This might sound stupid to you all and i feel so by just asking. When i like a girl i want to see her often, only recently have i undertaken the two step forward, one step back rule. We've been on 8 dates and are sleeping together. Last thursday i did a really bad thing a... (423 words)

My husband loses his erection during sex, what is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) age - My husband gets a good erection sometimes,but when he starts having sex he is losing it. Like instead of he would get really hard from playing with him, he gets limp.Like from any stimulation of his penis.. So ,the opposite happens, what should, that he turns off from arrousin... (70 words)

Will he start to back away from our relationship due to the additional stress in his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now and things are going really well between us (no signs of him backing off or anything like that). 4 days ago he called to tell me that he is getting layed off (this stress now on top of other stresses in his life with work). We ... (206 words)

Can men still be turned on without having an erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was sleeping with this guy I'm seeing and we had both been drinking the night before. The next morning, we laid in bed for hours just cuddling and snuggling next to each other. At one point, he started getting really touchy feely and started to initiate sex. About two minutes ... (184 words)

How do I get over my ex when I have no opportunities to meet new girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my ex girl of 3 years and 9 months broke up with me 2 months ago... and iv been hurting ever since... i didnt talk to her for a few weeks till she called me for a favor to which i bent over backwards to make her happy by doing it... although i shouldnt have. and that was a week ... (243 words)

Squirting worries

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, iv noticed that when i cum its alot and its a very pale yellow colour, i know im not pissing because i go to the toilet before hand, could anyone please explain this to me?... (36 words)

I thought I didnt have romantic feelings for her anymore but now I wonder if I really do love her?

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok the story is really interesting ...long story short ..i dumped my gf cuz i didnt have romantic feelings for her but only loved her as my bestest friend which i realised really very late ...our relationship was for 9 months... we were friends after that and kept meeting... (284 words)

I'm crazy about a boy, but he lives very far away! Please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive met a boy.. and i am crazy about him! i met him after i accidently added him on msn, but when i saw how gorgeous he is, i couldnt help talking to him through webcam and msn. after a day, i also realised how funny, artistic, modest, thoughtful, gentlemanly and romantic he ... (163 words)

Questions abot the female form!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i feel weird asking this this but does the libia of the vagina "stick out". because a few people when they are in their swim suits something sticks out a little and i was wondering if it was her libia...and what is a hymen?... (44 words)

Is a druggie deadbeat dad better than no dad at all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - This is about relationship advice with my father. My father had been out of my life since I was 2 years old. He was a heavy pot smoker and wanted the drug more than a family. When I was 16 my half-sister contacted me through the web. So I got to meet my father after 14 ... (430 words)

Is his lack of jealousy just a lack of interest?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. He's a wonderful guy and a great boyfriend. He's very loving and kind. The only thing that's been worrying me lately is that nothing ever bothers him. I had some problems with my Ex-bf at the start of our relationship. My... (501 words)

My partner wont divorce his wife!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship for over 2 years now I am 52 and he is 62, i was married when i was 19 and left my husband 5 years ago, this is my first proper relationship since then, I was wary at the beginning about going into a relationship, but he was very kind and assured ... (226 words)

How do I let him know that I am ready for a serious relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a 18 year old guy, im fed up of sleeping around and really want to settle! theres this guy i want to try a relationship with, we have known each other for 4 years and he is just turning 20 in a few months. the only problem is he thinks im going to tell him that im not... (83 words)

Should I tell my ex's new girlfriend that he cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend dumped me by email over the Easter bank holiday, after an on/off relationship that spanned 26 years, telling me he had moved to Italy with his friend, which I knew was a lie because he had been phoning supposedly from Italian hotels and I got withheld number ... (155 words)

I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. and how do i control myself c... (92 words)

Can anyone tell whether I will bleed the first time I have sex?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay... i masturbate quite alot. but i guess its just something us girls dont admit to lol! anyway ive been with this guy now for a little under 7 months, and im not stupid i know sex will happen pretty soon! but we've not rushed anything.. my question is, if i can fit 2 finger... (90 words)

We have been getting on so well but now his ex is back in the picture!

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. About 3 or 4 weeks ago I started seeing a guy, who we shall call michael. It was very much him pursuing me and took me out on 3 dates, with a 4th planned for this week. We aren't going out yet but it was certainly going that way. He is a really nice guy, very sweet, always ... (343 words)

When will I feel okay again?

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21 July 2009 (F)

- I broke up with my live in partner of the last 4 years 4 months ago and I'm still get pangs of pain. We have had barely any contact over the last 4 months. We did speak once and he said he was in as much pain as I was but he didn't want to try again. I have got a lot better but ... (138 words)

Oral sex with a prostitute and now I'm scared!

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I had oral sex with a prostitute on a stag do. I wore a condom, she also inserted her finger into my rectum but she put a condom on her finger too. I kissed her on the lips and tongue a little bit but now i am scared i have caught something, mostly scared because i dont know ... (84 words)

Pregnant-but had mini period and now confused!

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I've just found out that me and my fiance are expecting our 2nd baby! I'm thrilled as we planned it, but also a bit shocked and scared. And a little confused as to how far along I am..Because 2 weeks ago I had a very very light period, it was barely there and had no ... (156 words)

How do I trust someone who doesn't trust themselves

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been having a rocky time with my partner lately about trust issues and that. We have been together for about 2 months now and we both feel attached to each other. There is major trust issues between us. I've made mistakes whilst I was with her like I was just having ... (483 words)

New hot date! Face is a mess! What should I do?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i have a date this saturday with a guy i met off the internet...he seems great, good looking etc....but i have bad acne...lumps on my cheeks etc and my confidence is on the floor....even with makeup the lumps can be seen...im not sure if i should cancel and see if they get ... (69 words)

Broke up, trying to stay friends but I'm unsure how to proceed

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All - i have recently split from my girlfriend (3 weeks ago) and for those 3 weeks we have been going through the angry, bitter stage as you do - i have been pretty gutted about it all and she seems the opposite however sunday night we we're both round a friends house for a ... (183 words)

My boyfriend suddenly doesn't trust me

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend has been acting like a little strange lately. Like he's a chill sorta dude but lately he freaks out about the littlest things! Like on my myspace i change my mood status a lot and for one it said "talking on the phone with ----" and like he totally freaked! He ... (129 words)

Sister-in-law is showing she's very insecure by flirting.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My sister-in-law has asked me out for what I thought was gratitude for taking care of her child some time ago. We have gone out twice. The last time instead she floored me claiming relationship problems she's having with my brother. That he's in contact with his ex.I have ... (472 words)

How do you get through to someone that would rather yell than discuss

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know that most people have a tumultuous relationship with their mothers while going through their teen years - I did, and I still do. I haven't had a bad life by any means and for the most part my family is pretty functional and normal (certainly to the outsider) with the... (273 words)

A Fickle Ex BF. How Do You Fix A Fickle Person?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just realized that my ex and I broke up cos he's fickle. He claims he just wasn't feeling it anymore. But he seemed happy daily, contacted me daily and even when given the opportunity to be alone or hang w/ friends - he'd wanna see me. He made up other excuses for breaking up ... (261 words)

What do you use for your allergies?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Not a relationship question, but just wondering something out of curiosity. Does anyone here have allergies? and if so, what do you use for them? Mine have seemed to be getting stronger lately, and because of this I can't get sleep! I take some pills,and the pills don't work! ... (69 words)

Family making fun of my best friend and his family

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im 13 and i have this best friend and he has a sister the same age as my older brother, then my older brother decided to go out with my best mates sister and i thought this would be awkward but it turned out to make us better friends and i even became great friends with his ... (228 words)

Is sending jokes with sexual innuendo to other females a sign of something more?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age - Do you think that sending jokes with sexual innuendo by email or text to another woman is a sign that my husband is having an affair? One of the text jokes he had already sent to me and I said how funny it was then caught him out forwarding it to her a few days later. I know ... (156 words)

He's talking about having kids, but I'm scared it will ruin things

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sooo im 17 ill be 18 in three months and my boyfriend has asked me to marry him. We've been together almost 3 years now and we both love each other so much! I really love this boy and i think he's amazing and sweet and just PERFECT for me! I know we were made for each other! ... (181 words)

Do girls like guys that write poetry?

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hey im 14 and i hate to boast but im quite a poet. i also write songs and i have even wrote a book. but the problem is i was wondering do girls like this in a guy or do they think that it is stupid? please help me because i dont know.... (53 words)

I hate smoking more than I love him.

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had always known my boyfriend smoked when he went out to pubs and clubs but it didn't bother me. Now 6 years later he has changed jobs to an outdoor job and seems to be smoking here and there. I'm gutted cos i thought our relationship was progressing towards engagement and ... (90 words)

How do we stop fighting over every little thing?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid, I've been with my online boyfriend for 14 months. A big problem is that fight constantly!!! We fight about the smallest things ever but we still love each other just as much. We are very jealous people, and we tell each other to block several of our friends on m... (211 words)

I'm grossed out by my BFs sexual past with his ex

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year now and I still get grossed out because he did it bare with his ex girlfriend who doesn't have good hygiene... he told me that he did it bare with her bare when they were together and I've had previous partners as well, ... (118 words)

Who has more to deal with? The cheater or the cheated on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

21 July 2009 (F)

age - Hi Aunts, I know this is a very broad question but through your experiences do you think it's the person who's been cheated on or the one who's done the cheating that has more to come to terms with? My husband had a flirtation (which I believe did not become physical)... (289 words)

Is the babies father able to accompany me to the Doctors?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 yrs old and pregnant with a 19 yr old guy i've been dating for almost 2yrs. Hes very active in both mine and the babys life and wanted to keep it as soon as he found out. because he is so active though, he wants to be involved in all the doctor visits i go to and i'm not ... (112 words)

Can it work to have a relationship with a professional escort?

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Since February 2009, I have been dating an escort from a Western European country. She and I have seen each other 9 times for up to one week at a time and sometimes for as little as 2 days at a time. She has been very open in telling me she loves me, misses me and we have ... (424 words)

Does this seem like an overreaction?

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here's the deal. Around late June, my girlfriend asked me to hold onto a piece of sheet music for her because she didn't want to lose it. She would ask for it a few times to practice, seeing as how her choir class would be performing the song during Graduation. Wel... (285 words)

Would getting away from everything be a good move?

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21 July 2009 (M)

age - I was with someone for over 5 yrs. Almost 2 weeks ago we split as per usual. Think our record has been 2 weeks without breaking up. Always the same thing cropping up again and again. Lets just say some would call it cheating. Last week i realised i was looking at girls for the ... (246 words)

Did I do the right thing? Could I have done things differently?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is not a relationship question. This happened months ago, and I wonder if I have done the right thing. I went on a field trip with people from my college to a medical school. The others seemed hostile towards me to begin with...example:We got to tour the place where we ... (1069 words)

She only ever talks about her problems, never listens to mine

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, This may be quite a common situation, but I haven't really been exposed to it. This question is a friendship question, and I know it's long, but I'd really appreciate your persistence! I'm 15 years old, although I'm commonly mistaken for a lot older; much olde... (884 words)

He's planned to get his wisdom teeth out just before our holiday

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It seems like my boyfriend of three years just doesn't care when things are planned out. He and I are planning to take a romantic weekend trip to a nearby city. Today he went to the dentist to make an appointment to have his wisdom teeth taken out. The day is set: wednesday. ... (157 words)

He's gone from contacting me daily to hardly ever

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't get it. My ex and I had a good relationship. He called/msged me daily or would offer to come see me daily. I hardly ever initiated contact cause he always called/came over..but I dug it. We broke up cause it seems like financial/home life stuff was piling up for him. We ... (239 words)

My friends feel more like family than my actual family do

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I would assume its an issue. When I'm around my parents I'm quiet, easily annoyed and angered. I have a step-mother, with her I feel like the 3rd party ya know? I get left out with my family. Cleaning,running errands for my parents and what-knots.But when I'm around ... (116 words)

Feeling left out and a little used

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone have any feelings, opinions or advice on this? What would you do in this situation? I have a friend who is a mom of one of my girls' friends. We have gotten to know each other pretty well. We carpool to the kids' sports activities, etc. She always asks... (185 words)

Should I date the best friend of the guy I lost my virginity to?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I lost my virginity to this guy about two months ago and I have not seen him since that night and he talks shit about me. His best friend has liked me for awhile and I've treated him bad, until recently when I discovered i really like him. We hung out Saturday night and then ... (148 words)

How can I get over my shyness when I meet all my BFs friends?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Needing some help! I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. I have met his best friend and his mom and sister. But his birthday is this week, and a collection of his friends and family are going to be there. I am nervous about being there, but I want to make a good ... (113 words)

Why won't he let this girl go and be with me?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and just recently, four months ago met a guy at school who is 30 years old. I have never been able to cope with guys my own age cause of maturity. but anyway I met the guy in college and I guess I talked first kinda flirting asking can I sit here and he'd say ... (568 words)

We're going to be roommates, and I'm attracted to him! Should I say something now or when we are sharing a roof?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I recently started working for a new company. About 2 months after being there, I started inquiring to some of my coworkers that I was tired of living alone and was possibly looking to get a roommate or find a new place with roommates. I was having this conversation with one ... (296 words)

I'm a masculine guy who wants a masculine guy...but I can't find anyone. Help, I'm sick of being alone!

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is there anyone who feels like I do? Im a 19 year old masculine gay guy and I live in this small town in north Carolina and there are almost no gay guys here. There's a few promiscuious feminine guys but I don't want anything to do with them. I'm a masculine guy who wants a ... (85 words)

Should I tell more people I am bi? Do guys like girls who are bi?

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21 July 2009 (?) age 26-29 - hi well im bi and my girl friend is my best friend at school people know she is bi but only like 5 people know i am should ilet more people know that i am? and do guys like bi girls just wondering plz help... (46 words)

I'm finally content after our breakup and don't want to be heartbroken again...but I'm pregnant with his baby and don't know what to do

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my Fiance of 3 years broke up 7 months ago. However, I am pregnant with his baby. We have remained friends and our friendship has gotten much better since January. Our relationship ended because I cheated on him over a year ago and he never got over it. We also began to ... (179 words)

How do I ask my girlfriend to masturbate with me? I don't want her to break up with me!

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I was wondering if girls masturbate as often as boys? I want to ask my girlfriend to do it with me, but idk if shell break up with me or something. How should I ask her?... (36 words)

It bothers me that she's slept with so many people. I value sex, and she has just been giving it away

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend is 19 and so am i. She has had sex with seven different guys, including me, while i've only had sex with her. Ever since she told me about that, i haven't had the same respect for her and i feel like i cant see her the same way. a lot of the times she had sex ... (141 words)

I want my boyfriend to plan something for us to do. How do I make this happen?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i get the guy i like to come up with the idea to make a plan with me? is this even possible? (i heard that guys don't do so well with subtle hints many times.) i really like this guy. i want him to come over next week when my parents are going to an all day bbq to c... (133 words)

I've changed since me and my ex broke up, and now I want her back!

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21 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for almost 2 years with this girl.. We broke up because of my jealousy issues. About 2 months after breaking up i met this other girl and now we're dating. She is awesome but a HUGE flirt. She flirts with other guys left and right.. But for some reason ... (175 words)

I attract quiet innocent guys, how to attract sexually adventurous ones?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I look very sweet, lovely and innocent and so I tend to attract guys who are looking for those qualities, especially because I'm quite shy with people I've just met. The thing is, I'm actually nothing like that - I'm really wild, free and sexual. So the guys I do date end up ... (114 words)

Would it be proper to ask a guy to hang out at your house on a first get together?

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21 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i am thinking of asking the guy i like out and i think he will say yes as i know he likes me as well. i was thinking that we could hang out at my house as i know neither of us has a lot of money. is this okay to do for a first date or would it be considered two people just ... (74 words)

Do some guys prefer drugs over girls, as in a relationship?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy for several months and he still wouldnt say we were in a relationship and kept asking for sex. I didnt do him any "favors" and one day, I got really fed up with all of it and left. The thing that I dont understand is that he has so many friends and is very ... (156 words)

He seemed interested after I initiated the moves, now he has backed off, what do I do?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, i started seeing thia guy i work with. we went on a couple dates, all three of which i had to ask for, but he was more than willing to comply. then there were a few nights of just hanging out (again, i initiated, but there really wasnt any hesitation from him) then one ... (244 words)

How do I get to know him without being too obvious?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There's a guy I'd be very interested in getting to know more. He's a friend of a friend of mine and seems a lot more mature than most guys my age (normally I have to go for guys at least 10 years older than me to get this kind of maturity). The first few times we met he seemed ... (221 words)

My husband get angry, throws things and sometimes hits me, what should I do?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, ok my question is more of a long story that i need advice on my husband has this thing where i cant do anything right he will give me a list of things he wants done before he gets home and i will do my best to finish them but he never belives that i have done any... (205 words)

This guy likes me, I have not dated, how will I know if I like him?

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21 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i know this guy who likes me, but i'm not sure if i like him the same way or not yet, as i have never had any experience with dating as i have always focused on school and spending time with my family. how will i know if i feel the same way about him as he feels about me?... (60 words)

Just had sex for the first time and it was painless! I don't understand.

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i am 15 and just lost my virginity today to my boyfriend. it was also his first time too. anyways he is like about 6 inches or something like that and when we had sex it didnt hurt me at all! i was already used to being fingered. anyways i didnt blead or anything and i guess ... (138 words)

I think I've lost his interest!

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I've lost the guy's interest I've been dating for almost 2 months now. He hasn't been showing me as much attention as he used to. He joked in the past it was a summer fling- and I went with it! I think it's because I didn't reciprocate a lot of my feelings for him.. I ... (107 words)

Will he ever be serious with me?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy three years ago and although we live in different countries we've stayed in touch. When we dated there was a huge amount of chemistry, we couldnt keep our hands off each other. I didnt feel important to him, i never met him on weekends, i never met his friends.... (238 words)

Am I wrong? Is he? Is my relationship over??

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night I came home to my man and told him that I was considering taking a pole dancing fitness class with a workmate who asked me to join her. It has always looked like a bit of cheeky fun and I really wanted to do it. He didn't like the idea, telling me only "sluts and ... (335 words)

He said he's not ready for a girlfriend right now, but he also told me he'd never let me go!

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im 15 and theres this guy ive been in loge with since december.. hes 16 and tells me he loves me too. first he had a girlfriend and we started talking and were like best friends. then i started to like him more than a friend. i just figured it would never work out so i ... (362 words)

The "wet" feeling after sex makes me cringe!

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i enjoy foreplay and i enjoy sexual activitied with my boyfriend, he makes me orgasm just about every time we do anything!! but i absolutly hate the 'wet' feeling, it makes me cringe! is this a common thing?... (38 words)

I'm feeling guilt and regret over losing my virginity!

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know theres no way i can go back or anything! but is there any ways of stoppin all this guilt and regret? ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. im 17 and hes 19, both virging when we got together, i always said i didnt want to loose my virginity until i was ... (328 words)

How do I tell my teacher to back off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

21 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Im concerned that my drama teacher likes me in a kinda wrong way. I like her too but it'd wrong to have a relationship with her. Shes about 24 and shes all ways making inuendo with me. Started off as some good ol' fashioned crudeness now its just out of hand. How do i tell her ... (66 words)

I'm developing confusing feelings for one of my girl friends!

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21 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I dont know what to do...when i say this out loud it makes me seem like a horrible awfull person wich i dont wanna be cos' i hate thinking like this and i want it to stop. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months and known him abit longer and i love him so much and the ... (215 words)

Is my 43 y.o. boyfriend obsessed??

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is my boyfriend obsessed?!?!? Ok. I think my boyfriend is obsessed with his ex wife's kids. (they aren't his kids, just hers). They dated for 2 months, got married, and he left the her after 2 weeks. (she was stealing meds from his mother and just so happened to be a drug add... (410 words)

Why do people judge other people because of their size?

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21 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this isnt relationship... but what exactly is wrong with 'fat' people? people slag them off, call them names, pick on them, bully them, talk about them! i dont get what the difference between a fat person and a thin person is? is it not the 'person' you like.. and you ... (106 words)