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writes:recently my boyfriend and i have talked about having sex, but just never had the chance and we are waiting on the right momment.. i am still not sure of it all to be honest with my self and he said to me ive always wanted to try it doggy style, i think we should do that on first. is this a good idea? and is it the same pleasure for the girl? is this classed as anal? Reply to this Question
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reader, sailorsoldier  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 My first time sucked. It hurt alot, and now i'm pregnant. I'm not saying that will happen to you but whatever you do make sure you want it and your ready. And absolutely make sure you use protection.
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reader, NoControl +, writes (4 January 2011):
How old are you? If you are 13, you should NOT have sex!! Good God that is way too young! Please, save yourself for a more mature age. Don't let the guy pressure you. Let him go find it somewhere else. At 13 you should be concentrating you YOU. Have fun with girls and guys alike. Sex should not even be a question at 13.
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reader, JustKalie1010  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 If you aren't ready, or have any doubts, it would be better to wait until you know you are ready.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 January 2011):
 First of all don't let him rush you if you're not ready. Your first time should be special, and it won't be if you don't feel right about it. Now, on to your questions.
Doggy style for the first time?
I wouldn't recommend it. I would recommend missionary. You can always switch to other positions later, but doggy style (while one of my favorites) is one of the least personal positions you can be in. Missionary will allow for eye contact and you to be much closer together. Save the experimentation for a time other than your first.
Is it the same pleasure for a girl?
Usually a girl's first time hurts. It varies how much it hurts from person to person, but it can start to feel good after. Everyone has different preferences for positions, so that is something you'll need to eventually find out for yourself.
Is it classed as anal?
No, anal sex means he is putting his penis in your anus.
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reader, parakiss +, writes (4 January 2011):
I can tell by the way you are writing that you're not ready to have sex because first time can be very painful ! And there can be a lot of blood... Also, doggy style is not anal. Most virgin girls can only have sex one way their first time and that is with the guy on top. I can't force you to not do anything, so if you're gonna have sex anyway, then please use a condom. You can get hpvs or stds from sex, even if the guy says he's " clean ".
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