A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i am student of engineering,19 in age.when i took admission in the college i had a friend A whom i liked very much. he also liked me very much as a friend ,being a gay i had crush on me. but after some time a got some other guy B who liked me very much and after sometime we had sex with eachother now after one and half year later i realised tht i really loved my friend A and want that he should be with me and when i approached him he said to me that so let me alone for someone else and now i have my own friends and its inpossible for me to comeback to you even as a good friend .it just crushed my feelings .i apploagise to him many times he even siad yes but i think he is neglecting me . he doesnt answer my messages and never col me and never give me friendly response.is there any solution through which i can get my frnd A back to my life i just love him very much. i dont want him to make any sexual realtoins with as many gays would suppose to have but i just want that he should become my really very friend again
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (4 January 2011):
hi
do you think he feels like you dumped him when you got a boyfriend? you have told him that you want him back as a friend so now that he knows that you are just gonna have to be patient i think and if he wants to come back one day he will. you can't make someone be in your life if it isn't what they want so really nothing further you can do but wait, maybe send the OCCASIONAL message so he knows he hasn't burned his bridges with you, but do not put pressure on him coz he probably won't respond well to it
xx
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