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Ladies if a guy lacks in looks but is dynamite in bed, would you still date him?

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Question - (4 January 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2011)
A male Australia age 30-35, *pnwinchester writes:

Girls, If you knew of a guy who was incredible in bed, TRULY amazing, like he could give you many intense amazing orgasms and could go for as long as you needed, would that make you start flirting with him and trying to get with him on that fact alone?

My friend was telling me of a new guy at his school that every girl is now flirting with like crazy because they found out he is incredible in bed, even though he isn't THAT attractive.

I was just wondering if this would make any girl crazy about him....?

Or at least want to try and have sex with him?

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A female reader, StraightTalker United Kingdom +, writes (11 January 2011):

To fancy a guy just because people say he is good in bed is not only shallow because attraction should be based on more than that, it is also ilogical! Just because what he did in bed works for one person doesn't mean it would work for the next person! I have been told by some partners that I am amazing in bed, i have also been told I'm crap. Also I have had sex with guys who were apparently "brilliant" in bed but they haven't done it for me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011):

Trust, connection, personality etc

being good in bed is just a bonus!

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (4 January 2011):

Illithid agony auntWell that really depends, doesn't it? Is he moral? Intelligent? Does he ever cheat on a girlfriend? Does he smoke or do drugs? Do you have any interests in common? Is he funny? Is he patient? Does he have a bad temper? What are his plans for marriage or children? Does he have a job? Is he very active or very lazy? Do you have any chemistry?

Or is he to be judged only by the sex and his physical attractiveness?

Sex is nice, but it's hardly enough to base a relationship on. And if a guy is only moderately attractive, that's not enough to deny a relationship.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (4 January 2011):

Honeypie agony aunt

Would I ever have dated a guy because he was "supposedly" red hot in bed? Nope.

Maybe there is more to him then what you can see? Like a great personality, sense of humor ?

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (4 January 2011):

LazyGuy agony auntHow would she know you are gods gift to women in the bedroom if she never actually dates you first?

On the whole, walking up to strange women introducing yourself as Mr Stud does not have the desired result.

I tried.

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