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writes:So I've like this guy for almost 2 years in high school and we never dated or anything. But i just saw him again after a few years and now we've talked about our feelings back in high school. he said he was naive and he didn't know what he wanted and he was trying to kiss me all night even though he knew i have a boyfriend which that relationship isn't going well at all either so we talked all night about how i felt and how i was hurt a lot in my relationship. i don't know if he's just trying to get in my pants or i don't know. like im getting mixed messages from this guy and i said even if we kissed it wouldn't mean anything the next day. his reply was it would mean something to him but he's just really hard to read so i don't know if he really likes me or not! he talked about how he wants a relationship now but i just felt like all he was trying to do is just make out with me all night i wouldn't because i was like even though im not in the best relationship i would never cheat. i just want to know if he really cares about me or not....
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 hi
do you want to know if he really cares about you so that will help you decide whether to dump your boyfriend or not? be careful if yo go down this route coz a decent guy might have a problem with taking you seriously or trusting you as a girlfriend if he can manage to take you from another man.
yu are not gonna know his intentions unless you take this risk, even by asking him, he is more likely to give the answer he thinks is the correct one. just be very careful, get your current relationship either mended or end it before you get involved with someone else. he knows you have got a boyfriend and youhave told him you won't cheat but he is not listening, he sounds a bit disrespectful to me
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): I think that you have a right to worry. I'm only 14, but if I was in you're place, I would be on my guard. I would give him a chance, and see how it goes. If things feel wrong, take a break. It really matters on how YOU feel about him, and being with him. Hope this works, and best wishes!
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reader, Itsjustflirting  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 Play hard to get. Make him prove how bad he wants you. Eventually if he is just looking for some, he will get bored and move on. If he is truly wanting you, he will do whatever it takes to get you to want him back. But kissing him and playing with his heart with no intentions of ever leaving your current b/f is wrong to him and your current b/f.
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