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writes:This guy and I were communicating on Skype as friends b/c we are Long distance. We've known each other for 4 years now since we met in person. We used to email before then we turned to Skype and he erased me from his contacts so I thought he cut-ted me off and I got really upset and asked him if he was banning me from his life. He left me on the loose for 4 days until he replied my email.He replied me the following: (xxxxxx,I got the Samsung Galaxy S phone. You can reach me xxxxxxxx@gmail.com.You needn't think that Skype is our only way to still talk. I'm sorry you were shocked.We're still friends as far as I am concerned.xxxxxxx)Now, I've sent messages for new years and today and he hasn't replied. Have I lost him? :-(The thing is that I still want to have him even as a friend :-(
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, he did answered me and we are still friends. Is me who I don't want to be as close anymore. I want him as my friend, but not as much as before. I think I deserve better treatment. Thanks for your words!
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reader, Little_aphrodite  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 Hi.. I know what do u feel now.. Because I have a similar case like yours now. If am in your position, I will do 2 things : just positive thinking and calm down your self.. We don't know what happens with him there. Maybe he is busy or has some problems there.
I know its not easy but we can't do anything.. Just keep send him some mails to him. But if he still doesn't reply anything, just move on girl.. Am sorry I only can give u that advice..
Just keep your smile and be always positive thinking.. :)
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 It sounds as though he's changed the way you two would be in contact. It doesn't sound as though he's making any effort to stay in contact right now. Maybe he's busy, maybe he has found someone and cannot chat on Skype any more. Perhaps your relationship has run its course and it's time for you to mourn the loss of the friend and then move on. I'm sorry, I don't have better advice than that.
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