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writes:Go with the flow? Or is it over? I met a guy online in the summer. He lives out of town so we met a few times, most recently over the holidays while he was in town.I texted him on December 30th and told him that "I missed him" and he replied saying he "missed me also". On New year's eve we texted each other wishing each other a Happy New Year.Today, we were texting and things went weird? I told him it was nice to see him and I had a good time last week. He replied saying he did too. I replied back saying perhaps we will see each other in another 4 months (as we discussed while he was here). He didn't reply. Of course, being the girl that I am waited about a 1/2 hour and then sent another text message saying... or, just go with the flow? He replied about 10 mintues later saying "good idea". At this point, I realized (or assumed) that he used me for sex and replied..."my bad, I understand..."I won't contact him anymore. Will leave it up to him to contact me. I feel cheaped and used. I was starting to develop some feelings for this guy.
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (4 January 2011):
"At this point, I realized (or assumed) that he used me for sex"
You realized that much, but then you said "Will leave it up to him to contact me."
Which will it be? Are you done because of what you realised, or do you need to feel more "cheaped and used"???
I understand the feelings part...but you do not want to feel the way you are feeling now..again...right :)
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