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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. I love him a lot and he says he feels the same way. For Christmas I got him a Wii, when I gave it to him it was before Christmas cause I was excited and didn't want to wait. He said that he didn't get me anything yet. Well obviously now it's way past Christmas and still nothing, not to mention my birthday is in 3 days. Am I just being a baby about this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWellll I just wanna let everyone know what I have still yet to receive a Christmas of birthday gift! :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): Uh, all I can say is that this is very, very, very awkward.
You either have a guy who doesn't believe in giving gifts to his gf, or someone who doesn't yet know that you exist.
Yeah, without any prompting, the birthday had better make up for all of it, or you are better off moving on.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 January 2011):
He sounds a bit selfish and cheap to me to be honest. But, like Illithid says, see what happens for your birthday. Let's just say it'd better be good.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (4 January 2011):
That's pretty cold of him. You are asking for diamonds, but after getting him something expensive like a Wii, he has to at least get you SOMETHING. And since he got his gift before Christmas, he hasn't got much of an excuse to leave you totally without. You're not being unfair. He's being cheap and thoughtless.
The only thing I can think of is that he might be doing something large and pricey for your birthday and couldn't afford both? Here's hoping that's the case...
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