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writes:I've been going out with my boyfriend for over a month now and I'm a bit worried about our sex life. We have yet to have sex, and though I'm not the pushiest girl when it comes to sex, I'd like to know if he's taking it slowly for a reason or if I shouldn't expect much more. We have quite intense foreplay but he never let's me finish him off, even though he's intent on making me come. He also never even hints at doing any more than just hand jobs. We have a really good relationship. Although we are quite awkward in public, ee can talk for hours and hours and spend forever just cuddling. He's also very attentive and pays attention to everything I say. I just don't understand why he won't take it to the next level.Is there a reason a guy would do that?Any answers would be appreciated.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 He's a gentleman and trying to be respectful...
Plus its only been a month, stop overthinking or help the brother out and make a move yourself.
I waited about 2 months to sleep with my current girl, thinkin' I was going at her pace and being respectful. Turns out she was just waiting for me to do all the escalating... bah.
A minute after we had sex for the first time she blurted out:
"About f***ing time!!!"
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reader, Ibeatwithmyhands  +, writes (5 January 2011):
I know this type. If the guy you're with can spend forever just cuddling, he's probably not the type that'll bring it to the "next level" proactively. If you're horny as hell and just want to bang, then you better make the move. You need to tell him what you want, if he is really as attentive as you say he is, he will listen. Usually guys like that, think sex is only ok if the girl ask for it. If you want sex, talk to him and demand for sex. Unless he came from some weird religious family background, then just keep it in pants till marriage or get a toy.
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