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30-35,
*milia_shayner
writes:Alright my dear friends...here we go.so im in love with my first love still. after being broken up for two years we chose to get back together. but since we've gotten back together. i dont feel confident. i feel like he's only with me bcuz im the only one that was willing that he finds acceptable. i think this might just be an insecurity but idk. it makes sense bcuz wen we first were together he ALWAYS ended up liking his best friend who happened to be a female. and now he is constantly on the fone with his newest "best friend", but i know the girl and she told me she doesnt want him like that but i still feel insecure. i told him for months i wanted him back but he made all kinds of excuses. then i found other guys to date and he got all weird and basically said that if i hadnt messed with those guys we'd be together. i dont see how that's even fair. :( i feel like either way he is unhappy and wont trust me and i feel like it's hard to trust him. theres double standards from both sides, and we both stress the other out. it's hard bcuz ive never loved anyone like this.
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reader, Ibeatwithmyhands +, writes (5 January 2011):
This just feels like a huge mess. Your first choice was right. You broke up with him and you should have stay broken up with him. Go find someone that'll make you feel secure and confident, find someone that'll make you not just happy but also enjoy life. You sound miserable around this guy. This is a lost cause and it'll only get worse if you keep this up. Plus from my experience, girls that are confident are usually good in bed.
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