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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and when it is just the 2 of us, it is the most amazing relationship I have ever been in. We totally get each other and feel comfortable talking about everything. The problem is my boyfriends friends... I know what you are thinking, "crazy needy girl can't deal with guy time.". That is not it at all! I love spending some time apart the problem is that my boyfriend spends a tremendous amount of time with his younger guy friends. One in particular has interrupted us doing you know what at least 3 times. My boyfriend lives alone in an apartment but his friend "jose" works less than 5 mins away and constantly shows up after work. Knocks for about 5 minutes and calls over and over again. So much so that I am beginning to wonder if he is in love with my boyfriend. I am not making this into something more than it is, it has gotten so bad that when his friend calls 5 times in a row and my boyfriend does finally answer the conversation goes something like this... "hey dude you home, I am gonna swing by for a bit." "yeah I'm here so is (insert me here) and we're just hanging out" "Dude why is she there? can't she go somewhere else?"... My boyfriend never being one to fight or argue just shuts up and tries to avoid it. When his friend comes over I hide in the room basically and stay out of the way. He'll stay for hours if I am not there and even if I am tries to convince my boyfriend to go places with him.He is amazingly vain, stares at himself constantly, has never had a serious girlfriend, has heated arguments with his guy friends when drunk, and it really makes me wonder... Could he be gay and in love with my boyfriend? Is that why he hates me so much?
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reader, Janety  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Well, he might not be gay.. he is just jealous because your bf is spending more time with you than with him.. Especially if he is that vain, he is selfish too.. He would like to spend time with your bf, and he doesn't understand how it is to be in a relationship, since he had none.. I don't know how you could deal with it, your bf needs to deal with it, he needs to tell this guy to stop calling him, and coming over when ur around.. if they want to spend time together, tell him to do it when you agree that way.. and not when u 2 are together..
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