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writes:I had a best guy friend and I had a crush on him. We got into a huge fight. I said some pretty nasty things to him. He was messing with me, putting me down and ditching me. He wanted to apologize to me, but i wouldn't let him. For past few months, he tried to talk to me. In the beginning, I refused to talk to him. However, I kinda open up at the same time not really. Recently, he removed me from his contacts.On one hand I do not want to go back to him. But on the other hand, I want us to be "friends" Should I apologize?
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reader, foolishsage +, writes (4 January 2011):
 You should apologize if you are sorry for something that you did - otherwise it would be insincere. Do not apologize because you want something - apologize if you are sorry for something, whether you want something from that person or not.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 January 2011):
 The only way I see anything happening with him is if you apologize. Do you want to still be friends with him? Did your feelings for him lead you to act the way you did those last few weeks?
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reader, JustKalie1010  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 If you think you really want to be his friend, then you should apologize. But if you feel like you're not ready yet, then wait a little while. Maybe you can just asked him if you guys can just forget the whole thing
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