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Is it ok to date two guys at the same time before being exclusive?

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Question - (4 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi there. I've ended up in a situation where I'm dating two blokes, and have never done this before. They are both great guys, although one seems overly obsessed with sex (which we havn't had yet). It is still early days for both of them and they are both lovely. Just wanted to know if it's ok to temporarily date two people at once before things become exclusive. One of them knows about the other one.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (5 January 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntWell just imagine who you want to be with long term and just a bit of advice dont take two long making up your mind because they both might get fed up and you will be left with nobody.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011):

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Thanks. The thing is I want to have a relationship with one lad, but it's hard to choose who.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (4 January 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntIf both men are clear that it is not exclusive then you are doing nothing wrong but just make sure that both men know were they stand with you, as someone can be easily mislead and think that they are exclusive so as long as you are open and honest then carry on with what feels right to you. Goodluck.

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