My worry is that I do not feel like his main girl whenever another girl is around!

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So, I am having a dilemma with an insecurity problems in my relationship. My boyfriend is a bit flirtatious and has a bit of a blunt personality. My worry is that I do not feel like his main girl whenever another girl is around. I don't mean to come off as jealous and don't want to. I almost never let him know things me feel uncomfortable nor do I discuss that sort of thing with me. I have discussed it only but one time. But now, he just got a new job at a place as manager and today we went in to buy something and I saw two girls there. One he made fun of, but the other he told me she was pretty. Why do I need to know that? but now, I am in fear of him and this girl becoming something, or him and her flirting. My boyfriend is not an asshole. He is a very mature, romantic guy. I have the hardest time being confident in our love. It makes me very nervous about him starting this new job. Any words of advice?

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