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writes:There is a guy, we met online a few years ago.I fell crazy in love with him, he said he loved me too and we would be together though I lived in Europe and he lived in Canada and we're from different cultures(he is a muslim). So after two years I went to see him in Canada, he was amazing, his family too. We made love and he was my first man and before I had to go back home he said he had a gf at the same time and he loved her... I came back to Europe, tried to stay frds with him though my heart was broken, but he was mean and wanted not to be in touch. Later on he came back saying he was sorry and missed me and that she broke up with him and I forgave him. We kept in touch till the next summer and I went to see him again though we used to argue a lot about him dating other girls, etc... I'm back home now, he broke up with me online saying he still loved her and didn't want me to come back again. I LOVE HIM very much still though he drinks, smokes, swears and fucks! I know he is not good for me but I can't move on either. I keep waiting till he comes back cuz he always does and I think he loves me too in a very "special" way. I dated one guy during the time I knew him in order to move on but it didn't help to get over him! How to get rid of this crazy love that kept me down for four years?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): he is using you because he knows you'll be there if he wants it to be. Don't let him treat you like this, just cut contact and wait untill you can see this for what it really is xxx
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reader, Single_lady +, writes (4 January 2011):
Single_lady is verified as being by the original poster of the question Dating is exhausting... It takes time to know someone and let him in. I feel numb, like I can't fall for anyone else. It breaks my heart to know that I might never see him again.
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reader, foolishsage  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 Date - date - date - date - date
Get out there and start seeing other guys - all types of guys. Keep yourself busy with dates - dating one other guy isn't going to do it. You need to see what's out there - believe me, there's plenty out there.
Good luck!
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