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writes:Well me and my ex-girlfriend broke up may of last year 2010.We was together 8yrs got 2 kids and was wanting to marry each other.Not going to get into the reasons we split to keep it kinda short.I have done the no contact with her i have went out and all that and still kept the kids in my life.Well now she is coming around alittle more staying the night we do sleep together aka sex cuddle talk.But she told me some of her wants me back but she isnt sure about the other half of her and she needs time to make her mind up.Well after close to a year i would think she would have her mind made up guess i am wrong?I have dated but no one has made my heart melt or skip a beat she holds the key to my heart i love her very much so.So how can i go about telling her she needs to make her mind up without risking the chance of getting back together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): I have tried to propose to her and she said no she couldnt do it right now a few months back.I know why we split it was most of my fault and i have fixed that.She has told me every time she even thinks of given me another chance i mess up again like calling her non stop,just dumb stuff.Just wish she could see that this is driving me crazy and i just want her.Just some days she wnats to see me the next she hates me the next we sleep together and it good for a few days then back to this again.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 hi
you don't go into the details of why you two split up and that is fine coz i don't need to know but whatever it was it is giving your girlfriend big doubts about whether she wants to come back to you properly. you both need to address those issues and either resolve them or if you can't at least learn to live with them if you are gonna be together. once those reasons are dealt with you can then think about getting back together properly, if the reasons are not dealt with then i think you have no real right to try to rush her to decide
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): It sounds like you want to marry her. Instead of giving her an ultimatum about coming back or leaving, why not propose?
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