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writes:Me my ex broke about 2 weeks now, she was so mad and fierous she dosent want to talk to me. Just last night she texted me saying she wants sex. I replyed no cause I have feelings for you still. For about an hour I texted her ok I'm giving in I want sex. She said fine come over, I came over and it was weird she didn't want to talk and dosent know if we should have sex, but she still wants sex. I said same here!. She told I should leave its not a good idea. I said I think that's what I was thinking. So I left but then she texted me to come back so I did. I went to her room and starting kissing on her neck and she said not my lips. I tryed to have sex but I felt akward about it. She then said are sleeping with anybody or been with anybody, I said no. She didn't believe me. So we stopped and fell asleep for a few hours. Then I woke up and tryed it again without saying anything and putting how I felt about her aside. It worked we both got good sex and felt good. The whole night we cuddled and slept.Was I wrong cause I still wanna be with her but she dosent want to get back with me.
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reader, ShiShisAdvice +, writes (28 January 2011):
 Well, it happens to all of us, sounds like you two still have a connection though. Try to work things out I say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): Incomplete break.
I believe in clean breaks in relationships, people get hurt either way but they get hurt more when a break up isn't clean and clear.
You should talk with her, not have sex with her, and see if there is something more to be said.
The sex is just confusing things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): i was in your position with my ex...and now when i look back on it, i felt used, maybe coz im female and we ended badly.. but i suggest u both leave it.. coz either way one of u's will feel used and end up hating eachother, its best not to for that reason! and it also puts less meanin to wen u both wer in a relationship together and havin sex,,, make her miss u.. then she'l want u back more!
p.s if its meant to be, it'l happen regardless
all the best x
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): Okay, I think that the reason she was so hesitant is because when a female (like myself) goes through hard break up, it extemley difficult to look at the person who broke your heart and feel okay about them. Mostly because we're very afraid of being hurt again. I think it's okay to gave sex with her, but don't be sending her mixed messages. Feeling the connection of sex from someone who your trying very hard to put in the past is difficult thing. It might end up hurting her even more
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