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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,So there's this guy, let's call him Joe.Joe and I met online, this summer, I found out he was in my school, so we chatted from time to time. We didn't become THAT close, but our relationship was OK one way or another.So well, I went to school this October and I saw him there, back then he was in a relationship with some girl although they broke up a month later, so all we did was exchange glanses, no talking.This stayed until now, we're in January, we talk on msn about 3 times a months , exchange glanses at school, but he never really talked to me.He is very nice and flirty on msn, and at school, my friends tell me that they saw him looking at me , like always, everytime we're in the same place, and he usually starts looking more when I'm sitting with some guy.This is so confusing, what should I do? Should I talk to him on MSN about this? I think he's cute, and I do want a chance with him, but I'm too shy and I know nothing about what he thinks of me although his friends seem to look at me when he's with them.Help Cupid.I seriously need you.Love,Confused
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 hi
what's stopping you from talking at school? you don't have to be as flirty as you are on MSN but just be nice. YOU are the only one stopping you from doing it, so er.. stop stopping yourself! sounds like he likes you :)
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reader, ninja26  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 ok, well if you truley want to talk to him you prolly need to make the first move! It doesn't look like he is. You could start with a "Hey" in the hallways just to see him he responds. And if what ur more comfortable with is talking over mgs then, yes, try hinting to the fact that you would like to talk at school to! but it looks as though you may have to take the first step! Hope that helps!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): He's shy. You're shy. He probably feels the same way you do.
It sounds like the online relationship should end a real one should start. Don't message him online. Ask him to spend time with you in a casual way face to face. Go sit next to him at lunch and just chat. Say more than hello to him when you see him. Find an excuse to spend time with him.
He will probably appreciate it and he sounds like he needs encouragement.
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