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writes:To make a long story short: a few months ago I was sooo hooked on my ex and my bf knew it and broke up with me because of my actions. I straightened out, stopped all contact with ex because I felt so miserable without my bf. I missed him so much that I barely could concentrate on studying for finals! We hot back together and he told me a few days ago that he's not happy. :( I'm trying so hard not to cry and act like it doesn't matter cuz he didn't break up with me. He says(of course) that his friends wondered why he was still with me and it's because he love me. I dont want him to feel like he's trapped in this relationship but I dnt want to lose him, either. I want to make him happy with me like it use to be; I dnt want him yo possibly regret us not being together, especially since I live with him And have an one year old son with him. ;( so I could t just ignore him. I really want us to work... ;(
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): Oh....ok honey, then you are on the right track...cutting the ex off is a great sign on your part.
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reader, Finicky One +, writes (6 January 2011):
Finicky One is verified as being by the original poster of the question The question wasn't mine. I'm still with him. Whoever wrote that question for me got my stuff twisted. Anyway, I know what you mean and that's why I stopped ALL contact with dude cause I wanna be with my bf. (I had thought I could've been friends with my ex but that shit didn't work out so i stopped) my bf knows I'm trying to be near him more and do the things I'm suppose to as his woman...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): I don't blame him honey...he did the right thing..he was actually trying to save himself the trouble and heartache of dealing with what would come if you kept in contact with the ex whom you have admitted to being totally into.
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