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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok, so i have an ex boyfriend. We have been together for almost 3 years. we have been talking since March 20,2008. In the beginning things were so good, which is what made me fall in love with him..but sooner than later things slowly starting falling apart. Every relationship has its ups and downs and ours surely did. And now its gotten to the point where i can say all the time " i dont have feelings for him, i wish we'd break up etc" and it has finally happened. but i just hate the way that it ended. he would stalk me, randomly show up at my house , i believe he is emotionally disturbed but through all the bs..i still find myself in love with him, but another side of me is like no, do not go back. Im pretty sure i wont go back this time considering the fact the police have been involved with us but why is it that i feel bad? like we should still be together..i just dont get it. He says he loves me but i think it is obsession.
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch +, writes (9 January 2011):
 there is an old song breakin up is hard to do but to everything there is a reason don't let yourself get stuck in the pattern of bad relationships i have been in one bad relationship after another and don't wish that for you it's dangerous and will cause you to loose all of your pride plus if you want children they don't need to grow up in that scene pull up your boot straps and walk away i didn't and wasted years i didn't need to waste
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