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writes:So here goes, I met this girl and we talked on the phone last night. We talked for about 30 min and I thought everything went really well. Out of the blue she was like " I have to take this call, can I call you back." Of course I said yes. She said she wanted to come over and watch some basketball games with me today. So after and hour and a half went buy and she didn't call back I sent her a text saying I was about to watch a movie with my roommate. Still no response. When the movie was over I sent here another text saying goodnight. Still no response. So this morning I gave her a good morning text. Still no response. I have had bad luck with women in the past. I'm starting to think she is just not interested. I guess are phone call didn't go as well as I thought it did. Do you think she is just not interested or is it possible that her phone died or something just came up. Thanks for the help, I really need my mind to be put at ease.
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reader, foolishsage +, writes (4 January 2011):
 Forgive me for being blunt, but it was just a 30 minute phone call. Move on.
The whole "out of the blue" thing was a pretty good indicator.
Even if she did have any level of interest, you following up with the text an hour and a half after she just went ghost on you makes you look like you're chasing her.
The good night and the good morning texts just put the smell of desperation in the air so heavily that she will never, ever call you.
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reader, doublejack +, writes (4 January 2011):
That's a lot of contact attempts with a girl you just met. I would not send any more texts or make any more calls until you hear from her. The ball is in her court, she said she'd call back. If you don't hear from her then you know.
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