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writes:Hi I just got done reading on of the questions on here about if men are surprised by the look of a womans breasts when they take there bra off so now I have a question of my own I'm 33 have had 4 kids and I have 36 D breasts so they are heavy and sag in my opinion they are gross and ugly my husband said they are still great is he lieing or do men still like breasts if they are not perfect any more
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): Tisha- Thank you so much for pointing that out. I apologize for neglecting that, and I can't believe I did, because one of our close family friends just went through breast replacement recently (she just had her areolas tattood on...neat concept if you ask me), and I just did a charity run for breast cancer awareness last weekend. I can't believe I wasn't thinking past the sexual side of breasts.
Humble apologies to the survivors out there!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (6 October 2010):
 And just to throw in the bit about fake breasts, in honor of Breast Cancer Month here in the US, some women don't choose fake breasts for sheer vanity. Some women have to have mastectomies that remove all breast tissue including nipples and then make some tough choices about reconstruction. Do they do the chest expanders that take a while to stretch the remaining skin to the right size? Do they get a flap taken from a muscle on their back? They get to go groovy things like chemotherapy and radiation and ongoing hormone therapy.
So remember all you people who poohpooh fake breasts that there may be a VERY good reason for them, and having people poke fun at them or disdain them for this very difficult choice isn't so nice.
Be thankful if you have healthy breasts, no matter what size they are. My sister's left breast tried to kill her. She had both removed so she would have to live in fear about the right one. She has fake breasts. I believe her husband is VERY happy with her fake breasts, because they are attached to a living, breathing, currently cancer-free wife.
I have another friend who just had a mastectomy too, she wasn't a candidate for lumpectomy. She's doing chest expanders. I think she's not going to do the nipple reconstruction though.
Another friend tested positive for the breast cancer gene and has an awful family history for it. She's elected a prophylactic mastectomy to stave off what will certainly come for her: breast cancer.
Fake boobs are great. I love fake boobs. They are so much better than NO boobs on a woman who has been through the wringer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): "perfect" is a relative term. Perfect in comparison to what? 36D are a nice size, actually a bit bigger then I usually go for, and I HATE fake breasts, so even if you are sagging a bit, I bet they are still hot. Now, women who let their entire bodies go, never work out, drinka dn smoke, etc...now then a set of floppy boobs is no more a turn on than their gut and cellulite. It's all relative. I'll take floppy naturals over firm fake ones anyday, as long as the woman is healthy and confident.
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reader, redchevygal +, writes (6 October 2010):
redchevygal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the boost to my confidence it really helps to know that other women have the same feeling I do but that there men still do find there aging breasts attractive
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reader, gamble2002 +, writes (5 October 2010):
My wife has breast fed our three children and she feel a lot like you do. But your husband is not lying. I love my wife's breast now more than when they were "perfect". This may sound corny, but those breast nourished 3 children for a total of over 7 years. They are indeed quite impressive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): We live all shapes and sizes of breasts. Listen they might not be as pert as they were in the past before your kids but don't ever think they're not as desirable as they were. Because your husband says they are and frankly he knows better than any of us, doesn't he?
No he's not lying, we love breasts and we love our partners breasts more than any other you know why? because they're our breasts, the ones we get play with. They will sag with age and pregnancy but we accept that in our women and in the women we desire and it doesn't make them less perfect to us. Just get a nice bra if you're unhappy with how they look, no guy other than your husband and perhaps doctor is going to see them outside that anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): Men like whosever’s breasts are with him/his at the time. In your married with kids case; your husband is definitely not lying.
He just didn’t want to say something overly complimentary that would have had you second guessing and worrying. Which is what ended up happening anyway...
Breasts are just breasts, but if you’re not going to take your very husband’s word for it, I don’t know how much help random strangers are going to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): It is entirely possible that your husband is telling the truth. Since it is subjective, men don't all agree on what is a good pair of breasts vs. what is not. Some men like bigger ones, other men like smaller ones for example. So even though they aren't as perky as they used to be, it is still very possible that your husband enjoys your breasts as much or maybe even more than he used to (if he likes bigger ones and they've grown after having 4 children, he could be quite happy). Personally, I'm more of a posterior fan so a woman's breasts aren't something I'm particularly fixated with.
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reader, AuntieSnap  +, writes (5 October 2010):
Hi Honey
Nope, he's not lying if he's anything like my husband. 23 years together, 2 teenagers, I'm 43 and boobs heading southward quicker migrating geese but hey my husband still thinks they are the best thing since sliced bread so who am I to argue? Its a comfort thing with blokes, they can letch and go "Pwarrrr" all they want, indeed my husband once ran into the back of another car while looking at boobs, but at the end of the day it's your pair he comes home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): Natural beauty is always the best beauty especially after having 4 kids and your body enduring what it did :)
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